Thread: Is Sex possible in a dream if your a virgin?

Yes it is, and I'm a living example of that. Both in normal and lucid dreams.

I do little sex in my lucid dreams anymore though, because I've managed to develop this stupid "obstacle". For some reason the dream starts fading away just when I'm reaching the climax, so I try not to waste my dreams in unsuccessful sex.

I had sex in dreams several times before I actually did it in real life. The great thing is, you can definitely feel all the great feelings like you do in real life. Sometimes sex in dreams is just plain weird, and it barely feels like anything, or nothing at all. Oddly enough, i've never induced a sex dream while lucid. I should really make it a goal to do so though, and plan a great scene to do it in. My girlfriend can get lucid and control her dreams too, maybe we should both think of something and seek to do it in our dreams. Now that'd be great. Oh, and if you're curious, and i hope i don't gross anyone out here... but you can definitely have a full blown orgasm in a dream, the good thing is there will be no "mess"(had to say it).

I'd suggest maybe not getting too excited in dreams and try to be a little more "loving". I think as long as you have a nice loving dream with hugging and kissing and just being with someone then it's a great dream. You're probably less likely to get turned away in the dream if you keep this in mind.

Remember, dreams are all about believing. If these things are in your head before you go to sleep then you can have some sort of indirect controlling of your dreams even if you don't go lucid.

Originally posted by Aberrance


Remember, dreams are all about believing.

Absolutely right.

I'm really bad at lucid sex. I usually dream that I'm just hanging out with a girl.
I have had it though... but not until after I lost my virginity.

-sloth

It's possible.
But it may not be as realistic.

Yeah.
You have nothing to compare it to.
No reference to base it off of...
Still.. you could have the imagery, with no (or inaccurate) sensations.

Picture sex is like rubbing your face against a wall...
...it's just like that.
Now you will know if the sensations are accurate...




-sloth

It is entrirely possible. Your brain is a wonderful thing that can fabricate experiences that you have never been a part of. You just have to keep calm....Excitement can be one big reason why people never get to the height of sexual experience in dreams.

Originally posted by Sloth
]Picture sex is like rubbing your face against a wall... *
...it's just like that. *
Now you will know if the sensations are accurate... *

oh the mental picture im getting from that one..........

Originally posted by Aberrance
but you can definitely have a full blown orgasm in a dream, the good thing is there will be no "mess"(had to say it).

how come my sexdreams are messy then

I always get rejected in my dreams [
LOL!

Originally posted by Starlite


oh the mental picture im getting from that one..........

haha

Anything we can imagine can be manifested in a dream. Like sex.
This may be a good opportunity for you to get comfortable with sex and sex related stuff.
Use your dreams as a stepping stone and a learning device..
Sex is a natural thing.

I imagine because it's something that is known since a young age and everybody talks about it all the time on TV in the playground in classrooms, as inuendo, as satire, as wrong, as oh so right etc that you have a preconception of something that is essentially alien (albeit with the foreknowledge of masturbation, but it's hard to draw a fair comparison), there is a lot involved, emotion being the main focal point for most, that is hard to duplicate without having experienced or wanted the expereince, mainly because you don't know what it's like because you havn't experienced it yet
I dunno I'm making this far too complicated

just the other day whilst lucid I had anti gravity sex within a void of infinity with two of the most beautiful girls I know
they were really dirty aswell
mind blowing sex is great whatever reality your in

I had numerous sex dreams when I was a virgin. Most weren't very impressive. But a few were great. Even achieved orgasm a few times... though I had no idea at the time what an orgasm was supposed to feel like. In my case, dream orgasms turned out to be the same as the real life sensation... when I eventually did get around to experience it.

I think, too, that a person's discomfort with sex might bar them from experiencing it in a dream. I have a prudish cousin who'd always wake up just prior to getting some in a dream. In the dreams she wanted it, but irl, she claimed she didn't 'get' what the big deal with sex was. Her ideals too ingrained that they wouldn't permit doing it in dreams? Dunno. Just thought Id toss that out there.

sloth: "My cat's breath smells like catfood."
-Martin




How kinky... a cat sniffer.

I've had somewhere approaching 1,000 lucid dreams, and none of them have been erotic -- although there have .been mentions of sex in some of them.

But I'm not sure you were referring specifically to lucid dreams.

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How kinky... a cat sniffer. *
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LMAO!!
ROFL!

<!--QuoteBegin-arne saknussemm
I've had somewhere approaching 1,000 lucid dreams, and none of them have been erotic --

What?
In 1000 dreams you've never had anything erotic?
I've certainly had over a 1000 lucid dreams in the last seven years, and I've dreamed about just about everything I can think of. Including plenty of sex. What do you do in your lucid dreams? Do you play ping pong over and over?
If you've never had anything erotic, what else have you not done? How can you possibly be a 'lucid god' until you've experienced everything you can possibly experience?

-sloth

I'm doing other things in dreams besides getting horny.

I stay very, very busy in my lucid dreams.

Originally posted by sloth

What do you do in your lucid dreams? Do you play ping pong over and over?


-sloth

HAHAHA LMAO ROFL

I didn't feel comfortable clicking "lucid god."

On the other hand, if you don't want to know the asnwer, then you shouldn't ask the question.

I don't remember asking the question...

...at any rate. I'm not trying to totally disprove your claim. I mean, who am I to say such a thing? I'm not trying to start a fight, and I'm certainly not trying to scare you away from the forum. If you feel uncomfortable with what I say at any time, just tell me to shut up, and I will never speak of it again. But, I'm just curious about it. If you are a lucid god, why not explore EVERY corner of your mind?
...I have... and I'm no lucid god.


-sloth


By the way, that experiment sounds very interesting. I'm looking forward to hearing the results.

As Winston Churchill said, I'm not scared of anyone who can think. I'm only scared of stupid people.

Originally posted by Courtney
It's possible.
But it may not be as realistic.

Before I had sex in real life, all of my dream sexual partners would have anatomically correct vaginas....only horizontally oriented. Granted I wasn't lucid while it happened, but it seemed like my brain couldn't find a good model for it and was falling back on the next closest analouge of a mouth. Weird huh? Well, after I had sex in real life, my brain corrected it's model and has been perfect ever since.

My two cents.

Originally posted by arne saknussemm
As Winston Churchill said, I'm not scared of anyone who can think. I'm only scared of stupid people.

That's ad hominem.
You took a logical query, and replied with schoolyard name calling.
So much for thinking, huh?

-sloth

I would agree -- if I had been referring to anyone in particular. What made you assume I was?

The more I see of life, the less I want to do with stupid people. They cause almost all the trouble.

How can anyone disagree with that?