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Fair - without favoring one party over another: (there are other definitions of fair)
I don't think a lot of things are fair. If that were the case, everything would result in a tie, as no one would have the advantage. If in a fight, both people are evenly matched as far as physical skill, it can be claimed to be a fair fight. But if one person has a superior mental technique, then clearly they have the upper hand, and the fight is no longer fair. Or if one person has slightly quicker reaction times, then they gain the advantage, and it is no longer fair.
To expect things to be fair, is to expect things to be the same, which in my opinion, could get a little boring, with everyone doing the same things. I mean, if people are doing different things, then they get more practice with those different things, resulting in a higher level of proficiency, and an unfair advantage over those not doing those things.
I think we're meant to be different, and have varying levels of proficiency in many different things. This way, we can experience a greater variety of things with a higher level of quality. Fairness only becomes an issue when people start competing against each other, which is the case for a lot of things today.
"You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother." ~ Albert Einstein
"The most successful tyranny is not the one that uses force to assure uniformity but the one that removes the awareness of other possibilities, that makes it seem inconceivable that other ways are viable, that removes the sense that there is an outside." ~ Allan Bloom - The Closing of the American Mind
Achievements:
I don't see how fair becomes 'evenly matched'. The concept of fair postulates a third party to a 2 party conflict. Unless you are suggesting that the forces of nature constitute a conscious third party that has willingly favored one or the other in terms of skills and abilities in any given situation, I would say we have all been dealt fairly, since we are all created from the same basic forces.
Art
The ability to happily respond to any adversity is the divine.
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Xaqaria, you're right, I have mistakenly associated evenly matched with fairness. Fairness is independent of skill, you can lose in a fair match to someone who has more skill than you.
"You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother." ~ Albert Einstein
"The most successful tyranny is not the one that uses force to assure uniformity but the one that removes the awareness of other possibilities, that makes it seem inconceivable that other ways are viable, that removes the sense that there is an outside." ~ Allan Bloom - The Closing of the American Mind

fair doesn't mean sameness
fair means you get what you gave, you reap what you sow, karma!
I always thought "Fair" was determined by how well the party follows a set of rules, a set of constants. Everyone knows it's the variables that make it interesting.
Abraxas
Fair is when me and my siblings get the same amount of chocolate from my parents.
Plain and simple.

"You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother." ~ Albert Einstein
"The most successful tyranny is not the one that uses force to assure uniformity but the one that removes the awareness of other possibilities, that makes it seem inconceivable that other ways are viable, that removes the sense that there is an outside." ~ Allan Bloom - The Closing of the American Mind
None can be held responsible for the fairness that nature does or doesn't bestow.
Fair is making 10 bucks an hour while you make 200 bucks an hour for your boss.
Fairness is relative. The universe just doesn't care.
"Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one." -Einstein
What is Fair?
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