Originally Posted by FryingMan
Memm, you mentioned memory with regards to mindfulness, how does memory training come out of mindfulness practice, or should one do other things focused on memory? PM exercises, or something else?
In a lot of ways mindfulness is memory training, but older languages tend to encompass so much more meaning in each word. There is a similar issues with Chinese words for martial arts, for example we say "turn the waist" in english but the Chinese word "kua" (that I read) really means waist / hips and much in between. Similar with "sung" which is often translated to "relax" but really means a whole bunch of other things. Getting off track but my point is don't think "mindfulness" is just "being aware" or something only to do with awareness.
Anyway.
I probably don't know all the ways but here is everything I can think of:
- Focusing on the breath calms down the mind, removing extra thoughts, this trains concentration, meaning you can zip from one object of attention to another and not get sidetracked
- The second part is the act of returning to the breath when you do get sidetracked, without memory, as in remembering what you were just doing, you would never come back to the breath, so this trains memory / PM
- The mind not getting sidetracked means it can spend more power on whatever your current attention is on, it's not just that though, the mind "opens up" and relaxes so whatever you focus on you remember much better
- It also I think trains the "inner eye" or "little spy inside the mind" (read this description somewhere) also known as "mindfulness", which is not something that ever really goes away, it's that ability of noticing what your current state is, or noticing that you're currently noticing, honestly I don't know how deep this rabbit hole goes
The trick is if you simply get rid of all thought (which you can force to do) you get higher focus, and this trains concentration but not memory per se (although it affects it), so it needs to be a balance between concentration and coming back to the breath.
I'm not an expert but in my experience it's good to start with the focusing on just the breath and later when you've relaxed to let your mind wander to the noises you can hear, or the feelings in the body, or whatever else you can get distracted by and then returning back to the breath and then repeating that. The only warning with doing this is that it can make you hypersensitive when your mindfulness of the surroundings start to outweigh your concentration. I once got up from meditation and every light in the house seemed like the sun and even the ticking noise the clock on the wall was making made me dizzy, I had to pick a spot and just stare at it with all my focus for a few minutes to return to normal.
So imagine what a highly focused mind could do for getting you lucid. That was like an hour long meditation though and I haven't done anything similar since.
Anyway, have fun, the mind is very powerful and mysterious.
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It occurred to me some things might be difficult to understand without having some degree of experience with meditation, or at least how deep it can go. I am by no means an expert and I encourage everyone to read as much as possible on the subject to gain a full understanding but I want to share what my own meditation session might feel like and maybe it might help a bit. I doubt I've even scratched the surface but personally I think breath meditation is pretty safe so you can experiment a bit, there are other subjects that you can meditate on (such as death) which I have never done and I definitely think should never be done without supervision from somebody very well trained.
So here is a break down of what I do / might happen, take it all with a grain of salt, just my experience, maybe somebody can admonish me for some of these. This particular example would be single-pointedness / calm abiding meditation.
1. I sit down on a chair (I can't sit in half-lotus or any lotus for long enough yet to really get anywhere, but on a chair I can easily sit for 30 mins or more)
2. Make sure my back is as straight as possible, don't hunch over
3. Close my eyes and focus on the breath going in and out of my nostrils, it might be hard to get the location at first but gets easier with practice, try not to move the "location" of your breath detection because it messes with your focus
4. At first my mind is still having thoughts but I just keep focusing on the breath as much as I can and relax
5. The more my mind calms down the more I also relax, relaxing also helps fix your posture because everything sinks downward the way it should
6. Mind quietens down more and more, still some stray thoughts here and there but it's getting better, the better it gets the more focus there is
7. At some point I'm relaxed enough that I stop controlling the breath and simply pay attention to it, if you try to force yourself not to control the breath then that won't work, but if you simply have the intention of not controlling it then that will eventually lead to not controlling it
8. I don't think about whether I am successfully not controlling the breath or not, I don't think about how long I'm sitting for or if I'm doing it right or anything like that
9. At some point the focus on the breath going in and out is all there is
10. At some point I might lose the breath, I might control it a bit just to find it again
11. At some point (if you sit long enough) the focus is so great that you lose your body and the breath going in and out at the point of your focus is all there is
12. When you "lose" the body you feel light and floaty, at this stage the focus is quite extreme, it's the kind of focus where you could probably track the beating wings on a fly
13. I stay like this for a while, it's a great feeling, I don't want to get up anymore
14. I decide I've done enough and start coming around
15. Feeling returns to the body (if you lost it), the focus does not go away, I'm still highly focused
16. Slowly open eyes, take it easy
17. Massage face / head / ears / eyes / legs and anything else
18. Get up slowly and move around a bit (walking around helps)
19. Done! The focus gained is still with me, still highly focused, anything I look at is crisp in detail, I'm not distracted by any thoughts, I can sit down and do assignments or anything else with complete concentration
Don't worry about the senses thing, basically somewhere around #10 you can pay attention to your body and any sounds. For example let's say you meditate near your computer, you let the noise of the computer drag your attention from the breath for a moment, you "note" that your attention is no longer on your breath and when the noise is no longer of interest you return back to the breath. Other things you might "note" is the air, smell, your current feelings (emotional or just the body) etc...
Another way to practice the mindfulness part is to loosen up the focus and let your mind wander again then return to the breath.
Reaching #13 does take some practice and it's harder on some days than others, but once you get there once or twice you basically know "the path" your mind / body takes to get there and you can do it fairly quickly (like ~20 minutes).
Disclaimer: take with grain of salt, if you have a bad feeling stop, don't do anything stupid like meditating on a heavy subject (like death) without serious guidance / supervision, keep warm, don't get up too fast, and just generally take care of yourself
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