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    1. 07-05-2007 06:25 AM #1
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      Unhappy Why do i dream that he leaves me???

      Hi there everyone this the my very 1st posting but iv been desperate to find out what my dreams mean. Hope you can help. A bit of background first... My hubby and i have been married 5 years. We were both married before so its our 2nd marriage (dont know if that has anything to do with it.) Anyway since we have been been together i dream about once a month that he leaves me, and its never in a amicable way. Each way is different but i always feel totally gutted and destroyed at the way he exits my life. I don't mean that he dies, I mean that he just never comes home or up and says its over and storms off. I wake up crying, sobbing! He actually wakes me up because i am sobbing. It ruins my whole day and i walk around depressed and feeling empty for most of the day till he gets home. Even though i know he is devoted to me and loves me with all his heart i just can't stop having them and need to know what they mean.
      He thinks it might mean that i dont trust him or feel insecure but i do trust him. Its been going on for so long now that the last couple of times (last night was the last one) i feel angry with myself for having them. Is there anything i can do to stop them??

      Hope someone can offer some clarity on this
      Alicia
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    2. 07-10-2007 11:01 PM #2
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      I'll try my best!

      It seems to me that you're suffering from anxiety. Are you constantly thinking that he'll leave you during the waking hours? You say it's a 2nd marriage? Does that mean you've been divorced? If so, that could be triggering your depressing dreams.

      Your dreams could be telling you that you're not spending enough time together. Perhaps a long walk on the beach or a stroll across the park during sunset together will soothe the spirit.

      The next time you go bed, try this: tell yourself that your husband will not leave you. Try telling it to yourself without internal dialogue, I heard that helps to reach your subconscious.
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    3. 07-12-2007 06:26 AM #3
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      Thanks Il give that a go...
      I do feel at times as though i might lose him. waiting for the interpretation has made me focus on what the problem might be and i realised that sometimes i go to bed thinking that our time together is limited..for some reason i dont know.
      anyway thanks for the reply iwas starting to think that i wasnt going to get one.

      Peace and love to all
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