Thread: Shared Dreaming Counter-Argument

That sounds about right. It is all possible, but few will ever develop the skills needed.

Some thoughts on this:

We're omnivores on a world with limited resources: we live because others die. Telepathetic sharing is at a spiritual level, more like sharing your soul than sending a message. If you are open to that, you feel the contradiction of who you are, you can not escape the pain of empathy, and the knowledge of the crimes you commit or let others commit for you. And you expose yourself to those who would live at your expense. Nobody can deal with this, except in a very limited way. So those doors stay almost entirely closed.

When you are open, by definition you are not completely in control. Science and technology is about controlling things. If you can't control something, you can't perform a repeatable experiment, and you can't monetize it or otherwise harness it to your advantage. So the openness that is reflected in experiences of shared dreaming really does not lend itself very well to human exploitation.

We crave happiness, and contact, and personal power. To whatever extent you have psychic power, it is largely impossible to avoid abusing it in subtle ways. When you abuse it, others reflexively respond by using their power to limit your power, and to protect themselves by closing themselves. And your environment reacts to protect itself also, your karma works against you, so to speak.

Sharing a dream is a lot like seeing the future, its much the same thing but with regard to space rather than time. If you see the future intemperately, you define it in a way that prunes your own spiritual freedom or potential. I don't mean that you cause bad results, I mean that the unseen space of possibility that you live and breathe in spiritually dries up or freezes out as your visions manifest. It damages us personally, and if everyone could do this, it would destroy the world entirely. Things wouldn't develop or evolve, events would just flow out and disappear like water out of a spilled bucket. I don't understand why it works this way, but this is what my intuition says, and that for this reason our abilities are necessarily limited. And we cooperate with that limitation, we feel the unhealthy consequences and we shut it down willingly.

With effort, you can to some degree control things like heart rate, body temperature, hormone levels, etc. But for the most part these are left to subconscious control, because the temptations and risks would be too great if we controlled them consciously. They are subconscious by natural selection. Likewise with experiences like shared dreaming, except in a limited way or in exceptional circumstances.

I just gave a bunch of reasons that shared dreaming doesn't turn into radical new technology or ways of living. I don't mean to suggest that its not a natural part of who we are or that its unhealthy in moderation.

Originally Posted by Avian

I'm not saying you shouldn't believe in shared dreaming, or even that I don't, but I just got an interesting idea and I would like to share it. Your memory is in your brain. Your thoughts are in your brain. Therefore, if your mind were to somehow connect to the dream plane, you would literally have to receive real physical input from the dream plane, into your brain. Which means that the dream plane is either a physical plane, or is capable of holding or transmitting physical things like forces/energies, electrical currents, or maybe even objects. This creates some doubt in my mind as this concept could open up whole new abilities such as secret communications, storing/summoning objects using the dream plane, hacking or breaking someone's mind, or a number of things that would probably have a large role in modern society. I would also like to hear the forum's thoughts on this, and I'm up for debating if anyone wants to.

Exactly!
I've been using this argument myself, never mind all the other ones - I am convinced, we would see the fallout from such a scenario deeply engrained in culture; and would have found scientific proof by now, besides multiple usages - no matter where you move the goalposts. Curiosity fuelled by actuality, not wish-full thinking.

Also you brain would have to actually connect to the dream plane. I feel like having a portal to another dimension open up in your brain would cause some weird physics stuff to happen. And how would said dimension connect to your brain? Something has to connect it, it's not like it will just happen because you are sleeping... doors don't just open. There is a physical process to opening a door.

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At the same time, however, I refuse to disbelieve shared dreaming until I have done an experiment in a controlled environment.

"When you are open, by definition you are not completely in control. Science and technology is about controlling things. If you can't control something, you can't perform a repeatable experiment, and you can't monetize it or otherwise harness it to your advantage. So the openness that is reflected in experiences of shared dreaming really does not lend itself very well to human exploitation."

Now I don't want to sound mean, but it seems like you are just saying that shared dreaming doesn't follow the scientific process. And if it doesn't follow the scientific process it doesn't have any sort of logic to it. So while someone might say that you can't prove or disprove it with the scientific process, that is just a glorified way of saying it isn't real. You could be right if you say that, but it doesn't matter anyways because you will never have any evidence of it being real or not real, so you might as well just say it isn't. This is because there are literally millions of things that have no evidence as to whether they exist. So if your belief is entirely faith and nothing else would it not be hypocritical to disbelieve any of these millions of things, such as sasquatch, aliens, vampires, etc.

Avian:

I actually attempted a thread about how shared-dreaming might work some time back, called On the Nature of Shared Dreaming. Though it quickly wandered off topic, I think you might find some interesting stuff in it.

Hey, I wrote this topic on shared dreaming some time ago, you can have a read and let me know what you think. http://www.dreamviews.com/beyond-dre...-dreaming.html

Lately we had more success and I can save your time and say that shared dreaming does exist, there is no doubt about it.

It is nice to see that you are having right thoughts about it.

Well now, wouldn't disbelief in aliens be foolish just based off our current understanding?

That argument is not sound. Certainly some things are beyond our ability to prove or disprove, but that is because these things are not supposed to be physical. I actually very curious lately as to what drives the atheist or pure science mind set. It actually ends up being a extreme act of faith to feel like nothing exists that is not of the physical world. Some personality issue must be going on there, but I am not sure what.

No dimensional door needs to open in the brain. Dimensions exist on top of each other in the same space. That means no barrier exist between them. How can a barrier be between two things that occupy the same space?

Originally Posted by Avian

Your memory is in your brain. Your thoughts are in your brain. Therefore, if your mind were to somehow connect to the dream plane, you would literally have to receive real physical input from the dream plane, into your brain. Which means that the dream plane is either a physical plane, or is capable of holding or transmitting physical things like forces/energies, electrical currents, or maybe even objects.

These statements seem to be nothing more than a collection of assumptions and opinions, including the first two statements "your memory/thoughts are in your brain" even though they are presented as fact. It is quite possible that the brain is simply a medium between consciousness and the body/physical reality, and that thoughts and memory are functions and attributes of nonphysical consciousness that the brain decodes and transmits so that one may utilize these mental functions in the physical world. Perhaps the mind resonates on a much higher frequency than the physical dimension and the brain in a conduit that allows one's consciousness/mind to interact within a lower vibrational body.

Originally Posted by VinceField

These statements seem to be nothing more than a collection of assumptions and opinions, including the first two statements "your memory/thoughts are in your brain" even though they are presented as fact. It is quite possible that the brain is simply a medium between consciousness and the body/physical reality, and that thoughts and memory are functions and attributes of nonphysical consciousness that the brain decodes and transmits so that one may utilize these mental functions in the physical world. Perhaps the mind resonates on a much higher frequency than the physical dimension and the brain in a conduit that allows one's consciousness/mind to interact within a lower vibrational body.

I like that way of looking at it. While we can figure out physical ways the brain works, there are parts of a person's self that may not be directly because of the brain.

Well sivason you are partially correct about the "pure science/atheist" deal. Many such people are just as ignorant as a zealot blinded by their own faith. I would assume they are like that because they are cynical people and it makes them feel good about themselves. But me, I am not like that. I absolutely believe that anything is possible... in fact I have my very own set of beliefs that is certainly not "atheist". The reason I deny things I don't have proof of is because of this concept:
There are two types of probability, local and universal.
Since we cannot even be sure if our senses are correct, which means we can't be sure anything is real, the universal probability of anything is always 50/50. The local probability is the probability of something using the assumption that what we observe is the real world. Therefore I use the scientific method. So sure, I can believe anything on a philosophical level but it is absolutely impractical to not be an "atheist/pure science believer" on the level of average life. This is because (assuming you are being logical) if you believe in something without any reason or proof, you must also believe in any other thing that you have no reason or proof to believe or disbelieve. Therefore, if you believe in shared dreaming, you must also believe in dark magic, aliens, psi, monsters under your bed, monsters in the closet, zombie virus, illuminati, everyone is a robot except you, etc. Unless, of course, you are willing to admit you have an inclination towards believing shared dreaming but not these other things. So if you have a reason to believe shared dreaming but it isn't logic or proof, what is it? Maybe the mere fact that you want to? Which in turn means that you are a non-logical person, and there is nothing wrong with it, but that doesn't mean people will believe anything you say. I, in fact, also use such non-logical beliefs such as the fact that I believe there is something after death simply because I want to.

To VinceField:
The same thing goes for you. This is surely possible, and I don't see any reason you shouldn't believe that, but there is also absolutely no reason or proof you should. Therefore you might as well say it isn't real. Well, sure if you want to spice up your life with supernatural concepts such as these go for it, but I choose to live in this local reality because I think reality is extremely beautiful without human-imagined things, and if there is something innately supernatural or spiritual about it, I want to keep my eyes pealed for that instead of not seeing it because I am too focused on concepts of my own creation. Well, actually such as mentioned above there are a few things I choose to believe in, but I am very open and I don't bother pretending that I have any good reason to believe in them.


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Originally Posted by Avian

To VinceField:
The same thing goes for you. This is surely possible, and I don't see any reason you shouldn't believe that, but there is also absolutely no reason or proof you should. Therefore you might as well say it isn't real. Well, sure if you want to spice up your life with supernatural concepts such as these go for it, but I choose to live in this local reality because I think reality is extremely beautiful without human-imagined things, and if there is something innately supernatural or spiritual about it, I want to keep my eyes pealed for that instead of not seeing it because I am too focused on concepts of my own creation.

Well, I agree with your statement that there is no proof for the ideas that I presented (although I did not say that I believe they are true; I simply accept them as a possibility). However, it is a mistake to correlate a lack of physical proof with nonexistence. For one to say that something does not exist because it has not been proven by science (or any other means) is an act born of delusion, just as much as claiming that something does exist with no proof is.

Also, keep in mind that there is no proof for your statement implying that thoughts and memories are born from and contained within the brain, so I believe it is wise to avoid accepting such notions as fact. If you truly want to remain open to experience new concepts of a "supernatural" or "spiritual" nature, entertaining the false conviction that all mental activity is solely a product of the brain will certainly hinder this goal.

Avian, Does that argument actually make sense? First lets assume I have no proof (I will address that in a moment), it sounds like you are saying if I believe in something with no proof, I should believe in all things with no proof? As a rational being why would that hold true. If a child asks me to guess what they have behind their back, I am more likely to believe it is either food or a toy (with no proof) than I am to believ it is any severed part of a body. I have no proof for either; I believe one, but do not consider the other as practicle. In your example isn't dark magic and psi far more practicle than a monster under my bed. With no background of any kind, I may instictive know that monsters under my bed make far less sense than some theoretical form of energy I do not understand.

Now, how about proof? This subject matter will need proven to each individual as it is not easily demostrated and is easily faked.

Do I believe in shared dreaming? I have not experienced it, I have not met anyone on here who claims they can do it in a serious manner, but I do have experience with super-natural result in dreaming such as pre-cognition. So, I conclude it easily could be true, based on my own experience, yet reserve some doubt as I have seen little in the way of anything, even other peoples statements.

Aliens? Come on, do some research into modern cosmology. Of course I 100%+, as a scientist believe in aliens. Do I believe in aliens here on Earth? I find it very unlikely due to that same study of cosmology. Rational thought, leading me to varrying degrees of willingness to consider something.

Now, for the individual, what if that individual has 1st hand experience repeated thousands of times with other "super-natural" items? Can that really be considered believing without proof?

No one should even bother trying to convince another person. Go explore these things in a logical, scientific way that provides proof to only yourself. As an example put serious effort into Kundalini for a year. If it results in no weird sensations, well fine. If it does explore it more. Learn to do mental discipline tricks, through serious meditation, until you can do standard yogic tricks like walk outside in the snow naked and feel hot. That is where the proof is, in each persons willingness to do the steps involved,a nd either experiencing nothing or finding something.

I am not sure if you guys quite understand what I am trying to say. I am not in any way denying that any of these things exist. Well, let's take an imaginary object called "A". Then there are "B" and "C". We have proof that B exists, and we have proof that C does not exist. So B is in the realm of existing things and C is in the realm of non-existing things. We have no proof that A exists, and we have no proof that A doesn't exist. That puts A neither in the realm of existing things or non-existing things. There is no reason to believe in A, because there are literally infinite things like it that you have just as good reason to believe in. To do so would be absolutely random and illogical. Now take the object "D". We have no proof as to whether D exists, but there is a reason to believe it. Maybe you think it is cool, or maybe you have some evidence but it is not definitive. It is still not logical to believe in D in its current state, as it is still in the same group as A. This is a point where you might want to use the scientific method to take D and put it in the same group as B, or C, and then you will know its true state. But if you don't know the state of whether something exists, even if you have a reason to believe it, it is still illogical to believe it.

Ok. A B C D

If we have an item D that the world has not proven, but we have plenty of first hand experience with it, we should believe it because we know it exists AND not care what the world thinks.

If the item is A and truely silly such as 'everyone else is a robot" then we should decide it is so unlikely as to not warrant thought or consideration.

The items in D though, should not be disbelieved though. That is where you loose me. They should be placed in "the unkown, to be decided..." part of your rational thought.

The problem perhaps is for some bizarre reason you are placing psi type events on the same level of unlikely as say "mutant undead ice cream cones." That is unless I am missing why you seem to be saying ALL unproven things should be disbelieved in equal degrees.

Originally Posted by sivason

Well now, wouldn't disbelief in aliens be foolish just based off our current understanding?

Wait a minute, how? Could you elaborate on this please? Why would the very probable existence of aliens and the belief that they very probably exist be viewed by anyone (other than religious people) as foolish? To me this is not a very good argument, because given the great length of time that the universe has already existed and its vast reach, what exactly makes the idea that aliens might exist seem foolish? I get that you are trying to say that there isn't solid evidence proving they are real (even though there kind of is, although that is subject to another debate), but our current knowledge and understanding of the universe suggests that they would, in fact, exist, especially given the fact that we do. We have already found evidence of microorganisms living on different planets and celestial bodies other than our own, and we have found plenty of water on said bodies as well, even if it is frozen. Trying to use this to prove that disproving shared dreaming doesn't make sense... doesn't make sense. Now, using that argument to prove that disproving dreaming itself exists makes sense, because there isn't any "direct" way to prove dreaming actually occurs other than our subjective experiences, claims, and then brain scans and whatnot. Even then, that doesn't work well since there is a way of measuring "dreaming", so long as the subject can confirm they were dreaming during the time period in which the scans suggest dreaming is actually occurring. Shared dreaming on the other hand takes it a step further than that, and that is where your alien argument falls apart. For your alien argument to make more sense, you would have to claim that not only do aliens exist, but we make regular contact with them, only those who do are not allowed to tell anybody or have their memories wiped clean after contact. Then, you would be making a case, because nobody could prove you otherwise. Do you see what I'm saying?

Shared dreaming is actually very easy to proof in a scientific way. The only thing you need are some skilled lucid dreamers. Give one of them a number of word, let them share a dream and say this number/word to the other person. Check if the word/number they received, is correct.

It sounds really easy like this, but there will probably be some issues.

Originally Posted by Forg

Shared dreaming is actually very easy to proof in a scientific way. The only thing you need are some skilled lucid dreamers. Give one of them a number of word, let them share a dream and say this number/word to the other person. Check if the word/number they received, is correct.

It sounds really easy like this, but there will probably be some issues.

Let's start with the first huge issue. Please find me 2 people who claim to have this ability. Next out of the entire pool (so far zero) of suppossedly qualified subjects eliminate any who do not claim to be able to do this reliably with over a 50% success rate (so, zero minus, hmmm). Now come up with enough funding to take them away from their lives and fly them to a controlled enough enviroment (anyone that skilled is probably leading a good life and will want a nice vacation package for them and their spouse).

I am sure other problems would come up, but until you got that far, how could you even start?



Snoop, It was not my agrument. Read Avian's stuff and see if you can figure it out. He seemed to be saying if you believe in aliens then you also MUST believe in monsters under the bed AND shared dreaming. I was just as confused. See below,

Originally Posted by sivason

Avian, Does that argument actually make sense? First lets assume I have no proof (I will address that in a moment), it sounds like you are saying if I believe in something with no proof, I should believe in all things with no proof? As a rational being why would that hold true? .......
Aliens? Come on, do some research into modern cosmology. Of course I 100%+, as a scientist believe in aliens. Do I believe in aliens here on Earth? I find it very unlikely due to that same study of cosmology. Rational thought, leading me to varrying degrees of willingness to consider something.
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Sorry sviason, I misread your post, woops.

It is possible to have objective, independently verified evidence for something without being able to control it in a lab environment. To use a variation on Sivason's example, I don't think that the earth has alien visitors, and think that travel across space between stars in probably effectively impossible. However, suppose that aliens were frequently visiting the earth, and a lot of people were seeing them and talking to them. There's a level of evidence past which most reasonable people would conclude that the aliens are real. But that evidence would still be far short of being able to prove their existence in a controlled study, because scientists do not control the aliens. Scientific study in that sense isn't even the right way to approach the problem. The right kind of 'science' would be more like an objectively careful investigative journalism, such as how scientists study rare animals that they can't or don't want to harm by capture. It would be silly to argue that gorillas wouldn't exist if cameras didn't exist or if nobody had killed and dissected one.

It's reasonable for you to disbelieve in shared dreaming if you have seen no convincing evidence of it. But it's not reasonable to say that it's logically unreal just because a lot of people who have not studied it do not believe in it. The self-styled scientist types in this forum who doubt shared dreaming have not taken the kind of approach that a scientist would use to investigate the existence of a rare wild animal. First off you have to gather as much information as you can about where it is said to live, and what it looks like and how it behaves, so that you know how to look for it. But I've rarely seen a dream sharing skeptic who even understands very well what people mean when they say dream sharing, much less being willing to explore in that direction. It's perfectly reasonable not to be interested in that, and to nevertheless maintain the guess that its probably unreal. But beyond that, you're uninformed when you opine about it.

Originally Posted by Avian

I am not sure if you guys quite understand what I am trying to say.

Perhaps what you were trying to say was a bit different from what you actually said. I completely understood your posts and responded in complete accordance with the statements you had made. If I said something inappropriate or if you believe what I said doesn't apply, I would be interested to know.

So...your saying...if we believe in shared dreaming, we HAVE TO believe that somewhere out there, theres a talking tin man from the Wizard of Oz that is best friends with a talking, walking scarecrow. I don't follow this thought process.

Belief doesn't need the proof. To believe in something doesn't require existence of that something.
Proof is required by science.
Proof is not required for things that visibly do exist(things we all can observe by our senses).
Some things do exist but people don't know them and even don't believe they exist. Some things don't exist, but people believe they do exist.

I believe shared dreaming could exist, but I don't have proof. That leads to effort to find truth. And even if I don't find any, it will not mean that it doesn't exist for 100%. It will only mean that I can't master it for some reason, and that there is possibility that someone else could do it. It will remain belief till there is proof it exist.

Psionic,

If your astral projection is anything more than a lucid dream, it still seems to me that you should be able to learn to do some kind of weak shared dreaming in suitable circumstances, even if you can't control it well at all. Some ideas....

Try closing your eyes when in your 'astral' realm and paying more attention to what you feel. If you're in your 'mental' realm, from there a lucid audial or visual experience might be at your feet, so to speak, closer to the ground. You're aware of identity, but somehow you have to open or generalize your 'I' a little bit so that it includes aspects of other people that are metaphorically like aspects of you. Then the more concrete thoughts that manifest as dream experiences also belong to you a little bit. Like waves breaking on rocks on the beach, they break and become thoughts where you both are. So your thoughts are yours, but there is an element that is foreign. Pay attention to that foreign element, feel it, listen to what it wants to say. Empathize and let it speak through you, be it as well as yourself. This is a kind of letting go, you're not losing your identity or even losing awareness of it, but you're enough at ease with yourself that you can allow other people into it.

After you wake up, think and feel about the experience, and ask questions about what you're interested in. That keeps the wheel turning for the next night, like planting seeds for the next harvest. Maybe you will also notice connections between your dream experience and you waking life experiences the next day, particularly soon after waking. Those affinities are like the wave breaking over multiple rocks, and they're almost the same as the affinities with the people you dream about and as. If the next day you meet someone who is or says what you dreamed about you can call that precognition, but the order that the wave breaks over different rocks and becomes various related events doesn't determine the nature of the connection. You can think of it as a precognition of a later conversation about the experience, but it's more direct just to think about the connection. With repetition, you can use the externally precognitive experiences to objectively validate the reality of the interaction though, if that's important to you, and to prove it to other people who are interested in participating in that. I think that even scientific proof in a controlled study is possible, it just isn't easy, and there are a lot of barriers to the pursuit of that.

Maybe this doesn't work for you or you would have figured it out by now, since you've been interested in this for a while now. But that's my best suggestion today. Also be open to receiving help from providence or a friend of your deeper self, you can't do it all by yourself any more than you can control the waves when surfing.

Psionic,

Also, maybe try to think less of being in a particular place. When you do this you're not somewhere, traveling outside your physical body. The 'where' is mostly in relation to identity and metaphor. If your 'where' is spatial, you're only one place where nobody else quite is, and you're not doing it. Having a relatively weak sense of sight and space helps in this way. The sense of space helps you identify context, but if it is too strong it reduces the other dynamic so much that you can no longer recognize it, even though it's always still there.

While projecting I can't use thoughts... they disrupt state of consciousness and therefore much shorten experience. I use something like feelings... I can try to concentrate on finding something foreign... Dunno... Level of awareness is much higher than in waking state and I don't remember to be aware anything foreign in my mind... It is so clean... without thoughts... I would feel it if it is there.
I remember one accidental meeting(astral) with my brother, but it was different for him... Not much but enough to be in doubt. If that meeting in the same circumstances was with someone else, it would be much more believable as shared experience.
In LD I had a few encounters with various people but no proofs. I plan to try to speak to target persons with using their full name as was mentioned by someone here in dreamviews.
It would help if I manage LDs and OBEs much more often. 1-2 OBE and 4-5 LD per month is insufficient for my needs(for more experimentation) .

I'm interested in finding some kind of guide while doing LD and OBE, but even after all that time I 'm unsuccessful.