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      Exclamation Baby Girl Dreams?

      Hello everybody!~ I'm fairly new to this website. I have joined to, hopefully, educate myself further about dreaming.

      Lately I have been having some dreams that somewhat worry me. It has been occurring over the last 3 nights.

      Night 1 (August 19th, 2015)- I dreamt that I was walking down the sidewalk holding hands with my current boyfriend. It was very nice and very peaceful. I could see that the sun was setting, which gave it kind of a romantic feel. I didn't notice anything out of the ordinary until my boyfriend reached over and placed his hand on my belly. I looked down and saw that I was heavily pregnant. I knew the baby was his and I had this feeling that the baby was a girl.

      Night 2 (August 20th, 2015)- I dreamt that I was sitting in my bedroom with my best friend. I was pregnant once again in this dream. It was night time, we were watching TV and holding casual conversation. Then I suddenly gave birth to my baby right there in my room. My friend witnessed the whole thing. The baby was, indeed, a baby girl. My mother then took the baby from me and refused to give her back. I fought with her, getting angrier and angrier, yelling, "She's MY baby! I'm the one who just gave birth to her!" until she finally gave in and returned my baby girl to me.

      Night 3 (August 21st, 2015)- I dreamt that I was standing with my boyfriend. I believe he was holding our daughter while I was on my phone. I was on Instagram putting a filter on a picture. The picture was of us holding our baby. I ended up not posting the picture on Instagram because I knew that not ALL of my friends knew I had the baby and I was afraid of what their reactions would be once they saw it on social media. Before the dream ended, I remember sitting with my best friend by a pool. We were discussing methods of contraception, condoms in particular. I made a comment, "Well I ended up with a baby anyway." her response to that was, "I know. I was there when she was born." [I strongly believe this was a reference to the last dream that I had where she witnessed the birth of my daughter.

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      -I am currently sexually active with my boyfriend. We do not have sex often, when we do we are sure to take precaution so we do not end up with an unwanted pregnancy. We are not ready to have a baby just yet, we are having sex as a way to show love for each other. My best friend (of 5 years) also does this and we do discuss our experiences in casual conversations at times.

      -I do not constantly daydream about having his baby. I do think about it sometimes, but not so much that it would leech it's way into my dreams. I do long to have a baby girl with him someday, when we are ready.

      -I do not have a very good relationship with my mother in reality. I can get very angry with her very easily and a fight can spark between us at any point. I fear that she will treat my children the way she has treated me. I'm afraid that she'll say things to my children that will influence their thoughts or behavior when I'm not around. She is a very judgmental person and I do not want my kids to think the way that she does.

      -I do have an Instagram account. I try to be careful about what I post there because some of the friends that follow me can be judgmental.

      My fear is that these dreams are premonitions.. I have had many of those before. But never like this. These dreams are almost like a timeline; pregnancy, birth, and then life afterwards. These dreams also seem like they take place in the near future. This is kind of hard for me to describe. I have had dreams where I see myself as an adult in the future, I've even seen my past self. I haven't seen my adult self here. This is my current self. My boyfriend doesn't think anything of it but I still worry about it because neither of us are ready for children. Is my boyfriend right? Are these just dreams? Or do they actually mean something?

      If anybody needs anymore details just let me know. Thanks to any and all replies in advance!

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      Just to start off by saying that a reliable rule of thumb is that about 85% or so of dreams are about inner parts of the dreamer while the rest relate to outer relationships etc. Of course, there can be a mixture of the two in any given dream.

      The facts contained in the thorough description of your current situation and of the people involved in my view seems to support the idea that your recent connected dreams about a baby girl are more probably about an inner part of you that was recently “born” (or soon could be) as opposed to the unexpected birth of an outer child.

      That’s partly because a girl in the dreams of a woman often represents her overall potential as a person which has to be “nurtured” and “cared for” over time.

      In this instance, you could try thinking back to just before the dreams began to see if anything spontaneously comes to mind that somehow links up with the idea of dismissing or overcoming some inner “judgmental” doubts about yourself and your capabilities as a person etc.

      In this way of looking at your dreams, your boyfriend likely represents, for example, a new sense of enterprise, assertiveness and focus which can bring about a “new birth” of your personality in some way if enough attention is paid to any such feelings.

      So the idea of the birth of a little girl could be repeating in order that you don’t ignore or reduce in some way a recent decision, event or new project idea etc. which might have been fairly subtle.

      If something seems to click about this way of looking at the dreams, then they should stop appearing, especially if you somehow take any necessary actions to make various potentials real in the outside world.

      Anyway, I hope that these brief ideas can be helpful in some way.

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      As Athanor said, it could certainly be a strictly symbolic birthing process and it's definitely worth analyzing those emotional aspects.
      On the other hand, I have had my fair share of baby dreams and though it's impossible to say, I felt that my body was trying to have a baby and/or someone was trying to reincarnate as my child. I eventually had a dream where I confronted a spirit child and told them I didn't want kids and they would have to find someone else. Since then I haven't had any baby dreams. It may purely be psychological, yet the nature of my intuitive dreams tend to have quite a bit to do with my external world.
      So that said, I would make sure you're using a reliable form of birth control (condoms aren't very reliable), make sure you're not currently pregnant, and perhaps talk with your boyfriend about mutual future family goals and explore within yourself how you feel about having children.
      As far as it being a premonition, that could also be possible but it's hard to say. Were you in familiar environments within the dream? Was there anything that stood that was unusual or out of place (besides the baby, of course)? Only time will tell.

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      This actually makes a lot of sense, it really does help. Thanks for the reply!

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      Dreams about being pregnant are always to do with birthing something new in your life. Dreams are not literal, visions are. Therefore, the three dreams together mean that you are about to give birth to something new in your life, there is a new thing about to happen and your boyfriend will be supportive with your friends of your decision and direction, however you should expect friction from your mother and those past feelings of doubt and rejection you have experienced will try to hold you back from accepting the new thing that is about to happen. The dream is encouraging you to accept what is new and don't let the past hold you back from negative thoughts about your future - your boyfriend and friends are there to lean on. Run with your dreams!

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