Thread: Unintentional Ejaculation

I don't think it's avoidable. I mean, the same thing happens during non-lucid wet dreams, so.

Originally Posted by splodeymissile

I don't think it's avoidable. I mean, the same thing happens during non-lucid wet dreams, so.

Hmm I suppose. That sucks. I thought there might be a way to seperate the two in a lucid dream somehow?

Oh you're having the good times aren't you?

I actually don't know how you can avoid transposing your climax to your body, I don't think this it has ever happened to me. I do think you're quite lucky however.

Perhaps it would be easier to just make preparations before taking said naps?

Wait... I've thought that ejaculation during the night has nothing to do with dream orgasm and this is generally accepted statement. From my own experience I've never experienced "wet night", just orgasms in non-lucid dreams with no ejaculation at all. I've also tried sex a few times in my lucid dreams but with no orgasm so far. So think that your problem is very rare and not a common thing or am I wrong?

Wear a sock

I think it isn't that rare to ejaculate for real once you do in your dream, it happened to more numerous times too, although I wasn't lucid any of those times. During my LD's I tend to rather not have sex but find true joy and happiness through mundane things, like listening to music, seeing the sun rise, etc. I'm not asexual or anything but for me sexual fantasies in dreams feel like I'm being trapped by them and I lose control.

Weird. Never ejaculated waking life from dream, except my very very very first ejaculation when I was a kid. Which is a weird way to learn about first upon waking. :/ in dream sex I normally just orgasm in a second so that I am not taking my dream time doing it. I think that it might work for ya. Just go right when you first enter or whatever you do in dreams. I am not a fan of dream sex since it is similar to masturbating, but when your wife attacks you like that in a dream it is easier to say yes.

Originally Posted by Darkmatters

Wear a sock

Good suggestion or put toilet paper over your "area" and throw it away in the morning not too bad.

First about your unintentional Ejaculation. In dream this is common for men. Try to do it before sex (while dreaming):
You need simple and reliable idea to accept that you can do it in a long time. Do a work that you believe make your sex long (remember that I mean do it in your dream). For example you can wear a delay condom in your dream while sex. or spray delay spray. this works can really help. Because ejaculation in dream psychologically is fast generally.
For your body if you want to not being dirty as other members said you can put a socks.
About keeping your eyes open: I always say: our minds start dream at inner layers. I believe It's enough for you to be confident that opening your eyes will not really wake you up but wake you in another dream and this cause your False awakening. So ready for that to don't fall in False awakening. good luck.

Originally Posted by PinkMagick

Hey everyone! I'm new here but I have a few questions that I though some of you might be able to answer. So recently I've had a bit of good luck with my lucid endeavors! For the longest time I would only have the random LD due to getting too excited or frightened during sleep paralasis and snapping out of it. But for the past month whenever I take a mid day nap I am able to cruise right through it into an LD or OBE It's gotten to the point where i'm confident if I take a nap, I'll have an LD which I'm super stoked about. I attribute it to the fact that I'm just plain more experienced now and know what to expect during SP so I don't get so freaked out and snap out of it anymore. But I'm having a few problems. Everytime I've had an LD so far one of the first things I do is have sex (because...sex haha). But upon ejaculating in the dream I know I'll wake up to an actual mess in my real bed...this has happened the past five times and I don't know how to stop it! I just want to cum in my dream and not in my bed for once! Not very fun to clean up haha. So has anyone else had this sorta "problem" before? Also, once I slip from my body into the dream It feels like it's hard to keep my eyes open and I'm usually very awkward feeling for a while till it stabalizes a bit. But for the duration of the dream usually it's hard to keep my eyes open and I feel like if I try to open them too hard I'll open my real eyes. Any thoughts? Do I just need to stabalize more? Thanks!

I've had sex in lucid dreams quite a few times and while i've orgasmed and ejaculated in the dream, I haven't in real life so I don't know why that is happening to you.

I guess it is different from person to person. Because when I fuck some girl in a dream and come, I feel the orgasm and ejaculation, but I when I wake up I see it didn't happen. I guess it's better that way, because I don't have to clean up the mess.

This is interesting. I've never had a wet dream, but I've always wondered if it would happen to me had I ever reached climax within a dream. I've tried many times, never once finishing the act. I wonder though, since while you dream your body becomes paralyzed, how is it possible for an ejaculation to occur? Is it not the muscles within the penis that cause this? And is it not the muscles within our body that become paralyzed? Then again, we do get hard ons during rem, but why is this? Can anyone shed some light?

Well this is weird, i had always thought most people wake up to a mess after dream orgasms.

So far i always ejaculate in waking life when it happens in the dream. And at the point of ejaculation i can usually feel my physical body doing its thing (cumming), along with my dream body.

@ the person who was curious about how it happens when your body is supposed to be paralyzed. I guess dicks are excluded, because wet dreams and of course morning wood are pretty well documented.

EDIT: I have to say though, i think the mess is worth it.