Thread: Help Please! I'm Really Freaked Out!

First of welcome Hufflepuf[fChampion

There is something they call DS, dream sharing. There is no proof this exists though. There are many a thread about it around this forum. Much to read if you want to do a search for it.

More likely the two of you have had this tension build up over some time. Perhaps both of you reaching somewhat of a point for release. Causing you both to have dreams. It would be rather coincidental but probable.

I'm sorry if this seems like a dumb question, but what do you mean by:

"More likely the two of you have had this tension build up over some time. Perhaps both of you reaching somewhat of a point for release. Causing you both to have dreams."?

Originally posted by HufflepuffChampion
I'm sorry if this seems like a dumb question, but what do you mean by:

\"More likely the two of you have had this tension build up over some time. Perhaps both of you reaching somewhat of a point for release. Causing you both to have dreams.\"?

Not a dumb question at all. I was not very clear.
He may feel as you do. A physical tension between the two of you.

What conversation went on after you confirmed you both had a dream about kissing?

Well, first we talked about how wierd it was, then we had a long talk about 'bicuriousity', (god, I can't believe I'm telling complete strangers about this), then we agreed not to let anyone else about what we know about eachother, then just normal talk, school, homework, bla de bla de bla...

Why do you ask?

Oh, sorry to double post, but I forgot, He asked to see me privately at lunchtime, but when everyone followed us, eager to hear what he had to say, he gave up and said he'd see me after school. I haven't seen him since

I should see him tomorrow though, i'll post if anything happens.

Originally posted by HufflepuffChampion
Well, first we talked about how wierd it was, then we had a long talk about 'bicuriousity', (god, I can't believe I'm telling complete strangers about this), then we agreed not to let anyone else about what we know about eachother, then just normal talk, school, homework, bla de bla de bla...

Why do you ask?

The reason I asked was to not be presumptuous and imply he had similar feelings as you did.
Given the conversation, I think my analogy may be close.

Hopefully you will get more input other than just my own.

Thanks so much for all your help. I really needed some feedback becaus everytime I see him, I get that image of the dream in my head, and my stomack tightens.

Originally posted by HufflepuffChampion
Thanks so much for all your help. I really needed some feedback becaus everytime I see him, I get that image of the dream in my head, and my stomack tightens.

You are welcome. I hope it all works out for you.

Its real interesting. I would be a little careful here though if you intend to stay around because some of the younger members are not as tolerant of BGT issues as Howetzer. The timing of it is amazing, regardless of the issue involved. But I agree with Howetzer.

There is cadre of young gay men at school in the program I am in. They don't broadcast this but you can tell if you talk to them personally and if you watch how they respond to each other and how none of them ever have girlfriends but they go home with different members of the group each night at the bar. One has a covergirl but most of them don't bother.

Homosexuals are often afraid to come out but they still send each other body language signals, just as any two people do when they are talking. In fact you may have sort of saw each other from afar and subliminally identified each other.

It is sad to me how closeted America still is. No let me be more strong about it, religious bigotry still deeply affects our nation. The Europeans are much more sophisticated than we on that issue.

I hope things work out well. BTW at your age and in certain places it is not uncommon for boys to experiment with homosexuality. I can't recommend any good books because you are underage and your parents could sue but alot of good books exist. Good luck in whatever road you chose. Be sure to take education seriously, it will be more and more important in the decades to come.

EJ