Thread: Frustrated

Originally posted by Chaka
Hello again,

Just a few days ago, My wife had a Lucid dream. I have been talking about them so much and doing a lot of the excersizes to make them happen for me, so I guess it's not that big of a surprise to me for her to have one. She told me that I had said she was lucid dreaming (in her dream) So she became lucid. She didnt tell me the rest of the story. Anyways I come to find out my wife is apperently a natural, and thinks they are no big deal!!! I get the whenever I talk about it. SIGH... I will keep trying though.

If we could only all be naturals.
Well wit hall the techniques I think most of us can derive a method that works particularly well for them. It may take more work. But hey, if it were easy it may not be as rewarding.
Even If I was a natural I cna't imagine getting to the point of--->
But anyway. Keep trying.

Aw keep working at it, you will succeed soon.

Last night, right when I was falling asleep I started to get the beginings of WILD. I dont know if you can actually WILD when you first go to bed, but I was getting the SP and Vibrations/Lights. The only thing that was stopping me was that my senses of the waking world were getting stronger... I could feel the bed more and hear my wife snoring next to me. Could you actually do a WILD right when you first go to bed? I thought you had to be in a REM ready state.

Originally posted by Chaka
Last night, right when I was falling asleep I started to get the beginings of WILD. I dont know if you can actually WILD when you first go to bed, but I was getting the SP and Vibrations/Lights. The only thing that was stopping me was that my senses of the waking world were getting stronger... I could feel the bed more and hear my wife snoring next to me. Could you actually do a WILD right when you first go to bed? I thought you had to be in a REM ready state.

No! A WILD induce lucid dream does infact go straight from a waking state into a dream state. Wake Initiated!
All the WILDS I have had have been from the onset of going to sleep.
What you may be refering to is that it seems for most people that after a good 4 to 6 hours of sleep they get better results.
As your brain has rested for those few hours and achieved the rest it actually did need. Then when you try a WILD after those productive hours of sleep your subconscious is more suseptible to letting your conscious get involved in the entire process of dreaming.

I have been training alot to induce WILD when going into initial sleep.
It is very well possible, but as said it's way easier to do it when you have slept longer.

Hahah, a comical observation I'd say.
Dreamers that train lucidity have trouble no matter who they talk to on the subject.
Speaking with people that have never experienced lucidity brings about doubts and disbelief and speaking about it with natural lucid dreamers brings about neutrality to the subject, which is so like the doubts and disbelief expressed by the first category.

Oh, what are lucid trainees to do in social circles nowadays?!

Have your wife wait till you fall asleep, and say "you're in a dream" over and over again. Like the CDs, but cheaper.

Originally posted by Triggerhappy
Have your wife wait till you fall asleep, and say \"you're in a dream\" over and over again. Like the CDs, but cheaper.

Heheheh, There is no chance of that happening. I have to be the last one to fall asleep, or else she wont be able to. I have to lightly rub her back or the top of her head to get her to go to sleep. Especially since she has gotten pregnant and cant take anything like tylenol pm or the like. It would be nice if she could do that. LOL