Dear Chaindoll,
It must be different for men. I dream of lady friends, but it is rarely the same lady more than once or twice. Occassionally I will be separated from a lady friend in a dream, and just as I begin to miss her, I will meet a new lady friend, and it always seems that the new lady is as good or better than the preceeding one.
They did studies on the mating habits of animals. It seems that animals, even animals that are supposedly monogymous, will mate with others given the opportunity -- the 'opportunity' for males being any available female that offers herself, and the 'opportunity' for women, being any male of superior rank or status -- of higher dominance standing than her mate.
Obviously, this Dream Man represents something of an Ideal. It could be a blessing and a curse. A blessing because you enjoy these dreams. A curse because you will never be able to be happy with any other man... falling short of your ideal.
Of course, if the dream were prophetic, it would indicate a real guy out there somewhere. But I would doubt it. The Entity might be a real Astral Entity, but it is unlikely to be a actual physical person. But it may represent a TYPE. Prior to these Dreams, you may have been falling for the wrong kind of guy, and these dreams were intended to have you fall in love with the right kind of guy -- the right kind of guy for you. So maybe these dreams will continue until you meet approximately the same TYPE. If that should ever happen, then I would guess that the dreams would soon cease thereafter. When the real TYPE arrives, then your Dream Mind will know to no longer distract you with the Subjective Abstraction of your Ideal.
Anyway, I'll think some more about this odd series of dreams, and I'll let you know if I think of any other possibilities.




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Well he does seem to be the kind of guy I'd like to date. But I don't believe I made him up. 


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