Thread: Breakup

Although in order to provide a more accurate interpretation it would usually be best to have some additional general background information about you and your boyfriend (and a description of events just before these upsetting dreams began), there are a couple of ways to look at the meaning of your dreams.

For example, it’s unfortunately possible that the dreams are trying to show you that your boyfriend has actually stopped loving you and is hiding this from you at this time.

If so, the dreams are kind of trying to prepare you so that you won’t be too hurt if he suddenly leaves you etc. and you can be readier to make adjustments in your life.

Also, knowing what’s going on from what the dreams are telling you and not being totally surprised if he announced he’s dumping you would help to show him that you’re not a fool or a dupe who is easily taken in, therefore helping to reduce being humiliated if he were to stop seeing you.

Another way to look at the dreams is almost as bad because it could mean he made some decision or took an action etc. around a week ago when the dreams began which is related to some kind of strong liking he has for an activity, his job or something else he’s very interested in etc.

For instance, he might be about to change his attitude and pay a lot more attention to his job, a sport that he likes, video gaming or whatever else he enjoys doing day-to-day instead of paying attention deep down to you.

This activity etc. therefore would be symbolized by the other girls whom he “loves” more than you.

In this particular way of looking at the dreams, the idea would be that, though you might stay together, the relationship wouldn’t really be the best thing for you because he wouldn’t be truly committed to you deep down.

The dream about going to his estate and being blocked by a bridge and other obstacles might unfortunately be showing that he has changed his mind and coldly thinks he’s too good for you (as symbolized by the estate).

If so, it looks like it might not be worth trying to “bridge” this gap in his feelings for you because there are too many “obstacles” to overcome and it wouldn’t be worth it anyway because his attitude towards you is wrong and apparently might not change.

Anyway as mentioned, without knowing anything much about you, this way of looking at your hurtful dreams might not fit your personal circumstances very well, but I hope these ideas can be helpful in some way.

Please feel free to ask any questions or to make any comments about this particular way of looking at your dreams.