Thread: for boys: how do you ask girls to be your gf? for girls: how do you want boys to ask you tobetheirbf

depends what situation you are in, and under what circumstances.
for example.
if im eating cocoa puffs, bust out the black eyed peas and say, mix your milk with my cocoa puffs, milky milky cocoa puffs.


anyways, seriously,
just make sure you're comfortable, and make the person aware of how you feel.
not too hard to do, just dont overdo it, ...ie. i want to marry you and have children.

be natural and casual. its human nature to confront and adapt to any situation.

also, if you think the line "you wanna go out with me".. is a bit too indirect, then just ask straight out, do you want to be my gf/bf (obviously after they know how you feel).

*edit* though this thread should be in the help section.

I've never asked... just let it happen. Always worked for me.

Getting engaged is a different matter entirely; but clearly beyond the scope of this inquiry.

Donk them on the head, and drag them back to your place

works for me

I don't think I ever asked my wife if she would be my girlfriend before we married. I guess I'd better call her now and get it over with quick!

"I noticed you noticing me, and noticed just how noticeable you were. Notice my use of the word 'notice', because this is a notice of my love towards you."

"If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?"

"I'm handsome, charming, and full of crap. You're gorgeous, single, and about to beat the crap outta me. We could be a perfect couple..."

"'My Killian's saw your Miller looking lonely, so I thought I'd introduce them.' Is that not the lamest pick-up line you've ever heard? Let me buy you a beer, while I tell you more."

"Be my huckleberry?"

Originally Posted by skysaw

I don't think I ever asked my wife if she would be my girlfriend before we married. I guess I'd better call her now and get it over with quick!

That is so cute.

Okay well let's say you two have known each other for a substantial amount of time and both parties have been kinda flirting a little, dropping hints, whatever. Me being a girl, I would like the guy to just smile cutely and say something like, "So, you wanna maybe get a drink or some dinner tonight?" Pretty simple.

Just hang around me and make a list of what not to do. You should be able to use deductive reasoning.

Originally Posted by Idec Sdawkminn

Just hang around me and make a list of what not to do. You should be able to use deductive reasoning.

HAHAHAHA, that was great

I agree with PJ's comment completely. It always "just happens"...

Originally Posted by Idec Sdawkminn

Just hang around me and make a list of what not to do. You should be able to use deductive reasoning.

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

That is so cute.

Okay well let's say you two have known each other for a substantial amount of time and both parties have been kinda flirting a little, dropping hints, whatever. Me being a girl, I would like the guy to just smile cutely and say something like, "So, you wanna maybe get a drink or some dinner tonight?" Pretty simple.

So... Urm... You free for some dinner tonight

Originally Posted by Adam

So... Urm... You free for some dinner tonight

Yes please.

(Lesson: see? Simple.)

Damn, the Brit beat me to it...

*mumblemumblemumble*

Oh, wait... He's across the pond.

Oh, Messsssss...

Originally Posted by Man of Steel

Damn, the Brit beat me to it...

*mumblemumblemumble*

Oh, wait... He's across the pond.

Oh, Messsssss...

You think?

"Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

I don't have any advice, everyone seems to have it covered.

I just couldn't resist a classic haha

Originally Posted by xdtimoxd

for boys: how do you ask girls to be your gf? for girls: how do you want boys to ask you tobetheirbf

I think the more mature/older you become, the more subtle the girlfriend/boyfriend relationship happening becomes. For example...If I were to take a woman out to dinner and we go on a few dates later on etc...I wouldn't be walking with her one day and say "Would you be my girlfriend?". There's a point I think when it just becomes an unspoken official thing...if that makes sense =/ But in the past I would just go up to girls that were gorgeous and ask them out, 9 times out of 10 they would accept depending on your social status (school popularity) and looks.

Originally Posted by Michael

HAHAHAHA, that was great

I agree with PJ's comment completely. It always "just happens"...

I'm sorry but that "just happens" thing doesn't work everyone.

I have never had a girlfriend, never had a kiss, never been to a school dance, messed up my chances to get a girlfriend multiple times, and I have a distrust and dislike for people in general because I resent ignorance. Hell I haven't even had a friend over to my house in four years. I guess I just never cared all that much even though now, even if it's a small amount, there is desire to get a girlfriend and engage in a relationship.

Me? I'm an introvert definitely. A weird one at that because I seem to have no problems socializing at school. It's just this making friends thing I seem to be lost in, for if I became socially active I can say with a certain amount of certainty that I'd get a girlfriend. People give me advice but none of it ever applies to me because I am an enigma of a person. Sad, but also my greatest quality.

Wow, I so want to reply to this but I know I'm going to get it..........Who cares. Here's my two cents.

-Hi
-Hello
-Do you like me?
-hummmmm......
-?
-....mmmmmm...
-Is that a yes?
-...mmmmnnot realy
-Have you seen my car?
-Oh I ment yes.

I think "would you like to see my ceiling?" should get the message across pretty clear.

I agree with pj, I don't think there should be any like sudden changes in interactions, I don't like the idea of asking out girls, or asking girls I don't know to dances, and posing a question feels like marrage which I only see important for financial reason, and nothing else.

Love/lust/like should be a gradiual increase.

Now if your question centers around how to show them you like them, then all you have to do is spend alot of time with them, it's not hard to tell if a girl likes you (inless she's supershy) in case it'd just take till she gets comfterbal around you.

and from there make it a game of, who can go further, for instence, you look great today, might turn into your looking very pretty today, you know I'm not a great source cause I've never been in a relationship, but I feel this is the best way, well the most romantic to me.

Originally Posted by blakkin

"Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

LMFAO

what about showing action?

Originally Posted by MellC

hahahahahah the thread says how to be your gf not how to have sex with them lol

there's a difference?

i mean action to have have like bring them some where . any creative ideas?

I've never had to ask someone to be my gf. You just ask them out, go out a bunch, and it'll happen naturally.