Hi, First post here, long time lurker, and experienced lucid dreamer.
Anyways, I'm looking for some advice/help with a particular dream control problem I've been having. Of course, just stories of lucids where you've done this before are welcome too, that can always help inspire a way to do it in my own dreams. But I'm hoping someone might be able to provide some specific, tangible (in a manner of speaking) ways to accomplish this.
Basically, I've been trying to switch my sex (male to female) in my lucid dreams for a long time with varying degrees of success. It's always been a goal of mine and something I've really wanted to do. I have been successful, but for literal seconds before the dream ends. I've tried multiple techniques but can never seem to get any to really work.
So, one of the main methods I've used is transforming myself in a mirror. Doing this, I can generally transform specific parts of my body, but if I change one, the rest seem to snap back to their original form and/or something weird (like an arm that looks like spaghetti). Lately, I've masted the ability to simply will my appearance to become feminine when looking in a mirror, which basically means I can get my face to look female, along with being slightly thinner/less muscular. I can do the breasts pretty well, but they have a tendency to snap back to normal or look extremely deformed after a couple seconds. The biggest problem with using the mirror is that I don't end up really changing my dream body, but rather the reflection of me in the mirror. Something I haven't tried yet is trying to possess my mirror image, however I'm pretty sure that won't work for me, and because of that belief, it probably won't work.
When not using a mirror, I can create breasts pretty easily by simply putting my hands to my chest and pulling outwards. Suffers from the same flaw as when I do it in the mirror, but I can actually feel these and they appear on my dream body (unlike everything in the mirror, which only appears in the reflection and which I can't feel). I also have the ability to remove my man parts, at least sometimes, by having my hand hover over that area and slowly willing it to be so; however, I'm unable to actually form the proper female parts down there (I'm trying to not be NSFW or anything here, and if I am, I apologize; let me know if I am).
These are not the only techniques I've tried, but they are the most consistent in garnering results. I've asked DCs to change me, I've tried switching and/or possessing a DC, but neither have worked really well. Closing my eyes and spinning have actually been some of my most successful endeavors, but my dreams tend to end soon after. The mirror has gotten me results once or twice on my dream body as well. Not to mention various other techniques.
In relation to this, I have similar issues with any sort of shapeshifting. It's rather embarrassing, but I seem to get very sexually aroused when doing any sort of shapeshifting in a lucid dream. However, it's not as prevalent throughout most of my transformations and I can usually get by it without an issue. It happens virtually every time I try to do a gender switch (sex isn't even part of the goal) and it seems like it's blocking me from actually transforming. Most of the time it will wake me up because I can't seem to control it, unlike normal.
As far as shapeshifting goes, I have a hard time getting anything that doesn't look human to appear on me. If you have any tips when it comes to that, I'd appreciate that as well. I've really wanted to grow wings for awhile; I think I've been successful before, but I can't easily do it.
So yeah, those are my goals and my issues with achieving them. I'm hoping someone may be able to help me or give me some advice. Shapeshifting, and especially gender swapping, are things I really like to do and something I've been trying to be good at for a long time. After a couple years, I've grown a bit tired of constantly trying (which certainly isn't helping me), and I'm hoping someone might have an awesome idea or technique or something. My final notes would be that I suck at Summoning & my DCs are often jerks, so I tend to avoid them (though occasionally I do stuff with them). Also, like I've said, I'm an experienced lucid dreamer, I understand dream control pretty well, and I've read up on a lot of this.
Also, feel free to discuss times when you've swapped gender in your lucids. It could help spark an idea or something.
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