Thread: How Do I Woo Her?

same with woo'ing any girl
her religion has piss all to do with it

find out what she likes
any hobbies, interests, etc.
what is she studying?
basically you need something in common that you can talk about

find these out
strike up a conversation

the fact that she's muslim makes it a little awkward, as you don't have the "lets go for a drink" route that you normally do

but improvise - you'll do fine

in a nutshell, get to know her
talk to her
ask questions

it's helpful to have a few funny anecdotes up your sleeve
spend some time preparing these before hand
they don't have to be ball-achingly funny
a smile or a chuckle is ok
humour is a really good ice-breaker

With anything you say to her, what you're looking for is a reaction
you're wanting her to respond
you can control the conversation quite well by gauging reactions

humour is good, as it lightens up the conversation
but is hard work on your part

agreement is good, it firms up the list of things you have in common
although too much of these will lead to a one sided conversation

mild disagreement is good, as this prompts a deeper conversation
and takes the heat off of you for a few minutes while she's talking
although you don't want this all the time, for obvious reasons

mix and match
improvise
you'll do fine

thank you



this will help a lot (i've never been really good at talking to people)

What I'm wondering is, why 'woo' a woman? If she doesn't take at least some of the steps herself, i.e. she doesn't 'woo' you to some degree, then wooing (oh, the archaism) her is basically to be as easy as getting blood out of a stone. Although you seem to think she has some spark of interest, presumably, so that's good. I don't know a bunch about Muslims - but I'm pretty sure, like Ynot, that unless she's a real fundamental religious person - that won't be much of a problem.

As for romantic advice I would suggest date rape drugs but something tells me that isn't socially acceptable. Something in the shape of my lawyer.

When you want a girl to like you .. I guess you don't talk about rational shit - do it like Casanova and be philosophical .. then, no matter how far you (Christianity) and she (Islam) might be away from each other .. you are going with the right method to have the dialogue end up in acceptance and tolerance.

Originally Posted by Slight

When you want a girl to like you .. I guess you don't talk about rational shit - do it like Casanova and be philosophical .. then, no matter how far you (Christianity) and she (Islam) might be away from each other .. you are going with the right method to have the dialogue end up in acceptance and tolerance.
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why do you assume that there's a gap, here?

so what about the religious side of things
you are generally the religion of your parents

people are people

Just have confidence!

Convert to Islam.

Convert to Islam

ynot, like your sig LOL poor ronald

Originally Posted by Kaniaz

As for romantic advice I would suggest date rape drugs but something tells me that isn't socially acceptable. Something in the shape of my lawyer.
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Chloroform GO GO.

And eh, I'm still going to say Convert to Islam.

... Not ... funny ...

esspecially the date-rape part

... just ... no ...

Real muslim like to be dominated.... So take what belong to you.

Also, muslims like to drink, (not a joke), take her to have a drink (especially if she is from kosovo or khazikstan).

If she say something like "wow, our relationship is really blowing up.... or hey my cell phone is blowing up" then cover your head and fall on the ground.

Originally Posted by peaches

Real muslim like to be dominated.... So take what belong to you.

Also, muslims like to drink, (not a joke), take her to have a drink (especially if she is from kosovo or khazikstan).

If she say something like "wow, our relationship is really blowing up.... or hey my cell phone is blowing up" then cover your head and fall on the ground.
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LoL also be wary of eating food offered to you when you go meet her parents. that anthrax shit is terrible!

Are you a islamophobic or something? You could convert to the Islam, the Islam and Christianity are just two different streams of religion with the same origin.

But you are a christian, so I guess it's all 100% certain in your head.

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Just tell her you have feelings for her, if she is religinate (descriminate you for your religion) you, so be it. Otherwise, just respect each others religion and knock her up.

Clearly you have read niether the Bible or the Qu'ran, both of wich I have (though the Qu'ran not in its entierety.)

It would be VERY impracticle for me to convert to Islam, especially seeing as how I am part Jew.

thats right: though it is a reletivly small, my biology is one-16th Jew.

I'm not Islamaphobic, as I reguleraly attened their meetings to learn more about them.

Well I appreciat the advice you give, Neruo, I dont want sex with her.

...

Dont get me wrong, I love the girl, and I think she is hot, but sex is the firthest thing from my mind (I think you don believe that ... well it is true)
my main goal is to become a very close friend with her, and from there, b/f, spouse, etc.

чувак.....

pussy is pussy.

sex is not the goal of a relationship

Originally Posted by Keeper

sex is not the goal of a relationship
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damm... there must not be alot of relationships happening then.

that or people are disregarding their goals =P

I say nothing about seks, but why you in love so quickly.... This is non-sens, are you a stalker or something. You say yourself she did not want to talk to you... You are original.

actually, you did:

"Pussy is pussy"

I think that qualifies.

No, I am not a stalker.

I actually AM her friend, though she dosn't talk to me much. We do, however, TALK.

Arby, maby lots of people think sex is the final goal, but lots more actually dont.

Dont oyu like spending time with someone, just talking and listening. holding someones hand and talling them you love them?

like I said, sex is not the end goal of a relationship.

The first love comes from a mother, then a dog, and then your lover.

"pussy is pussy" maybe a bad translation, in english i think you say "there are many fish in the sea", but my expression is better.

if sex is not the final goal, then get a dog or something, or visit your mother more often, she probably love you.

and she will talk to you more if you don't stalk her so much.

Well, I can't say I didn't see the thread escalating. Happens a lot faster than I thought though. Hooray for sex/religion together in one big concotion!

I went out with a muslim boy once.

he was weird.

but not because of the muslim-ness.

Yeah.
that's my intelligent input for the day...

Originally Posted by Keeper

sex is not the goal of a relationship
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instead of 'wooing' her... why don't you be yourself... and if she likes you then a relationship can bloom. but if you had to be someone else to get her... i really don't see a point to the relationship outside of getting some ass.