I found your post very relatable. Your dream is not weird at all, since I tend to view love/sex in dreams in a very similar way.
I even have a crush from high school who periodically pops up in my dreams. In waking life, I was too shy to ever talk to this girl. She has a boyfriend, much like yours. Though just like you described, in waking life, I barely knew this girl. Talked to her occasionally but never had the courage to ask her out or even really become friends with her. Though in dreams, we will be in that kind of close friendship or lightly romantic relationship. The dream plays out in the way it does to sort of represent that shyness and restraint, and how you view the situation.
I too, am a virgin in waking life. Though I've had quite a few sexual dreams, but never with my crush from high school. Most of them with a a certian dream guide... (She even has that car that drives on the autopilot.) Though not nearly as many as some other users on this website. Reason being, I am not a very sexually driven person. I have some gender identity issues and am a bit of a bisexual too. (As in, I am attracted to men, but I am generally more attracted to women.)
Agian, your dream isn't weird or in any way bad. You described it as enjoyable, so I see no reason for you to want to stop having it. If anything, I think it's better that your dreams are more focused on the socioemotional aspect of your relationship rather than the sexual element. It's just a representation of your perspective on your feelings.
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Actual dialogue between me and my friends:
Friend: "Alright who here is still a virgin?"
Sexual Friend: "NO!"
Female Friend: "Nope. Done it with my BF."
Me: "Uhh... do lucid dreams count?"
*Everyone cracks up laughing, myself included.*
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