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I was so concerned about one of my guy-friends, knowing that he was dating a girl that might had ruined his life. I heard a lot of bad things about this girl. I loved my friend and I didn't want him to get hurt again. After the most painful breakup that he had experienced from his past girlfriend that made some changes to his attitudes which only me could notice, I never wanted him to experience that pain again. He was badly hurt when he realized the woman he loved so much only used him as a rebound to get even with her ex-boyfriend. He was willing to marry her but the girl left him to get back with her ex again – the man that she really loved. So sad that though my friend was so in love and faithful to her, this girl only played games with his heart only to make her ex realized that he was still in love with her.

Then, here came another woman that could make him to cry a river again. We, his friends had been trying to warn him about his new girl but he never listened to us. He even kept on defending her. He was too blind to see the truth for his strong desire over this woman. As a christian, I had got nothing else to do but to pray for my friend. And after a few nights of praying, I received an answer through a dream.

In my dream. The woman that he’s currently dating was crying. And she was chasing my friend while my friend kept on avoiding her. I really could feel how my friend felt in my dream. He was hurt and disappointed. He was mad and sad. I felt it all, too. He was so faithful to her but he discovered a skeleton in her closet that turned him off.

Two days after that dream, a big secret of this girl was revealed. There was a dirty old man who claimed to be the real boyfriend or the first in the line of my friend’s new girl. He was so furious and said the girl cheated her with my friend. But my friend didn’t know about this. All that he knew was that the woman loved him too and she was faithful to him when she actually was not. The old man also said that he had been sending out money to support her studies, etc. They were in a long-distance relationship. And for nine months being together, he already had sent almost a million dollar to this girl. He really loved this girl and he wanted to give the world to her. He said the girl promised him to marry him. This man sent a message to my friend through a micro-blogging site that said, “Tell your girlfriend that I want my money back.”

My friends and I were trying to defending my guy-friend and we told the old man that our friend didn’t know about him at all. And our friend, like him, was just another victim of this woman. He told us that it was not his intention to ruin my friend’s reputation. He just wanted our friend to know the kind of woman that they both loved. He admitted that he felt sorry for our friend.

The girl used the old man to get money easily while he used my friend to get the job she had always been dreaming of. My friend was so able to do it for her. She pretended that she really loved both my friend and the other guy for her own advantage. She’s indeed, “Best Actress in a Pretending Role”.

On the other hand, when my friend realized that he’s not the only man of his girl’s life, he decided to cut his relationship with the woman and to focus on his career for now. But yes, he was left with his heart broken into pieces again. The latest thing I heard about the girl is that she's dating a another millionaire that she can have in her hands from her new man.