Thread: SEX in dreams???

Originally Posted by curious dreamer 27

when I want to have sex in a dream I just look at a DC. I change him to look like I want him to. Usually long hair, attractive. Ive told them what to do to me, or let them do what they want. Ive never had a problem finding a DC to have sex with. They are always very willing to have sex. Ive actually done it so much that its almost boring.(almost)! And yes, it is possible to have an orgasm in a lucid dream! Ive had plenty. Its also much safer than real sex. lol!

What?? NO way!! I give up if i cant find a DC man up to my standards!

I mean once or twice i may have lowered my standards a tiny wee bit

but i gotta try 'the changing of the man' thing next time! YAY!
I swear to God it never occured to me before i came here, to
ever try to change the guy.....like you said...just one or two things.

what if the problem is that there is simply no one to have sex with and not that they're ugly? do you just imagine a naked women bending over in front of you or what?

Originally Posted by josh2010

do you just imagine a naked women bending over in front of you or what?

Giggity.

Originally Posted by ladoys

boooooooooooooooooooooooobs haha

That pretty much sums one of my dreams up this morning.

Originally Posted by Reality_is_a_Dream

Giggity.

Oooright...

You know, sometimes it's almost better than the real thing because you can really make him look exactly how you want him to, (with a little practice). Sometimes I concentrate too much and wake up though. It's really cool when you can see him (or her) changing, and you know you did it.

Originally Posted by RunflaCruiser

Did she bite your **** off? If it was a girl that is...

That happen to me before during a dream

I've been lucid dreaming for a long time. I'm not sure how often it happens, but at least a few times a month.

When I realize I'm having a lucid dream the first thing I do is attempt to find a female to have sex with. Now, whether or not she is willing to is beyond my control. I really have no control of the characters in my dream and when I'm lucid dreaming I don't have the ability to fly or anything supernatural. I only am able to do things like that when I'm normally dreaming. I think the sex while lucid dreaming (while redundant to talk about) isn't a bad thing. It's way safer than real life sex, because you can't become pregnant, get STDs, or worry about any sort of attachments. For a while, I would wake up during the most intense parts of a sexual dream. However, I think now I am more able to "stay in the game" all the way through. Sometimes, the quest for finding somebody to have sex in a lucid dream is almost a game within itself. Sometimes, I will have to do extensive serching.

huh I just realized how different lucid sex was for men and women...coz as a guy when I dream sex (or just real life sex) I do most of the movements (sorry for the quite "cold" facts, I just wanna be precise) sometime to the extent that the girl becomes a sexual object (not IRL though )...whereas for a girl, unless for some rare positions, she has to mentally persuade the guy to do stuff...
Just sayin'
Anyway dream sex is like real sex : damn good

LIEK OMIGAWD!
YOU CAN HAS SEX IN TEH DREAMS!?
LIEK OMIGAWDS!!!!!111oneonetwoeleven

Originally Posted by berryman13

LIEK OMIGAWD!
YOU CAN HAS SEX IN TEH DREAMS!?
LIEK OMIGAWDS!!!!!111oneonetwoeleven

Originally Posted by krookedking

huh I just realized how different lucid sex was for men and women...coz as a guy when I dream sex (or just real life sex) I do most of the movements (sorry for the quite "cold" facts, I just wanna be precise) sometime to the extent that the girl becomes a sexual object (not IRL though )...whereas for a girl, unless for some rare positions, she has to mentally persuade the guy to do stuff...
Just sayin'
Anyway dream sex is like real sex : damn good

Not necessarily man, some girls like to uhh.. how do I put this, "be on top" (or ride, if you will) IRL so I dont see why they wouldnt be able to do that in their dreams. But IDK, im not a girl.

I personally see nothing wrong with sexual encounters while dreaming. Myself and many others use Astral projection to meet each other in the dream realms or Astral Plain and have a little fun. Of course this all requires dream control, concentration and an ability to dream walk. I've never tried to have sex with someone in my dream I thought up or who just appears so I have no comment there.

Originally Posted by WolfeDreamer531

Not necessarily man, some girls like to uhh.. how do I put this, "be on top" (or ride, if you will) IRL so I dont see why they wouldnt be able to do that in their dreams. But IDK, im not a girl.

LMFAO yes it is very possible for the female to be on top whether irl or otherwise. Trust me, I'm female, Id know lol.

Yeah of course, I thought about it...my message was about saying how I just get full control of the situation (even when blown...lol) as no position is more relaxing then others in dreams...and a bit asking whether it was the case for everybody...In their (lucid) dreams. (and specially girls...as I know no oneironaughty girl IRL). I know my posts rarely pass on my messages

Originally Posted by lucid4sho

Who in their right mind would stop fucking in real life so they could have a sex dream!? ? I randomly have sex in my non lds, but I don't waste my lucids on it. Plus I need to fuck for at least 1-2 hours to really get off, and my lds are usually less than 20-30 minutes. If you aren't getting any ass in real life then it might be worth your time, but I definitely don't recommend trading waking sex for dream sex, you'd have to be out of your mind.

all depends on who your having sex w/ in real life!

Yes you can have an orgasim durring sleep, you may woke up in the middle.

And Ha, no thanks.
I will not share my sex dreams.

I find that I can only orgasm in a non lucid dream. In lucids I always wake up. Someone mentioned getting your dream self hooked on dream sex, and that can totally happen, several times the only thing I could think of doing was having sex.

Interestingly when I orgasm in dreams I never have a wet dream. Pretty convenient since there's no clean up.

Anyway I've definitely had more fun flying in LDs, its especially fun to pass through solid objects while flying.

I suggest saving sex as a final thing to try out in an LD.

Originally Posted by MANIN207

Well I have not been able to LD yet, but the first thing I want to do is fly, or go to mars, or fly TO mars, etc. etc. things you can not do in real life, but that is just me. I don't think that having a LD sex dream is wrong in any way, because it is the person having the dream's dream, and what they want to do. That's just me tho. Just remember to have fun.

I been to Mars in one of my dreams.

Starts out like this. I was playing out side on the clothes line
I pulled my self up on the line and i see that there are more lines going up
more and more so i pull my self up higher and higher there are 1000's of lines leading up into outer space! I end up flying around in space a bit and then i have a full view of mars. I seen mining trucks moving large amounts of mars dirt? I seen giant tunnels all though out mars there where buildings and every thing.

I for one don't believe that dreams are all in our heads I believe dreams take place far from here.

Originally Posted by TK Chris

theres a few past threads about that topic. just use that blue toolbar to search for them. I wouldn't reccomend sexual dreams though.

A few threads?

I'm a virgin (male) and so I have no frame of reference as far as sex goes. *waits for giggling to diffuse* I am however, not ignorant about sex. I have had sex a couple of times in my dream. They weren't orgasmic but they were very remember-able! I remember a tugging sensation, slightly moist and warm down there

I would love to have sex dreams but i try to avoid them because every time i have them i cum in real life and it sux......

Originally Posted by Bladekillua

I would love to have sex dreams but i try to avoid them because every time i have them i cum in real life and it sux......

me too lol

but they are worth it...

never completely orgasemed in dream though

Very interesting topic,
are you able to perceive actually feeling something while having a lucid sex dream?

I'd imagine the dream experience is a far cry from reality. But feel free to correct me, as I've never tried this.

For me (and I've heard other people say this as well), it feels better than reality sometimes. My only problem is I always wake up very quickly after starting.