Thread: frequency of dreams

i've been a lucid dreamer for quite some time, and not until watching the movie Waking Life did i realize i had this skill. the last lucid dream i had was about 3 weeks ago when i was finishing up my nights sleep in my boyfriends bed, right next to his window. he had already been up for a couple hours and had gone on a bike ride. well, in my dream, a few minutes before i woke up, i saw out the window that a strange man was carrying my boyfriend's bike and coming into the house and to the room i was in. this person was very very large, and i couldn't make him out clearly, but it was definitly not my boyfriend. but instead of being scared, i told myself that it was actually my boyfriend coming into the house, and that i was dreaming, and that any moment he would come into the room to wake me up. then he did!

early in the fall, i had been having a ton of dreams every nite that i could remember (and usually control), but then i went through a 2 or 3 week spurt where i hardly remembered any dreams.
and now lately i can't even remember having any dreams at nite.

how can i get my dreams back!?