Thread: Omg My Sister

Learn to be considerate. A younger sister isn't your burden but someone special. Do not take siblings for granted, no matter what the circumstances at hand.

Learn to be patient. You swore at your sister and you were punished. Rightfully so. Your parents wish to teach you to not fall victim to your emotions like a wild beast. Let alone when facing someone that you are meant to care for and protect, like a younger sister.

Learn to be understanding. Wisdom and knowledge come with age. This applies to those younger than you at any given point in time. Someone younger is not necessarily any less knowledgable but is less experienced in general. Especially someone quite relatively young, as I picture your sister to be.

All together, do not let aggression govern your mind. It is a selfish and worthless way to lead a life and in the end, when you grow up enough to realise that there are people you truly care for in the world, it may be too late to go back on some actions already commited.

^ Well said

yeah, well off topic but ive been like obsessed with lucid dreaming for th epast week. my best friends think its retarded ans stupid. i told me sister about it and she got scared and sleept in my moms room. (sry ive been asking for lots of advice) so...

Case in point. You lost a post, yes, but would you rather lose your sister instead? Surely not. Compare how relatively much damage was dealt by what happened and whether it's really worth overreacting about.

This isn't to say that it's perfectly fine to ignore others in the way described above (jumping to a PC that is being used) but aggression never solves anything. A settled and precise explanation however, of why it was wrong to do so and why it's important not to be selfish, would indeed be a better way to go about settling the conflict. Be the truly older one and teach your younger sibling things like that instead of letting anger overwhelm you and as a result seeming like the younger one as a whole.

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Why do you hit return after each sentence.

It sounds unfair you were punished when it is she who should get punished for taking the PC you were using. In a family, the members needs to respect one another, and it shows lack of respect from her side by taking something you are using when you are not there. Anger is perfectly acceptable in such a situation, and your parents clearly made a misjudgement. It is not either just a matter of losing a post; if she does like this regularly, it will might cause you to be stressed and worried thinking: "my sister might take object X I'm using if I go to the toilet to pee."

If the computer is a desirable object for both of you, then you should have times scheduled when it is your turn to use it and when it is her turn. For example, it is your turn Monday and Tuesday; her turn Wednesday and Thursday. Or times of the day, like it is your turn from 10.00-12.00 and her from 12.00-14.00.

• I believe that people deserve their own personal computers (except in the case of two close people that hardly ever use it anyway, like an elderly couple).
• Stay calm. Tell them that you're angry but don't show it. And as long as your sister has nothing on you (ex. you cursed at her) then she should be the only one in trouble.
• Lucid Dreaming is a subject that people tend to view as "weird". I know it's a new amazing thing for you and you wanna tell everybody, but try to restrain yourself.

Wow lots of good advice. Thanks guys (and girls).

Maybe if she gets more used to lucid dreaming, she can share it with you, and you will have someone close to discuss experiences with.

Well i cant. I talked to her about it , and that night she slept in my moms room. my mom will punish me if i talk to her about it again. she thinks shes scared of it, becuase i told her about this girl that was scared of tornadoes made one in her ld and jumped off her house into it and woke up screaming. and my friends think its stupid, and my parents dont care about lding. i never have had a ld before, i really want to through.

wow a long post

WEll, just wait a while, then casually bring up in conversation something really cool, not scary, that happened in a dream. Then just sort of sneak into talking about how you can control you dreams and do anything you want, including maybe something that she really likes to do. I think it would be cool to have somebody to talk to about it, because I don't really except people and DV, and also it may be something that you and her can share forever. She may be grateful to you for showing it to her, and the conversations may help you with your ability.

Just bide your time, wait for the perfect opportunity, after she has forgotten about being scared. Make it a game, see if you can get her to have a lucid dream.

wow moonbeam thats whciked good advice, but i havnt had a ld soo i really dont know that much about them, im just like obsessed with them. Thanks for your time .

Sure I'll bet you'll have one soon!

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How old is she?

I understand what it's like to lose something you've been working on for a long time... including about 40+ pages of stories I was working on when my older brother decided to reformat our computer without telling me. That was not a good day for me.

Would you call her behavior at that time aggressive? Do you think she meant to make you angry? Depending on how old she is, she may not have understood why it made you mad. Did she know that Word would screw up your computer? Next time, just tell your parents (calmly). And she may need someone to explain to her what she did wrong and why. She may know, but reinforcing it may keep her from doing it again.

MSG: Imagine a family of six sharing one computer.

well i dont feel right releasing her age. She was smiling as she went on, but i dont think she new should would crash the computer. i think she ment to get my mad but not ruin my text....
wow this forum is really good. thanks for all the advice.

Is she hot?

I have a solution, listen up.

Step 1. Throw some d's on that bitch.
Step 2. You're ballin' now.

Thats what they invented knives for.

lol

aww don't get mad at her . What she did sounded like something I would do. Even though it sucks on your part all younger sisters want in the end is attention from you . Well, from my experience thats all I wanted.

Videotape her bad behavior and send it to Nanny 911

Hmmm.. does she take shower or baths.. If she takes a shower and you have the little pull up needle thingy, pull it up before she takes one that way she gets all wet with water!

It only shows that in your family there is no real respect. You should try to defend yourself and state your points about the issues. Don't let yourself suffer for things you didn't do.

Originally Posted by Moonbeam

WEll, just wait a while, then casually bring up in conversation something really cool, not scary, that happened in a dream. Then just sort of sneak into talking about how you can control you dreams and do anything you want, including maybe something that she really likes to do. I think it would be cool to have somebody to talk to about it, because I don't really except people and DV, and also it may be something that you and her can share forever. She may be grateful to you for showing it to her, and the conversations may help you with your ability.

Just bide your time, wait for the perfect opportunity, after she has forgotten about being scared. Make it a game, see if you can get her to have a lucid dream.

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I like it; sly like a fox. Oh and Artellis, 223?