Thread: SEX in dreams???

Originally Posted by supreme

The
orgasms i have are always reached a lot faster and are ten times more
intense then in real life as well!!

Maybe women are more prone to intense dream orgasms? Someone should do a poll. Personally my dreamgasms are about equally intense as my normal ones. How does your husband react to you having ld sex? I don't get into relationships at all, so I never know jealousy, but I can imagine a married man getting upset.

Originally Posted by lucid4sho

Maybe women are more prone to intense dream orgasms? Someone should do a poll. Personally my dreamgasms are about equally intense as my normal ones. How does your husband react to you having ld sex? I don't get into relationships at all, so I never know jealousy, but I can imagine a married man getting upset.

I dont talk to him about it, hed only laugh about it anyway and wouldnt
believe it. Ive told him about lucid dreaming but he thinks its a bunch of
BS. I am also not the type to tell my husband about things that could
make him jealous. He is not a jealous man at any rate anyhow. Whats the
point of sharing something with someone who doesnt understand. Also if
he could do it, i imagine thats all hed use the LDs for!
I dont know why mine are so intense, but i think its because it usually only
takes about 30 seconds to achieve one in a LD and i am hardly out of
breath at all! Maybe thats the difference right there! In real life i have to
work harder at it! My stupid mind gets in my way in my real sex life i guess.
Thinking about bills and money and groceries, always in the back of my mind
which are never there to inhibit me when i LD.
I sometime wish my real self was more like my LD self, i am so much
less inhibited in them.

Originally Posted by supreme

[B]Also if he could do it i imagine thats all hed use the LDs for!

Good point!

I didn't think about the fact you could be more relaxed in a dream and that could help you achieve a better orgasm, that factor is definitely more of a bonus for women. Men are much less likely to get distracted from reaching orgasm normally.

and maybe dream sex is more fun because you can do things that you'd never do in real life without any regrets.

Well there is a lot more for a man to think about before he can have
sex id think. In real life a man has to be ready and so im sure in a dream
he would also have to be ready. Maybe a man could try a thing like the
one guy mentioned, like a remote......but it would be a HO remote!
Then you are just ready to go when you push the button.
THe experience is so real that it is unbelievable to think nothing is really
happening! Its not even worth contemplating because how could anyone
know how to explain why we can feel something that is not really there.
Or taste and smell something....i once came across some bubble wrap in
an LD and started to pop them....the plastic felt just like it should and the
pops sounded exactly like they should.....its so weird and wonderful our
minds and imaginations!! I often wonder if blind ppl who can LD can see in
the dreams or deaf ppl can hear....or ppl in wheelchairs can walk and run...?

Originally Posted by josh2010

and maybe dream sex is more fun because you can do things that you'd never do in real life without any regrets.

Exactly!! And i love to try and shock DCs in my LDs!! They never seem to
mind tho

Originally Posted by supreme

Well there is a lot more for a man to think about before he can have sex id think. In real life a man has to be ready and so im sure in a dream he would also have to be ready.

My sex drive is purely automatic, most guys are the same. I'm ready to go at the drop of a dime, no preparation involved.

Originally Posted by lucid4sho

My sex drive is purely automatic, most guys are the same. I'm ready to go at the drop of a dime, no preparation involved.

haha well you do have to be turned on! Youre right tho, most guys are
ready to go at the drop of a dime, but not all men and especially older
men.........im just not completely sure how common this is, in my experience
not very, but i have a friend who complains that he always always needs
a little more stimulation......i always tell him hed be too much work for most
gals!

Originally Posted by lucid4sho

My sex drive is purely automatic, most guys are the same. I'm ready to go at the drop of a dime, no preparation involved.

haha. ditto.

Sex is probably the last thing on my mind when I'm in a world where my physical limits have no boundaries... You can find sex everyday on every street of your city. Anyone can do it. But when was the last time you decided to free fall off the Umpire State building and splash into water at the bottom and go on a deep sea dive?

i have an experience to tell.....

so for my third ld i wanted sex...and this is how it went down (btw it was a MILD/DEILD)

So i am lucid in a room that is really fuzzy and i scream "increase lucidity" about 3 times to get it more vivid. When it is crystal clear i run to a door on the wall...btw there were no doors earlier ^^ (hooray for summining). I go to the door and tell myself that on the other side of the door is a hot chick who is on a bed who wants me . I open the door and there is a girl their, but as i approach her my mom comes in...lol and i woke up in anger, cause i could not kill my dream mom....lol

Originally Posted by EEclips3

Sex is probably the last thing on my mind when I'm in a world where my physical limits have no boundaries... You can find sex everyday on every street of your city. Anyone can do it. But when was the last time you decided to free fall off the Umpire State building and splash into water at the bottom and go on a deep sea dive?

I do it only sometimes but ive been LDing for 22 years now and ive
done all i could think of to do....more then a few times. It depends
i think on whether im in the mood during the dream, which isnt often
but is sometimes an adventure in itself. I mean how many times
can you have sex right on the street in front of a lot of ppl?? Or
have sex during flying, as one guy in here said he did?? And there
are other reasons as well that im not so outspoken to mention!
Now that ive gotten so many good ideas in here to try, i doubt i
will be having sex too much in the near future tho. I do not wish to
kill in my LDs but i want to try and explode something tho, or morph
into something....im pretty sure i can do whatever i want but i just
ran out of ideas in my own mind.......I could live to be a million years
old and id never think to try and eat a color!! As is this months task.
So for my next LD i have to first do the tasks....and then if im still
holding onto the LD afterwards, then some of the other things....there is
so much to try now that im actually looking forward to going to bed now!
And so its going to be...goodbye to LDS for awhile! Unless i have a
really long one and get bored near the end, it is the best way to end
a LD that i know of!

Originally Posted by Hakura7

i have an experience to tell.....

so for my third ld i wanted sex...and this is how it went down (btw it was a MILD/DEILD)

So i am lucid in a room that is really fuzzy and i scream "increase lucidity" about 3 times to get it more vivid. When it is crystal clear i run to a door on the wall...btw there were no doors earlier ^^ (hooray for summining). I go to the door and tell myself that on the other side of the door is a hot chick who is on a bed who wants me . I open the door and there is a girl their, but as i approach her my mom comes in...lol and i woke up in anger, cause i could not kill my dream mom....lol

lmao! I guess youll have to wait for LDS for when you move away from
mom.....because no matter how hard you try to hide....mom will find you!
That just doesnt seem fair to me!

when i get more control...i will just take the girl and fly away....lol

have any of u changed ur body in a lsd... (not acid...but lucid sex dream)

i.e. get taller or bigger in the right places....lol

I've had a couple sexual experiences in my dreams, in fact when I was younger (anywhere from 7-12) all I did in dreams was try and have sex, and I almost always failed, though one morning I had an interesting dream and woke up with a tingly feeling down there, and I don't remember the dream.

Though trying to have dream sex now a days (now that I actually know what sex is ) has been slightly more successful, though the dream almost always fades when I begin to feel a faint orgasmic wave, and it feels stranger then normal orgasms, almost as a full body experience, rather then just something in my pelvic area, but weaker. Hopefully I get better at it.

an orgasm in a LD always always wakes me up, but its ok tho because
thats what i was shooting for. I cant have sex in non-lucid dreams btw.
Something always happens to have it derailed. But it almost always works
in a LD unless for some reason i cannot find a DC man....then im screwed
anyhow! lol
I get the feeling tho, that a lot of you are pretty young and that i shouldnt
be talking about this i guess....

Originally Posted by supreme

an orgasm in a LD always always wakes me up, but its ok tho because
thats what i was shooting for. I cant have sex in non-lucid dreams btw.
Something always happens to have it derailed. But it almost always works
in a LD unless for some reason i cannot find a DC man....then im screwed
anyhow! lol
I get the feeling tho, that a lot of you are pretty young and that i shouldnt
be talking about this i guess....

Well I didn't mean to say that I was close to the age's of 7-12, I'm 18, and most people who are the minimum age around here (15) should know about this by now .

Well thats good to know anyway!

Originally Posted by Hakura7

i have an experience to tell.....

so for my third ld i wanted sex...and this is how it went down (btw it was a MILD/DEILD)

So i am lucid in a room that is really fuzzy and i scream "increase lucidity" about 3 times to get it more vivid. When it is crystal clear i run to a door on the wall...btw there were no doors earlier ^^ (hooray for summining). I go to the door and tell myself that on the other side of the door is a hot chick who is on a bed who wants me . I open the door and there is a girl their, but as i approach her my mom comes in...lol and i woke up in anger, cause i could not kill my dream mom....lol

HAHAHA i woulda got her mom to join in

Originally Posted by Hakura7

i have an experience to tell.....

so for my third ld i wanted sex...and this is how it went down (btw it was a MILD/DEILD)

So i am lucid in a room that is really fuzzy and i scream "increase lucidity" about 3 times to get it more vivid. When it is crystal clear i run to a door on the wall...btw there were no doors earlier ^^ (hooray for summining). I go to the door and tell myself that on the other side of the door is a hot chick who is on a bed who wants me . I open the door and there is a girl their, but as i approach her my mom comes in...lol and i woke up in anger, cause i could not kill my dream mom....lol

Your dream control seems pretty good for your third lucid.

Btw thats happened to me a few times lol and its not cool.

Originally Posted by devinbruzer

HAHAHA i woulda got her mom to join in

He said it was his mom that came in. <_<

I have had sex dreams for many years. I can usually cast characters and change them if they don't work out. Yes .. you can orgasm for real in and out of the dream...I can anyway ...hehehehehe

when I want to have sex in a dream I just look at a DC. I change him to look like I want him to. Usually long hair, attractive. Ive told them what to do to me, or let them do what they want. Ive never had a problem finding a DC to have sex with. They are always very willing to have sex. Ive actually done it so much that its almost boring.(almost)! And yes, it is possible to have an orgasm in a lucid dream! Ive had plenty. Its also much safer than real sex. lol!

Originally Posted by curious dreamer 27

when I want to have sex in a dream I just look at a DC. I change him to look like I want him to. Usually long hair, attractive. Ive told them what to do to me, or let them do what they want. Ive never had a problem finding a DC to have sex with. They are always very willing to have sex. Ive actually done it so much that its almost boring.(almost)! And yes, it is possible to have an orgasm in a lucid dream! Ive had plenty. Its also much safer than real sex. lol!

It cool how you can just tell them to do whatever you want the moment you become lucid, like an instant puppet. But before your lucid its like real life.