Thread: Wedding ceremony - my ex-Love and another unknown woman together getting married to one man

I think you are the missing bridegroom. You are missing from the wedding ceremony because you are unable to marry your ex, and are unwilling to marry another woman / any other woman / the unknown. So the wedding cannot take place because the bridegroom is not there. The wedding to the unknown and to your ex is happening at the same time, and the time of the wedding is "never." The dream shows you your resolution to not be with another woman and the consequence that you will thus never get married if you persist with this decision. While you had no emotions during the dream, did you have any emotional reaction after it? Did you wish the bridegroom had been there or do you accept his absence, are you ok with never getting married?

Hi JoannaB. Thanks for you took the time to think about my dream and posted your thoughts. But I think I cannot be the missing groom because in the dream I was sure that the groom was someone else and he was about to arrive there soon. It was also clear in the dream that my ex and another woman were getting married to the same groom at the same time which surprised me. The only feeling I had in the dream that I was surprised that how on earth 2 women were getting married to one man (definitely not me) at the same time and how on earth my ex was accepting this willingly and happily (she was smiling in the dream when she was taking her place on the stage clearly knowing that she was one of the two brides getting married one man as the same session). The entire dream just doesn't make sense to me at all. When I woke up I was surprised at how this sort of thing can happen. And the next thing that came in my mind was - is she in some sort of trouble with her current husband, does she need my help? I am ready to do anything for her if it helps, but I cannot help her if she does not contact me first. This is because the last thing she told me was - "don't call me again". I have to respect her wishes and I don't want to create any disturbance in her life, I will let her be in peace and at the same time make myself available at all times in case she needs me ever for anything.
I think I need to keep reminding myself that - "I know there is a reason for everything. Perhaps at the moment that an event occurs we have neither the insight nor the foresight to comprehend the reason, but with time and patience it will come light."
Anyway, JoannaB, thanks again for your time.

Ok, so maybe this dream represents the idea that you do not understand what your ex is doing and how she can want that no matter what it is, it just confuses you?

No, I doubt that your ex actually needs your help. Those kind of dreams are much more rare: dreams of knowing something in a dream that one does not know on waking life. Oh it happens, but the chance is much higher that the fear for her well being comes out of you internally not an external knowledge, and if she asked you not to contact her you got to respect that, as you know.

One thing to keep in mind is that dreams are rarely literal and your own initial reaction may not represent the true meaning of the dream. However, I do believe that when you encounter the true meaning, you as the dreamer will recognize it as the true meaning, so any interpretations that don't sound right to you, are probably not it. It is your dream.

Hi JoannaB. You really put efforts to analyze my dream. Thank you for your thoughts. And I think you are right about what you said.

May be it doesn't matter what this dream is indicating because what happens to her life now is out of my control as I am not allowed to interfere. It really doesn't matter whether I am worried or not. But from my life's experience I know that if a dream makes me think then it's giving me a clue of a current or future event. Sometimes it can be distant future as well - for example, one of my dream took about 8-9 months for me to understand the true meaning because an event occurred which was indicated in my dream 8-9 months prior to the event. That's why I was trying to understand this dream because I think this dream is trying to give me a clue about something that is going to happen. And because I care so much about this lady that I thought understanding the dream would be somewhat helpful. But anyway if it is really indicating something then I will know when it happens. There is nothing much I can do anyway. As long as she is safe that is all that matters.

So, "just wait and see" - that's all I can do, right?

Ah, so you already have had precognitive dreams. That may make a difference for sure, and then the likelihood of precognition is higher I would think since it has happened to you before. I have had a couple of precognitive dreams myself actually, but only a couple, and I don't know about you, but I can never tell in advance which of my dreams are going to come true in some way - do you? Also in my experience at least the precognition is not straightforward, so it is not like what happens can be easily for seen in advanced based on dream because it is an aspect of the dream in some way that then comes true, but so far at least I have not been able to figure it out in advanced. However, as I said I only have a couple of examples to work with for myself, which is too little to see a pattern. If you have had precognitive dreams more often, maybe you can tell whether there is some pattern between the dreams and what actually happens later? And thus, analyzing previous dreams and events might help you reach a better understanding?

Hi, dream land maybe I will help a little bit ,I think that the worst thing for a women is her husband cheating on her,so for you wished for ur ex love a constant hurt maybe,and that would make her comeback into your waiting arms,and I have a doubt that while you where with her you cheated on her and she found out ,so you made it for the groom a double trouble ,but in the dream you didn't feel anything because your subconscious staged it aswell, but even you saying that you will love her forever,in your dream you didn't feel anything and that must tell you something ,you are getting over her not by choice but because she wants you to ,and like you said in a few months you will meet someone who will respect your feelings and will give you an explanation before walking out of your life,good luck ,I hope I helped!

Hi Amedee. Thanks for your reply. Sorry I didn't reply earlier because I didn't login to this site for a long time. May be you are right, but I do not know. But I know for sure I do not wish hurt for her, I wish her happiness, I forgave her because I know she is weak. And I never cheated on her, she knows that very well. Trust was never an issue between us. We both trusted each other and we both have that trust still between us. I know what was her problem. But the bigger problem was she didn't allow me to help her to sort out her problem, she tried to solve her problem in her own way because she was scared to face her local guardians. She was planning something but she never shared her plan with me. If she would be open with me we could find a way for us. I am just worried if she is any sort of trouble, because if she is and if she let me know then I will help her no matter what it takes.

"in a few months you will meet someone who will respect your feelings and will give you an explanation before walking out of your life"? I don't know where you got this from. I don't think I said something like this. I don't expect to meet any other woman, I do not expect to fall in love again. All my life I was seeking my true love, I found her, my search is over. Well, she may not be with me but it doesn't mean that she is not my true love. I know she is the one, and I think she knows that too. I know she still thinks of me, I know exactly when she is thinking of me and what is in her mind - love or anger. I just wish I could understand that dream, because I know every dream has a meaning, at least every dream that I remembered after waking up had a meaning so far. I think I don't need to understand this dream as long as it doesn't indicate any sort of trouble to her.