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FreeOne
08-10-2007, 07:09 PM
"Update

well. i have been looking at the forum for the past year, and everyday there is at least 1 new "stuck on WILD" post. so, in hope to solve some of these posts, i have decided to try and answer some questions, and give some helpful links keep in mind that i am not an expert at WILD, but i have had plenty, and i know many of the answers to some of the popular questions of the "stuck on WILD" posts.

Before we get started there is one very important question that I need to answer.

What is WILD? WILD stands for Wake Iniciated Lucid Dream. So a WILD is any lucid dream that there was no lapse in conscious from waking, to dreaming. So there might be a couple other techniques on this forum that fall into that category.

so lets begin!


1. Do you have to sleep on your back? Nope! the back is comfortable for some people. and helps some people focus, but there is no way you are going to accomplish WILD if you are not comfortable! find a comfortable position whether it is your back, your side, your stomach, or slightly upright, and start WILDing from there.

2. What if you need to swallow? SWALLOW! everyone says "dont move or you will ruin everything!" but trying not to think about it is much worse! and forcing yourself not to swallow is hell. It will put you off much worse than just getting it over with and swallowing!

3. What if you have an itch? same as swallowing. Just itch it. dont make your life hell.

4. Do you have to have HI, Vibrations, and SP? No most people will have these symptoms, but some will not. And that is perfectly okay! you can still WILD without them. I personally get almost no HI, and i have never had SP (while WILDing anyway) HI vibrations and SP are more like clues to how far you are. They are helpful, but you dont need them.

5. When should i attempt WILD? always do a wbtb. The most popular spot for attempts is around 4-6 hours after you go to bed. Or first thing you wake up in the morning. whatever you choose, DO NOT TRY WILD RIGHT WHEN YOU GO TO BED! that's what discourages people when they don't have success. Your best dreams occur during REM sleep. REM sleep doesn't start till 90 min. after you go to sleep. And even then it will only last like 10 min. It is really difficult just to get to the transition stage when you first go to sleep. You are too awake for one, and for two, its f*cking 90 min away! I know it sounds hard, but trust me. You will have alot more success if you just tough it up and do the wbtb.

6. Do i have to count (1 im dreaming 2 im dreaming)? No there are lots of other choices. Some people like the counting, some people like to visualize. Some people like to MILD, and there are others like me out there who just like to chill and think about stuff to keep their mind busy. It is really a pick and choose thing. Just do what ever will keep you awake, but not too awake

7. how long does it take? Time? time varys. ALOT for some peole. It depends on when you try, and how awake you are, how close you are from REM, etc. I have had WILDs that have taken me only 5 min. or less. But i have also had WILDs that have taken me over an hour. just chill. You will get there eventually

8. I can get to the vibrations, but they always disapear. How can i stop this? The vibrations are very fragile. If you focus to much on them, they will go away. If you get to excited/suprised of them, they will go away from that too. Just observe them passively and try not to notice them. If they go away, dont ruin your attempt by getting out of bed and starting to bang your head on the nearest wall. Just wait for like 10 sec. 90% of the time, the vibrations come back!

9. I can get to SP, but I get stuck! how do i get to the dream? Here is what you could try. Try using movement. If you imagine yourself moving when this deeply relaxed, somtimes you can start feeling the imagined movement! This can be quite helpful if you dont know if you are dreaming yet. Just imagine yourself falling off your bed. If you hit the floor, and can feel the carpet, then you can be pretty sure that you are in a dream. Or imagine yourself sinking through your bed. If you start falling and land, then you can be pretty sure you are dreaming then too.
You can try visualizing the dream around you. and when you start smelling the smells and feeling the stuff to feel, and you can see your surroundings, you have a pretty safe bet that you can start exploring
(Only use this next thing if you have run out of all other options it can ruin a WILD pretty d*mn quick)
When all else fails, sometimes you just have to open your eyes. You might be dreaming already. I have had a couple WILDs where i think that its hopeless, and that i should just go back to sleep. only to open my eyes do a RC, and find out that i am already dreaming! only use this when you HAVE to though.

10. How long should my wbtb be? Some people say you should do a full wbtb (30-60 min) others say you should just get up get a drink and go to the bathroom. For me though, i say wbtb should be just long enough to get your mind awake. Not too awake of course, but awake enough so you don't just fall right back to sleep in 10 sec. I always try to lean towards the shorter side though.

11. Everytime i WILD, i fall asleep! how do i stop this? Focus a bit more next time, and if that doesnt work adjust your wbtb time! if you did a wbtb of 5 hours and you were too sleepy, try 4 hours, or 6, or 5 1/2. Adjusting wbtb times helps. But when it all comes down to the wire, you just need practice. You dont want to be too awake, but you dont want to be too sleepy either. you just need to find that balance

12. I followed the technique exactly, but it didnt work! why? The techniques are more like guides. Everyone is different. You have been hearing that since 1st grade. But nobody thinks about sleeping that way. Some peoples REM periods come at different times. some people need a firm matteress to fall asleep, others need soft ones. The list go's on and on. Everyone WILDs a bit different too. So the whole point of those WILD guides is for you to pick the one that will work best for you, then little by little, adjust and fine tune it so you can have a successful WILD! dont just keep following the techniques exactly. If somthing doesnt work, change it!

13. Is WILD the same as an OBE?No. For everyone that believes in OBEs they say they are very similar to WILD. But don’t get it confused. Sleep paralisis, hypnogogic imagery and all that other good stuff happens every night. You just arent conscious during them.

14. If I dream that I WILD does it count as a WILD? Some people may disagree with me on this, but I think the answer is yes. Let me explain. When you are dreaming, you are unconscious in real life, but in dream life you are conscious. You are consciously falling asleep in your dream world, with no lapse of consciousness in between, till you are lucid dreaming inside a dream! It still follows the definition. You weren’t conscious in real life, but you were conscious in your dream life.


and now for some helpful links


http://www.dreamviews.com/community/...ad.php?t=15190
Allinyourhead’s how to fail a WILD post

http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=1886
Gestalalteration’s WILD guide

http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=9806
Seeker’s 5 phases of WILD post

http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=30783
Billybob’s WILD guide

http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=40684
Clarity’s WILD guide

http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=35611
Gothlark’s WILD guide

http://dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?t=28818
Blade5x’s WILD guide

http://www.lucidcrossroads.co.uk/WILD.htm
lucid crossroad's WILD guide

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lucid_d...ams_.28WILD.29
wikipedia's WILD guide

http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/Lucid_D...echniques#WILD
a couple of WILD techniques from wikibooks

http://stason.org/TULARC/mind/lucid-...-techniqu.html
long WILD technique from stason.org There is a couple ads at the top. just scroll down to find it.

http://dreams.valasearch.com/lucid-dreaming/wild.html
dreams.valasearch.com's WILD guide.

http://zendreaming.blogspot.com/2004/09/lucid-dream-induction-wild.html
Great tutorial on WILD from Zendreaming.blogspot.com. I thought it was great anyway

http://www.lucidity.com/SleepAndCognition.html
It tells a little bit about WILDs but its more about lucid dreaming in general.

http://members.tripod.com/~o45tu/dic.htm
A dictionary of a lot of terms about dreaming. Almost nothing of WILD, but hey its cool.

http://www.wikihow.com/Lucid-Dream
A little lucid dream tutorial on wiki. Not much of WILD, but it has some good stuff

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070601140450AAb0ryH
A reader had a question about WILDs and someone wrote a pretty good response on how


well i hope this has helped some of you out and maybe if this survives, we will have less "stuck on WILD" posts "
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Spartiate
08-10-2007, 07:18 PM
Nice concise guide Freefire, good job ;)!

Elucive
08-10-2007, 07:30 PM
Freefire, I love you.

Xyn
08-10-2007, 07:34 PM
Wow, helped alot. Thanks!

bc8109
08-10-2007, 10:14 PM
excellent guide, and the links at the bottom are equally as helpful, if not more so! great work!

FreeOne
08-10-2007, 11:01 PM
thanks for the replys :) Freefire, I love you.
wow lol :shock:

anyway, i just added a couple more URLs if you didnt notice. I will probably be updating this alot with more URLs and common questions.

2Fruits
08-11-2007, 12:12 AM
Thanks for this freefire.

I originally had trouble becoming sleepy enough to WILD after a WBTB. Lately it has been after a minute or two I'll fall straight to sleep.

I think I shall increase the time I stay up a little. (Originally when I was too awake I'd stay up for about 40min. Now I stay up and get out of bed for about 2min.)

FreeOne
08-11-2007, 10:12 PM
ah crap. I just noticed some grammer errors :( but i cant edit my main post? whats with that?

KuRoSaKi
08-12-2007, 02:31 AM
Nice work FreeFire I'm sure this should answer a lot of questions for individuals who like to ask some of the same stuff a lot................I wonder if they will read it though O_O;

•Neko•
08-12-2007, 04:08 AM
Nice guide, freefire! This will prove useful in aiding my WILD attempts. :)

dodobird
08-12-2007, 04:57 AM
Thanks, this should be added to the tutorials section.

bro
08-30-2007, 08:50 PM
Thanks for this very helpful guide freefire, really, so many people can use this, a good use of your time and good work man! Really inspirational if nothing else, you got me excited again...

Thanks again;)

xdtimoxd
08-30-2007, 11:00 PM
2. What if you need to swallow? SWALLOW! everyone says "dont move or you will ruin everything!" but trying not to think about it is much worse! and forcing yourself to not itch is hell. It will put you off much worse than just getting it over with and swallowing!



well when i feel like swallowing i will try not to care. but i will swallow auto.

peppy
08-30-2007, 11:39 PM
Nice job freefire :)

Überschall
08-31-2007, 03:04 PM
Nice job! It answered a lot of my questions. I will try and WILD tonight again, hopin' your answers here help me! :D

Abra
08-31-2007, 03:17 PM
This is such an encouraging thread! I feel like trying again. I think I will!

gavin
08-31-2007, 03:43 PM
thanks

shaftmonkey
09-01-2007, 08:41 PM
im curious if any of you that have school have attempted a wbtb on a school night. I just dont know if i woul dbe tired or not.

Überschall
09-02-2007, 02:00 PM
I didn't try it yet but I think I've got an ideal position, seeing as my alarm goes off almost an hour before I have to go up which is enough for an LD I hope.

Abra
09-02-2007, 02:53 PM
I fell asleep on my first attempt. I was using a counting method slightly altered. I'd only go up to nine, and start back at one. That way I didn't get discouraged once I got to some absurd figure (such as 300).

The next night, I tried another counting technique. I made it to 365 and stopped because of a dull pain in my neck. It was only forty minutes, so I could've gone to 500 without sacrificing my sleep (I went to bed an hour earlier).

Both instances got me lucid in a later REM period, but it was too low to do what I wanted. :/

GestaltAlteration
09-02-2007, 06:08 PM
Ah, these are the types of things I should have included in the FAQ segment. I'm going to get around to updating the tutorial, in any case, with some of the things I'm researching. Very good post!

The Question
09-03-2007, 03:33 PM
This is an awesome post! I can never get past the vibrations they suprise me to much i guess i need to just stay still, thanks alot!

Kamikaze Spirit
09-04-2007, 01:47 PM
Thx for that,

I tried a WILD this afternoon and got to the vibrations but then lost it and gave up.

But with this help I'm going to try tonight and hopefully get some success.

Alvarian
09-04-2007, 08:55 PM
Really great pointers and tips, freefire. I haven't been doing much lately probably after a disaster I had with WILD where I just couldn't fall asleep after I tried and stayed awake in bed for like 3 hours... although, I guess to be fair I wasn't WBTBing. But when I tried WBTB at first, like 2Fruits, I fell asleep in like 30 seconds after I woke up lol. And then my 4 AM alarm might wake up the other people in my house as well... ahh, I guess I'll try WBTB again, and if I get awesome results I'll stick to it :p

FreeOne
11-23-2007, 04:32 PM
just a bump for the newbies. maybe it can help a few more people

innerspacecadet
11-23-2007, 05:10 PM
Gotta wonder why this was never stickied or put into Tutorials.

An hour or more to WILD? damn. That's sleep deprivation without the benefits of a WBTB! No wonder I've only done it during special spontaneous conditions where it only takes 5 minutes. I either give up after maybe 10 or 20 minutes, lose my concentration after that time, or stay awake the whole damn time and make myself cranky and frustrated and miserable.

I want to figure out a way to make myself WILD that works and that doesn't make me feel robbed of sleep. It would probably be more reliable than waiting for myself to recognize dream signs in a DILD.

soadfreak2121
11-23-2007, 05:54 PM
Wow thanks a lot.:D
This is one of the greatist WILD tutorials I've seen here!

Dakunesu
11-26-2007, 09:13 PM
arigato gazaimasu FreeFire (sorry for spelling errors)

FreeOne
11-26-2007, 10:10 PM
update! added about 5 links and a few more answered questions!

ninja9578
11-27-2007, 07:21 AM
I disagree with number 3. I think that if you have an itch for no reason (other than the blanket tickling you) then it's your body testing you to see if you are asleep or not. If you move it will know that you're not asleep and hold off shutting itself down.

Clairity taught me that. (http://www.dreamviews.com/community/showthread.php?p=476233#post476233)

FreeOne
11-27-2007, 11:26 AM
I disagree with number 3. I think that if you have an itch for no reason (other than the blanket tickling you) then it's your body testing you to see if you are asleep or not. If you move it will know that you're not asleep and hold off shutting itself down. I wouldnt say the body is testing you, but true it will hold off shutting itself down. What i was saying was If its that constant wont go away itch, Its better to just scratch it. It always set me back further just trying to ignore somthing that is so annoying.

I dont think the body is testing you to try and make you fail. Its just going to sleep. either come with it, or stay out of its way.

FreeOne
01-05-2008, 10:42 PM
ok i just got the links fixed. I bumped this again cause i've been seeing alot of WILD questions pop up. maybe this willl help again :)

pippo90
01-05-2008, 11:10 PM
I have trouble WAKing up from WBTB!!!

Last night i set the alarm for 5 hours and I even remmeber my alarm going off, and then i guess i just shut it off, didnt even get up? Should i put my alarm somewhere, where i have to actually get up and turn it off?

FreeOne
01-06-2008, 03:31 PM
I have trouble WAKing up from WBTB!!!

Last night i set the alarm for 5 hours and I even remmeber my alarm going off, and then i guess i just shut it off, didnt even get up? Should i put my alarm somewhere, where i have to actually get up and turn it off? putting your alarm somewhere far away from you bed would help alot :) also try setting a 2nd alarm about 10 apart from the first one. So if you do fall asleep, that will re-wake you up.

Oros
01-06-2008, 04:31 PM
I found this plant makes you go tired and then WILD. You might find me sick, but that's what the plant does. it's kind of drug plant i guess. haven't tried it.

sluggo
01-06-2008, 04:40 PM
what are we talking about here, weed? weed definetely makes me tired after a while, but it hinders my dream recall a lot so if i want to remember dreams or try to WILD I have to sleep like 8 hours to get rid of the stoniness, wake up for a bit and then go back to sleep.

unseen wombat
01-06-2008, 08:18 PM
Number 8 is me all the way. I just about always get vibrations, and then focus on them til they go away. I kind of discovered the solution to this this morning even before reading this thread. (confirmation is nice though). I focused only on my breathing when the vibrations came and they got really strong. I still lost it, but it happened on 2 separate occasions this morning.

Every baby step is getting me closer to Jessica Alba. :yeah:

Pancaka
01-06-2008, 08:35 PM
THANKYOU!!!!! :clap::goodidea::happyhappy::loveyou::bedtime:

FreeOne
03-08-2008, 08:40 PM
you guys are probably going to get tired of me bumping this, but you're going to have to deal with it :P (jk)

It hasnt been seen for awhile, and with all the WILD techniques in one post, its rather helpful for research. So heres the bump! now keep the topic alive this time! :pissed:

unseen wombat
03-11-2008, 11:57 AM
I've finally managed to WILD and I'm going to have to disagree with number three too (and number 2). Maybe future developments will make me rethink it, but for now, remaining completely still, especially when you feel an itch, is the path to success.

Having to swallow is especially hard, so I need to WILD from my side so I don't need to.

Kromoh
03-11-2008, 12:37 PM
You know, a hitn I'd use is "think about things half-heartedly, even about WILDing itself".. A WILD is suposed to be similar to meditating but not similar in the aspect of not having thoughts in your head. Some people just struggle to concentrate all they can - it's just like trying to listen to something by making a lot of noise.

When I prepare myself well anddo that, I never EVER feel the need to move. Should I ever do, I'll know it'll be my body testing to see if I'm awake or not. But I also believe that only happens when you are too awake.

That said, it's an amazing FAQ and guide. /me luvs it