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      Dream about being raped(?)

      I had this dream where I was being shipped off to a week long retreat of some kind. We weren't allowed to take ANYTHING, and we were going to be searched to make sure. Of course, I tried to sneak things in. I managed to sneak in condoms and a bag of rice by stuffing in my bra, a place I was sure they wouldn't look. They did not search there, and so I got away with sneaking them in.

      The first night at this place we (myself and a group of other people) were shuffled into a cafeteria type place, where a group of boys were already hanging out. As I passed them, I looked at one and instantly recognized him as my ex-boyfriend's best friend, someone I had always found attractive. Since I was single now, I giggled a bit and waved. He didn't seem to recognize me at first, but when he did he left his group and stopped me from walking any further. I was flattered and a bit nervous, thinking he liked me.

      "Hey Emma." He said, grabbing onto my arm...I laughed and let him lead me outside into a field.

      "My general told me you stole from me." (In this dream he was in the army, though in real life he's attending university) I wasn't scared at this point in the dream, so I went along it and denied it.

      "He said you did, and now I'll teach you a lesson." He led me across the field to a place on the other side obstructed by tall grass. It was late at night, but I wasn't cold. I was totally under the impression was just joking around.

      He laid me on my back and proceeded to try and have sex with me, kissing me and whatnot. I figured in my mind that since I was attracted to him, I might as well. I remembered the condoms in my bra and gave him one.

      After a few minutes of having sex with him (Which in the dream was VERY painful... I'm not a virgin in real life, but I must have been in the dream), I told him to stop. He did, but he was really angry. I asked to see the condom, and he said he didn't know where he put it (????). I started to cry and ran back to where my group was staying. It was some kind of dorm now. I found an older girl who went to my school last year and asked her for help. She went to a nurse type person who gave me a pill (it must have been the emergency contraception?). Afterwards I felt a bit better, and after this the dream ends.

      In real life I haven't seen this guy for about a year. He and I got along fine, but my ex tells me he didn't like me at all. Which isn't really an issue for me. I am in my senior year in high school, and am 17. The boy is 18 now, and my ex is 19. We broke up about a year ago, though we still talk on occasion.

      At present, I have a thing for a boy at my school, whom I'm having trouble getting to know. I was wondering if this dream has anything to do with the boy at school? The boy at school is sending me some major mixed messages...

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      This is possible, because some dreams relate to thing's in the waking life. Look a dream dictionary on the internet or something to find out what boyfriends mean, or crush's ect. Maybe the dream is saying that you and him were not ment for eachother afterall.

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      To see grains of rice in your dream, symbolizes success, prosperity, luck, fertility and warm friendships.
      To see a wrapped condom in your dream, represents your one-sided viewpoints and not allowing others to voice their opinions. It also symbolizes sexual possibilities.

      Stuffing the condom/rice in your bra suggests forshadowing of what is about the happen in the dream.

      To dream that you have been raped, indicates vengeful feelings toward the opposite sex. You are feeling violated in some way or being taken advantage of. Something or someone is jeopardizing your self-esteem and emotional well-being. You feel that someone or something is being forced upon you. Dreams of rape are also common for those who were actually raped in their waking life.

      If you want my honest opinion, I believe this dream is significantly reflecting on the subconcious or repressed emotions you feel about these people in your waking life. Perhaps you felt that because in "real life", the raper didn't like you, you were offended by this and have repressed emotions about it.

      We dispell energy in our dreams that we would be unable to in our waking life, so a type of dream like this is not uncommon. Hope this helps

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