Thread: How to tell the difference between a DC and another dreamer

do we always share dreams? or are there times when we are the only ones in our dreams?

Do you always have to be lucid to have a shared dream?

Originally Posted by AustralianFire

do we always share dreams? or are there times when we are the only ones in our dreams?

We often share dreams, but not always. In your Inner World, it may just be you and your DC's.

Originally Posted by Lucid-Balloon

Do you always have to be lucid to have a shared dream?

No.

you could have just said that in reply to the PM that I sent you earlier this month

Originally Posted by Snowboy

you could have just said that in reply to the PM that I sent you earlier this month

I apologize if I missed your PM. The PM system here does not show if you have replied to a PM that you have received. It only shows if you read it.

I read all my email, but I sometimes forget who I replied to. I get a lot of PM's.

You said that sometimes your in a dream, with other dreamers, and other times your in your own dream world. Is there a way to choose between, like, a different technique to becoming lucid, or is it completely out of our control? + Sorry if its a stupid question, i'm only new.

Originally Posted by AsLong

You said that sometimes your in a dream, with other dreamers, and other times your in your own dream world. Is there a way to choose between, like, a different technique to becoming lucid, or is it completely out of our control? + Sorry if its a stupid question, i'm only new.

Is there a different technique to becoming lucid? other than what?

What does your question have to do with the first sentence?

No, that's not what I meant when I said

you could have just said that in reply to the PM that I sent you earlier this month

. You had sent me something that made very little sense, yet you could have sent something that made a bit more sense. (I'm not mad, just noting it)

Sorry ill rephrase, is there a way to choose between your own dream world, and a dream world with other dreamers?

Originally Posted by AsLong

Sorry ill rephrase, is there a way to choose between your own dream world, and a dream world with other dreamers?

Think of your Inner World like your house.

I do have a lot of DCs that sorta fade away if I don't pay attention to them. Or sometimes when I become lucid, an entire DC cast will just disappear before my eyes!

But I also have a lot of DCs in my dream that seem intelligent and don't necessarily disappear. They remain fairly stable. I still consider them DCs though because of how they answer my questions, or their energy. Like sometimes they will come up to me and tell me that I'm dreaming, or they admit to being a DC. But they still seem conscious. Of course, maybe they're not DCs, but I actually don't want to consider that for too long

I guess what I'm saying is knowing the difference between a DC and another dreamer isn't so cut and dry for me. I've also had a DC once who told me that he was dreaming, inferring that I was his DC. But I can't remember if he was detailed or not!

Maybe my problem has to do with lucidity and dream stability. Being lucid first would probably help a lot

I tried the ignore test and 3 different dream characters and it failed every single time. I believe a lot has to do with your dream control. And my dream control is pretty bad...

Originally Posted by blade5x

I tried the ignore test and 3 different dream characters and it failed every single time. I believe a lot has to do with your dream control. And my dream control is pretty bad...

Really? Please post the dream.

The only problem with the ignore test is that, for example, say I travel to my dad, I find him in a dream, in order to see if he's real or not, I ignore him, likewise, he feels that I'm a DC, or otherwise that he shouldn't be near me, so he leaves, I turn back, he's gone. With certain people this is more likely, like my dad, who may or may not want me to go into his dreams, depending on the dream.

That, and the possibility that, and this is more of a posed question, if both dreamers ignored each other, would they not have a good chance of leaving the place where they were previously meeting at? Say I meet with you, and you think I'm a DC, and so you turn around and occupy yourself dreamscaping, I turn around and do an ignore test. It seems to me there would be a good chance of us leaving each other through even minor dreamscape changes.

Originally Posted by shiraniaori

The only problem with the ignore test is that, for example, say I travel to my dad, I find him in a dream, in order to see if he's real or not, I ignore him, likewise, he feels that I'm a DC, or otherwise that he shouldn't be near me, so he leaves, I turn back, he's gone. With certain people this is more likely, like my dad, who may or may not want me to go into his dreams, depending on the dream.

That, and the possibility that, and this is more of a posed question, if both dreamers ignored each other, would they not have a good chance of leaving the place where they were previously meeting at? Say I meet with you, and you think I'm a DC, and so you turn around and occupy yourself dreamscaping, I turn around and do an ignore test. It seems to me there would be a good chance of us leaving each other through even minor dreamscape changes.

On the first scenario, yes that's a possibility.

On the second one, yes that's a possibility also.

Think of it this way: every RC can fail. So, so can the Ignore Test. There are a myriad of scenarios that one could think of.

In my experience, it works very well. Please try it and see what happens.

One thing about the ignore test, If you are going to turn your back to the DC/Dreamer with the intend to ignore THEM. You aren't ignoring them you simply still think of them. Now if you your look up to see a beautiful dragon with big wings and claws that fly's really fast past your vision but you remember the sound of his wings moving the air around you as it passed. and then look in front of you, That is when you have ignored the being. Keep this in mind!

You maybe can achieve some result by just thinking you are ignoring them but the effect would be much stronger with scenario of the encounter with the dragon.

Also i am not stating that the TS have informed you wrong in any way i only say this because the interpenetration of this different depending on your personality.

Man, this makes me want to share a dream really bad...

I've had a couple dreams where my dog who died a few months ago randomly appeared at my side. As in I looked down and she was there without me expecting it.

You can't share a dream?

Originally Posted by Yahiko

One thing about the ignore test, If you are going to turn your back to the DC/Dreamer with the intend to ignore THEM. You aren't ignoring them you simply still think of them. Now if you your look up to see a beautiful dragon with big wings and claws that fly's really fast past your vision but you remember the sound of his wings moving the air around you as it passed. and then look in front of you, That is when you have ignored the being. Keep this in mind!

You maybe can achieve some result by just thinking you are ignoring them but the effect would be much stronger with scenario of the encounter with the dragon.

Also i am not stating that the TS have informed you wrong in any way i only say this because the interpenetration of this different depending on your personality.

Thanks for pointing that out. When you ignore someone, you most look at something else, and think about it.

Originally Posted by saltyseedog

I've had a couple dreams where my dog who died a few months ago randomly appeared at my side. As in I looked down and she was there without me expecting it.

That's really cool.

I had a SD. I saw some people in my dream then saw them in real life... the dream is in my DJ.

It is the most recent entry. The people I saw were at the very end of my dream.

Love the post, but noticed that in the last year or two that along with suddenly being able to read/write in my dreams, that some of the DCs in my dream world (sphere) have started to display some major signs of intelligence/individuality. The only way I can be 100% sure if a DC isn't a real Dreamer is to use my 'will' to force them to say/do something. I'm pretty sure that I wouldn't be able to force a real dreamer to do anything, I had a clash with one once I think and couldn't get them to submit even though they seemed less than lucid.

the only thing i dont get with this is if you are purposefully ignoring them, then arent you somehow still giving them attention. like even if it is just a dc you may turn your back on them, but inside you may hope that they will still be there which may make them appear real?

I saw on a couple of Russian forums that people tend to check whether the person or a thing in front of them is real by confronting them and basically asking "what you really are?!" and even poking them or hitting slightly i don't know.

I actually used something like that even before I came across that - once in a dream I was watching a film with my brother and aunt and after becoming lucid I got really angry at them, because they seemed so fake. So I came closer to my aunt, took her face in my hands and looked at her attentively, strongly wishing she would show me her true nature - and then her face started morphing and she turned into this scary ugly green thing. My "brother" did the same.

But who knows, maybe that was real her anyway and my subconscious just revealed how I see her, because she's a true bitch X)