Thread: cherry flavoured condoms

If I understand the tone of this post correctly, the concept of oral sex is not appealing to you.

It could be that you are subconciously trying to work through this aversion and that your mind on some level desires this experience.

How often and how many times are you having these dreams?

um, not to be a pain int he butt....but it's okay to post this kinda stuff on a public site where kids can come and see it? if so, um...i dunno..

cd

cd,

Minimum age for this website is 15. I am sure nobody will have a problem with this.

okay ......

cd

lol no, its not too appealing in my opinion...and ive only had them twice. Same basic dream but the last one was slightly modified from the first. I probably just remember it better. (the last one had a cherry flavoured condom (lmao) hence the title of the post)

oh, and im sorry if this offended anybody...i didnt mean for it to...I know id be a little put off aswell...

Originally posted by Seeker
If I understand the tone of this post correctly, the concept of oral sex is not appealing to you.

roflmao.

on a side note. maybe it is?....


also, you could do it more in real life and then do an RC, before you know it you will be lucid!? i guess it depends on how bad you want lucidity?

hey freakish,

Well, we know that when we enter the dreamworld we also open the door to our "subconscious" which stores information that we have picked up at some point in waking life, yet have put away from our waking awareness.

I think you're picking up some "signals" from our boyfriend about his desire to have you perform this act - it could be subtle little hints, or he may have even mentioned it straight out to you. You probably just ignore it in waking life, but you remember these "hints" in your dreams.

If you are actually perfoming oral sex in your dreams and don't find it "unappealing", then you may not have a problem with it in waking life - you're just being inhibited by your waking "perseption" of what oral sex is.

Dreams involving genitalia get a LOT weirder than that.
Anyway my guess is you harbor the expectation that this is what you will someday do, that you consider it a normal part of a relationship in the long run.
Maybe you simply have mixed feelings about the act without knowing it, or it could even be a disguised desire to have him service you (there might be a reversability to it.)
Another possibility is that the meaning is not about sex at all but something else, his emotional sensitivities that you tend to and care for.

Originally posted by myfreakish_nature
ok this is really starting to gross me out a bit. Can anyone tell me why i keep having dreams about oral sex on my boyfriend??

This is a perfect instance which demonstrates the difference between the Waking Conscious Self and the more Primitive Dream Self. This Primitive Self is engaging in a behavior that is at least embarrassing and uncomfortable for the Waking Conscious Self.

My advice, is to suggest to yourself that your Primitive Dream Self begin to refrain from behavior of which you disapprove. This is easy enough to do if you should become Lucid, but even in Non-Lucid Dreams, repeated suggestion can eventually modify the Primitive Dream Self's behavior.

Also, I was wondering if your boyfriend's private fantasies may be clouding your own telepathic atmosphere, and your dreams may be responding to his radiated desires. Ask him what he is thinking, and if you do not like him, then tell him to stop it. Insist that he think clean thoughts!... or if he must think sexually, to give you a position where you can carry yourself with a bit more dignity.

Originally posted by Seeker
cd,

Minimum age for this website is 15. I am sure nobody will have a problem with this.

i'm underage

Cryogragoon I'm sorry that you're underaged, but I think we can loosen the standards here. This is about dream analysis not erotica. A lot of weird things may go on here anyway. Standards tend to be stricter in some areas than others. They are stricter on Primtime tv and looser on the soap operas. It's just a different context here.

So? I have dreams of all kinds of sex. Just that I rarely remember them.

I have a coworker who admitted to me that he once woke up from a wet dream he could not remember, and it pissed him off. I have to laugh at him about it now.

Originally posted by Inspirer
Cryogragoon I'm sorry that you're underaged, but I think we can loosen the standards here. This is about dream analysis not erotica. A lot of weird things may go on here anyway. Standards tend to be stricter in some areas than others. They are stricter on Primtime tv and looser on the soap operas. It's just a different context here.

i have no idea how to answer THAT

Cryodragoon

cryodragoon

Cryodragoon I am sure you are at least mostly human. I just want you to know that there's a very special website for special people like you, with it's own video. I wish you could be in it yourself. It's http://www.thebrainfreeze.com and it's what you remind me of. Enjoy!

Originally posted by Inspirer
Cryodragoon I am sure you are at least mostly human. I just want you to know that there's a very special website for special people like you, with it's own video. I wish you could be in it yourself. It's http://www.thebrainfreeze.com and it's what you remind me of. Enjoy!

3 letters: WTF????????
WTF?????

(all together now) WTF????


i wish you'd be on this: http://www.big-boys.com/articles/ipecac.html

and i know how to spell my username, you really don't have to type it 3 times.
it's CryoDragoon 8)



anyway:

Couldn't view it, but I get the point.

Okay who hasn't had sex dream it is just a natural thing I guess.

Look once I had a dream I was a man but it is just a dream don't sweat it.
Oh and I was also a sluty girl in my dream but am so not in real life but the idea of being aware or (lucid) in a dream is great. Plus I am big on control and I sometimes take it in my dream or push the boundaries.

Any one ever have a weird dream that is the total oppposite of you?

just an update...ya, i must have been full of bs when i wrote that after all...and those things taste like medicine...