Thread: A better way to avoid bad premonitions

Welcome to Dreamviews pal. I am going to move this to the beyond dreaming forum for you so you can get anwsers from people who have more exepinece in this area.

Welcome

I'm a little unsure as to what you want. Do you want to stop these premonitions? Or do you want to more accurately understand them?

yes, sometimes i find it very difficult to interpret the dreams accurately, and can make bad choices based on the interpretation. sometimes i wouldnt make the mistake predicted unless i had the dream telling me i was gonna make the mistake. its a bit like the chicken and egg question.

Im thinking that it probably is my higher self pushing me to handle my fears, coz usually when im more relaxed and dont get in a tiz about coming challenges i find i can handle them better. but then i can also be too relaxed and stumble also....... sorry for having a ramble but its been going round in my head for ages!

My predictions are as accurate as actively waiting for specific things to happen and ive even told people around me to watch for seamingly unrelated ements to occur, and they do

I find though that all predictions are linked to me learning to make better choices in my life, it can be wonderful when i get it right, but equally as harsh when i act inappropriately.

Does anyone else get this and/or know a way to handle it?

Originally posted by futurewasp
hello,

im new to the vforum, but have been into dreams for a few years and can lucid dream although almost every day i get promonitions about the coming day, this can be very helpful however i find that the premonitions in which i act destructive when they happen in the day i find i am still ill prepared for the occurance, i can go on a string of succesful avoidances for a while, this is always very confidence building and i feel great, but when i get it wrong it always affects my life harshly. Can anyone suggest a better way or have a solution to this as i can dread going to sleep some nights.

Kindest regards

I think your basic problem is that you are thinking tactically when you should be thinking strategically. You are fighting battles when you should be thinking about the War. You have daily premonitions and come into conflicts day after day after day. It seems to be a problem of where you are and what you are doing. The solution would seem to involve going somewhere else and doing something else when you get there.

Back in the Army there was a kind of slang for ordering a hot retreat. Nobody would shout over the radio "Retreat. Fall Back". It was always "Let's get the fuck out of Dodge". You see, back during the Vietnam Era and before, Americans were steeped in Wild West Nostalgia and Legends. One of those legends was of Dodge City Kansas -- it had been a wild town of gun fighters and ruthless law men all at war with each other. It was famous for being not a good place to be. so, "getting the fuck out of Dodge" is to say that one should remove oneself from a place where one can only expect more trouble.

So, hey, if you have problems every single day of your life... why not 'get the fuck out of Dodge'.

Are things complicated by marriage and family? I would hate to counsel irresponsibility to one's family and loved ones. But being stuck in a miserable life -- desperate times call for desparate solutions. If one feels that one would be better off if one could only leave one's wife, then don't take the responsiblity upon your own shoulders, but put it on her's, and tell her that the very next time she gives you any grief, the least nagging, or any behavior beyond being the perfect wife, then that is it. Oh, take the precaution of closing out any joint bank account and put all the assets in your own name... or she will. Wait five minutes, and she will test your ultimatum. They simply can't help themselves. The 20th Century has taught women that they should be boss, and so they can't help but to self-destruct when given a 19th Century Ultimatum. But you warned and can now leave her with an easy conscience.

But if you are alone, then what are you waiting for? Find a new Life without these chronic problems of your old life.

i really appreciate your comments, thank you

did you tune in to my situation, coz its very accurate