Unintentional Ejaculation
Hey everyone! I'm new here but I have a few questions that I though some of you might be able to answer. So recently I've had a bit of good luck with my lucid endeavors! For the longest time I would only have the random LD due to getting too excited or frightened during sleep paralasis and snapping out of it. But for the past month whenever I take a mid day nap I am able to cruise right through it into an LD or OBE :D It's gotten to the point where i'm confident if I take a nap, I'll have an LD which I'm super stoked about. I attribute it to the fact that I'm just plain more experienced now and know what to expect during SP so I don't get so freaked out and snap out of it anymore. But I'm having a few problems. Everytime I've had an LD so far one of the first things I do is have sex (because...sex haha). But upon ejaculating in the dream I know I'll wake up to an actual mess in my real bed...this has happened the past five times and I don't know how to stop it! I just want to cum in my dream and not in my bed for once! Not very fun to clean up haha. So has anyone else had this sorta "problem" before? Also, once I slip from my body into the dream It feels like it's hard to keep my eyes open and I'm usually very awkward feeling for a while till it stabalizes a bit. But for the duration of the dream usually it's hard to keep my eyes open and I feel like if I try to open them too hard I'll open my real eyes. Any thoughts? Do I just need to stabalize more? Thanks!