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    1. 08-16-2008 02:26 PM #1
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      Unhappy Dream about EX friend

      This guy and I used to be really great friends (we both liked each other be we weren't exactly together) but we got into a fight and now we don't talk. I've been trying to leave him emails, telling him how much he means to me...but, he ignores them.

      Anyway, in the dream he actually responded to one and was really excited about being friends again. The next thing I knew we were in the parking lot of Kmart(he lives close to Kmart.) and he invited me over to his house, because his mom was going to be gone for an hour or so (I don't know why his mom not being home mattered to him). I told him that I should probably ask my dad if it was okay, but neither of us had a phone. So, we decided to just take the bus to his house (even though it was walking distance) and when we got there I would call and see if it was okay. When we got there, we went to play on his computer and I kinda cuddled into him. Later we heard that his mom was still home taking a shower and we went into panic (not sure why)...So we ran out and he walked me back home, while holding my hand.

      Then I woke up. The dream felt so real and I could actually feel how happy I was, and I woke up happy.
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    2. 08-16-2008 10:23 PM #2
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      Hello,

      Your dream seems to be about your subconscious working over possible best-case outcomes to the situation with your friend. The brain does that often, rehearse either best or worst case scenarios about wakeful-life situations as a means of preparing us for them.

      The dream seems to reflect a wish that the rift between you and your friend would not only heal, but there seems to be elements of a beginning romance - ie not wanting parents around so you can cuddle, moving away from the father as central male figure in your life to boyfriend as central male figure (as in thinking you should have your father's permission, but evading actually getting it). Definitely, the dream seems to express a wish to have him back in your life and keep the attraction between you progressing.

      I don't know anything about the fight with your friend, but it seems like you've taken some steps (with the emails) to reopen contact. Maybe just give him a bit of time to cool down and then try approaching him in a light and casual sort of way to get things going again? I wish you luck with that!
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