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      Friend's reoccuring night terror

      Hello DV once again. Recently my best friend told me about a night terror he has every one or two months of his life. He is 15 and says he has been having this same dream since he was four. His mother used to come into his room at riduclulous hours in the morning to him screaming as if he was actually being attacked or something chronic. He is terrified of the dark and would freak out if he were in a pitch black room on his own, I should know. He asked me to ask somebody who might know what on Earth it is about or how he can possibly get over it. It is quite troubling to him so any advice or interpretation whatsoever will be important.

      The nightmare goes as follows: he will be lying in his bedroom at the same house he lived in as a young child. It is the middle of the night and the room is almost totally dark, but he can vaguely see a few objects. There are a row of mirrors at the opposite end of the room which he can remember being there at the old house and he is completely paralysed and unable to move. I would not say this is sleep paralysis though as he has moved house many times and it always takes place in the same one. At the end of the bed will be someone he knows. Anyone, it doesn't matter if it's a close friend or rival, just generally anybody although originally as a young child it was always his mother. He can't see their face, just vague shape though he always knows who it is. They are simply stood there facing him and there will always be a black hole or chasm in their belly or chest. He says there is something crawling out of it which as far as he can tell is slimy and alien like. The terror is extremely intense and, if he even can he screams like mad and when he thinks he has woken up, the same thing happens over and over again in a long string of false awakenings and (though only at his old house) he has hallucinated the scene upon waking.

      Nowadays whenever he has that dream he can't hack it and stays up the rest of the night with the light on, so it's obviously extremely distressing. I have nightmares like that extremely rarely and I can safely say that my worst one was nowhere near as terrifying as this.

      My friend also told me that most of the time his dreams are very calm. He has a reoccuring dream of actually sitting on a disk and flying through space, the whole thing is very peaceful. I find this very bizzare because I had assumed that people usually dream about angst. Most of my dreams for example are about exploring new environments, being away from home or "rehearsing" the first day of sixth form over and over again (this September I start it). Spiritual dreams of freedom and contentment like this simply don't seem to come to me.

      On a final note he started smoking weed a couple of years back and does now every day. I don't know what effect at all this has on dreaming but the nightmare has remained unchanged. If there is any more info I need to give please tell me, thanks for reading .

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      This is a guess, but could there have been something that scared him badly in that room in his old house, since all the dreams are so associated with it? Was the house itself kind of creepy and scary? If he was young enough and scared badly enough, he might remember and still dream about it. I wonder if it could be something about the mirrors? Possibly he saw something in the mirror that made it look like someone (his mother since she was in the earliest dreams?) has the hole in her chest.

      I grew up in a creepy old house myself, and for a long time living there and years after, I had nightmares about something scary trapped in the attic and myself being lured into toward it because there was supposed to be a doll hidden away and going looking for it and getting closer and closer and about to open the cubbyhole where the scary thing (never clear what it was) was trapped because that's where the doll was supposed to be - and knowing all the while that I was being lured there and something terrible would happen when I let the thing out. But that house also was extremely weird - my parents painted over some occult symbol scratched into the walls when they moved in, and years after we had moved, my mother told me she used to be convinced there was treasure in the house and had actually pulled up floorboards looking for it; sort of a disconcerting real-life twist on my nightmare but with a prize an adult rather than a child might go opening up cubbies to find, only my mother bought into it and didn't share my sense that it was bait. She didn't look in the attic and never found anything; maybe that's a good thing! I have some of the fear of the dark, too: the basement in that old house was pitch black and frightened me so much I'd check the door several times a day with literally heart-in-mouth terror to make sure it was still locked. Fuses blew fairly often in that house and my dad would have to go into the basement to change them, and as horrifying as it was down there, I'd always go with him just because I had this gut-feeling something very bad would happen if anyone, even my dad, was down there alone - especially if his flashlight went out.

      Maybe your friend could talk to his mom about that old house? See if she remembers anything creepy about it. If your friend is a spiritual/sensitive person as the flying dreams indicate, then maybe he picked up some sort of vibe in that house that scared the beejeezus out of him; maybe something focused around those mirrors.

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      Thanks loads for the advice I will tell him. I still wonder if there's any way to stop the nightmare completely but it's a start

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      Something that he might try is a ring of salt. Now, it doesn't really matter whether he's the spiritual type of person who believes in warding away negative entities or if he's a more rational type who wants to call it a psychosomatic placebo to convince himself he won't get nightmares. Either way, it's not gonna hurt and it might help!

      Have him take some salt with him when he goes to bed and he can sprinkle it in a ring around the bed with him inside it, and the whole while he does it, he should visualize a great wall going up where the salt falls. He can do that anyway he wants - ring of thorns a la sleeping beauty, giant fort walls, dome of what light, whatever works for him. As he closes the ring of salt, he should pause for a minute and close his eyes and really concentrate on visualizing that wall and on it being impassable so that nothing negative can get past it; no harmful or negative energies or entities of any kind. When he's got it really clear in his head, he should state it aloud in very certain terms. Then go to sleep. If he wakes up and leaves the room for any reason, on returning it'd be good to reseal the circle again in his head; visualize a gate closing behind him and melding into the wall or whatever works for him.

      Can't hurt, right?

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      I'm wondering if your friend should sign on and post it himself - I mean, this may be something he has to go through, to talk it out with the rest of us. I know this forum has helped me a lot, so maybe he should come here too.

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      He doesn't have internet access, at least for now anyway.

      To be honest I'm not sure whether he really believes in negative entities and demons or not. He is open minded and such a method might work (through placebo effect at the least).

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