Thread: Dreaming of my daughter getting back together with her ex.

Hi,
If you answer the questions below as best you can recall, I will happily give you an interpretation of your dreams as if it was mine.

Location:
1. Where did the dream occur?
2. I want you to mentally turn to your left, right, in front and behind you and tell me what you see. Things I am fishing for include walls, what they're made of, trees, doors, windows, colours,etc.
3. For each thing you see, please tell me where they were relative to you the dreamer.

Lighting:
1. What was the lighting like in the dream?
2. Where did it come from?

Objects:
1. Was there any objects in the dream scene? Things I am fishing for include tables, furniture, beds, etc.
2. If there were any objects please tell me where they were relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, in front, behind, above or below. I'm also interested in any thing such as what they were made of, colour and age/style of them.

People:
1. Who exactly was in the scene with you?
2. For each person, please tell me the following:
* Where they were relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, in front, behind, above or below
* What they were wearing - tell me what their clothes were made of and any colours
* If there were any differences between the dream person and the real life person, please tell me about it
* Tell me EXACTLY, as best as you can recall, about any conversation or thoughts that occurred between you and anyone in the dream

Thoughts/Emotions:
* Tell me your first thought/emotion as the dream began
* Tell me of any changes to your thoughts/emotions as the dream was occurring
* Tell me of your last thought/emotion as the dream ended

I realize this might seem like a lot of work BUT I've learnt that we carefully construct our dreams full of symbolism and meaning if we are looking for it. When you've replied with you recollections, I will happily provide you with an interpretation of it as if it was my dream.

With kind regards,
Guy

Originally Posted by ghuntington

Hi,
If you answer the questions below as best you can recall, I will happily give you an interpretation of your dreams as if it was mine.

Location:
1. Where did the dream occur?
2. I want you to mentally turn to your left, right, in front and behind you and tell me what you see. Things I am fishing for include walls, what they're made of, trees, doors, windows, colours,etc.
3. For each thing you see, please tell me where they were relative to you the dreamer.

Lighting:
1. What was the lighting like in the dream?
2. Where did it come from?

Objects:
1. Was there any objects in the dream scene? Things I am fishing for include tables, furniture, beds, etc.
2. If there were any objects please tell me where they were relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, in front, behind, above or below. I'm also interested in any thing such as what they were made of, colour and age/style of them.

People:
1. Who exactly was in the scene with you?
2. For each person, please tell me the following:
* Where they were relative to you the dreamer, i.e. left, right, in front, behind, above or below
* What they were wearing - tell me what their clothes were made of and any colours
* If there were any differences between the dream person and the real life person, please tell me about it
* Tell me EXACTLY, as best as you can recall, about any conversation or thoughts that occurred between you and anyone in the dream

Thoughts/Emotions:
* Tell me your first thought/emotion as the dream began
* Tell me of any changes to your thoughts/emotions as the dream was occurring
* Tell me of your last thought/emotion as the dream ended

I realize this might seem like a lot of work BUT I've learnt that we carefully construct our dreams full of symbolism and meaning if we are looking for it. When you've replied with you recollections, I will happily provide you with an interpretation of it as if it was my dream.

With kind regards,
Guy

1. Location- house 2.Lighting- it was in the daytime the light came from a light switch. 3.Objects- No objects. 4. People- My daugter was in the dream and the father of her child i knew he was there but couldn't see him but as for my daughter she had on a ruffled white dressy shirt that's all i could see. 5. Thoughts- in the dream it was somthing like telepathic i knew they gotten back together.( i'm going to give you a little backgound on my daughter relationships).......Ok My daugher and her son's father are no longer together it's been years ago. But she did have a new relationship with a guy who she recently broke up with. In the dream my daughter son's father was in the dream but, i didn't see him i felt he was there but didn't see him. I saw my daughter who is related to me all dressed up in a white ruffle dressey shirt she was standing in a hallway close to the door on her way out we wasn't in our current home but in another home i never seen before i didn't see any furniture etc... Before she left she handed me a $10 dollar bill i wasn't sad in my dream i was happy the only thing i felt and sense was i knew they gotten back together again. When i awoke from the dream i knew in my heart it wasn't him that she had gotten back with only because she said mom there's no chance in hell i will ever get back with him very bad guy so, i felt it was the guy she recently had a relationship with. There really wasn't that much to the drea

Hi,
Dreams are for each of us to interpret on our own. Therefore, if anything I say below doesn’t resonate with you, then simply discard it. So with that said, off I go…

I first consider the location of my dream. I could have located it in any reality, at any time BUT I chose this place…a house AND, in a hallway in a house.

Rooms in my dreams are symbols of what I call “belief compartments”. These are beliefs we select before we incarnate that create our personalities. Each room is a symbol of different “belief walls” that work together, as the walls in the room do, to in effect spiritually contain us. We then have dreams in the rooms to symbolize to ourselves how our beliefs are now restricting our own spiritual growth.

So…there I am in a “belief compartment”…except it’s a hallway and not a room. So what’s with this?

Hallways are symbols of beliefs which are now beginning to confine me AND that I need to spiritually walk down. I am assuming I was standing in this hallway close to a door.

If so, this is a symbol that I am now able to stand “on my own spiritual feet” to see what I call are some of the “belief effects”. If I was sitting down, this indicates I need spiritual support to see the effects of my beliefs. If I am walking, it indicates I am able to begin to work my way through the beliefs the room is a symbol of.

The next thing I consider is lighting. Lighting is a way of symbolizing the vibrational state of our beliefs. Some of our beliefs are low vibration. In my dreams, this is usually symbolized by dark or dimness.

Frequently, I am in rooms using artificial light. I’ve learnt that this is a symbol that I am “en-lightening” myself. If there is sunlight or, if I am outside in the sun, this is a way of letting myself know that my higher self is assisting me. So, in this dream I am in a room where I am providing my own spiritual insight to myself.

So what do I mean about “belief effects”? Our underlying beliefs create our personality, which then creates, on a moment-by-moment basis, our thoughts/feelings. These are what I call “belief effects”. So what is an example of a belief effect…my ideas about money.

In this dream I am being given $10. Why am I using money in my dream?

I have learnt that money is one of many symbols I use for underlying beliefs I call “command/control”. They are masculine based beliefs, which I have learnt I am afraid of my feminine. As a result, the command/control beliefs seek to exert control over myself and hence others. In my dreams, I’ve learnt that I use a controller and a controlee to illustrate to myself about this belief.

So in this dream, my daughter is giving me $10. Is it my daughter or, is she a symbol? She’s a symbol of my feminine. She looks…very feminine. She’s wearing a white ruffled shirt.

I’ve learnt that in my dreams, when others or I are wearing clothes, these are symbols of beliefs we spiritually wear that “cloak us” with our beliefs. My feminine is wearing white…a symbol of unity.

I want to note that what I consider feminine and other cultures consider feminine are driven by my underlying beliefs. So in this dream, I am using my daughter, for reasons only I will know, as a symbol of my feminine.

My feminine is the controller in this dream. I am the controlee. To potentially confuse you a bit more, I ‘ve learnt that often my strong masculine beliefs create corresponding less strong feminine beliefs. This affects my ideas about masculine, i.e. men; feminine, i.e. women; relationships, roles and sex. Command/control beliefs are heavily masculine.

So in this dream my feminine is the controller. I am showing myself that my ideas of feminine are being driven by some of my masculine beliefs.

She’s paying me $10. In my dreams, I have learnt that numerology is a way we send ourselves messages. It doesn’t matter which resource a dreamer uses to interpret numbers in a dream as long as the reference resonates with the dreamer. In my dream interpretations I use the resource “Angel Numbers – Joanne Sacred Scribes”. Here’s what she says for the number 10:

Number 10 carries the energies of both the number 1 and the number 0. Number 10 resonates with the vibrations and energies of leadership, optimism, confidence, independence, creative powers, success, energy, originality, adaptability, determination and individuality. Number 10 reduces to the single digit of 1 (1+0=1). Number 1 resonates with the attributes of self-leadership and assertiveness, new beginnings and motivation, activity and progress, achievement and success. Number 1 also reminds us that we create our own realities with our beliefs, intentions and actions. Number 0 is the number of the ‘God’ force and Universal Energies and reinforces, amplifies and magnifies the vibrations of the numbers it appears with. Number 0 also relates to developing one’s spiritual aspects.

Angel Number 10 is a message that you are receiving insights and guidance from your angels through your ideas, thoughts, visions and feelings. Pay particular attention to your intuition at this time and take positive action as directed.

Angel Number 10 encourages you to move forward in your life with faith and trust that you are on the right path in all ways. Have no fear as your angels guide and support you every step of the way. Have faith that your inner-urgings are leading you in the right direction and you will find future success and fulfilment on your chosen path. Trust your angels and the Universal Energies.

Angel Number 10 brings a message to step forward in new directions and look to new beginnings with an optimistic and positive attitude as they will prove to be auspicious and beneficial to you in many ways, now and in the future.

This is a wonderful message I am sending myself!

So who is my daughter’s ex in this dream? Is he himself or a symbol? He’s a symbol... of my masculine. Very interesting…

I can’t see him in my dream. I’m not yet ready to deal with my masculine based beliefs this room is a symbol of. However, I really like my masculine based beliefs because my feminine is going out with them. In real life he’s “ a really bad guy”.

I’m sending myself a message my old ideas of masculine and feminine are no longer working for me. It’s time to spiritually sort of wake up and begin to address it. I am sending myself a message that I am ready to step forward in new directions.

So why is my daughter and I including a reference in this dream to my grandson? Is it him the dream is referring to or, is he a symbol too? It’s him.

This is a message to myself to spiritually assist my grandson in whatever way I can.

In summary, this dream interpretation might at first glance “seem way out there”. I’ve learnt that we frequently use people we know to act as symbols for ourselves in order for us to recall the dream upon waking.

Thus, in this dream, I’m using a prior relationship with my daughter and her not so nice ex getting back together. So, literally interpreting my dream, I woke up wondering if this could be true? When it didn’t resonate literally then I went looking for a way to explain this dream to myself.

If this was my dream, I would be quite excited. Why would I say this given what I’ve said above about my beliefs about masculine, feminine and command/control?

First, in the house I don’t see any furniture. In my dreams, when I first began to listen to myself many years ago, I was frequently locating my dreams in warehouses full of boxes or in houses with rooms full of furniture. As I learnt to use my higher self to interpret my dreams (which I learnt to do via meditations), imagine my own surprise when I learnt that not only are the rooms symbols of beliefs but also the furniture are as well!

Very slowly, over the years, the furniture left the rooms as I dealt with myself and my inner beliefs. Today, I have almost no furniture in rooms I go into.

Taking this understanding to this dream, I am showing myself that I have been steadily working on myself with respect to the beliefs the dream is about AND I am now getting ready to leave the empty rooms and hallways.

Second, I am standing near the door. Doors are symbols in my dreams of ways out of the belief compartments. In effect I am standing at the edge of opening one door to myself to a whole bigger part of me. That’s why I am sending myself a message via the number 10.

I hope that some of what I have said above resonates deep within you.

With kind regards,
Guy

Can this mean reconciling something bad in your experience?
Maybe a relationship yourself, if you were thinking of venturing out. Have you had a bad experience with a guy?