I'm concerned. A friend who was there with the storm.

**lizard** · 01-13-2009 04:06 PM

Thanks to anybody who can read this and say what they think. I'm 16 and rarely get dreams. I registered because I had one which bothered me a bit, and I've been thinking about it since (3 days).

The dream starts with me being in a building and outside it sitting in the tree (2 charachters at once - or third person where I am mainly inside the building, but I see the person in the tree). It's night time; very dark. The area is where I do my paperround... I know the area well. But I am in a house with a large glass window rather than the hotel which would be there. Inside the building, it is very dark and I look out of the window as I throw from the tree a brick which smashes straight through the glass and into the dark building. But I felt it needed to be done and am calm and relaxed; both inside and outside the building. There's no panic even though a brick has just smashed a big window in the middle of the night.

Then the dream moves, again to another place on my paperround. In real life, the front of the house I am thinking of is next to the river, and the back is where I deliver the paper to (The street going to the house where I do my round is at the back). In my dream, the front of the house is on the beach and the weather is good. I am about to go for a swim in the sea and am half undressed (with swimming shorts on). Then there is suddenly a giant wind; I can barely stand. Everything goes really dark and grey... I turn around to go back through the cutthrough next to the house back to the road (where I do my round).

In the garden at the front of the house (which has a wooden wall around it which doesn't exist in real life) is a person.

This is the part of the dream which I am concerned about so I'll explain the background to the person (real life): the person was basically an old girlfriend who I had really liked a lot. It was about 5 months ago that we went out, and I really liked her, but after a few days she became really nasty to me... I still see her at swimming although she doesn't talk much to me. I probably still like her; I don't even know anymore (she was horrible to me, but sometimes nice).

Anyway, in the dream, she was stood in the garden, looking at me on the beach. Just watching me - we didn't speak. She was stood with somebody else who I thought was her sister, but she doesn't have a sister so I believe it was her friend who she is normally with. She was definently awake and alive, but she was also grey like the surrounding envionment. She barely moved and just stood looking out at me over the beach, as the wind and greyness continued.

End of dream.

Then the next night (real life now), I normally don't get to sleep before 2.... but I was thinking of her, and I believe I must have been dreaming now because I was suddenly awake - really really hot (a lot hotter than normal... sweating). I went down to get a drink and it wasn't until the liquid hit my mouth I realised I was badly dehydrated and really thirsty. I didn't think I'd been asleep at the time... but I'm pretty sure now I had... There was no dream here, but just a thought in my mind.

I rarely have dreams. If I'm stressed I normally wake up at around 4/5 (this is really rare and only has happened once or twice that I can remember). I'm disturbed that this person keeps showing up. Prior to the dream (about 3 weeks before) I suddenly remembered her and felt really terrible (this was at 1), and texted a friend. The next morning, I didn't know why I had texted a friend about that (it seemed stupid and trivial). 3 weeks later, I have these dreams (2 consecutive nights). Since then, I've thought of her more as I am awake throughout the day at random points. Considering I haven't had this problem EVER (in the last 5 months), even though it's 5 months since I went out with her I'm concerned that I can't stop thinking. And what's with the window smashing at the start? That confused me as well.

Again, a huge thanks to anybody who can be bothered to read all this.. Even if you can't interprit it, I'd be interested to know what you think.

**SleepyCookieDough** · 01-13-2009 05:28 PM

I'm not a great interpratator and my belief is that only the dreamer can interprate it... so I'll just ask you questions:

1. Do you still like her?

2. When was she mean whith you? In public or when alone?

3. How long were you together?

4. Does she walks near you sometimes, lately?

5. How do you feel about all the thing? How do feel with her?

6. What would you think, literaly, about a brick breaking a window?

7. Big winds that made you head over somewhere else and at that somewhere you found her so it seems like a destiny kind a thing.. What do you think of strong winds literaly?

**lizard** · 01-14-2009 10:18 AM

1. Do you still like her?
Truthfully, I don't know so I stick with 'no' as my answer.

2. When was she mean whith you? In public or when alone?
Alone.

3. How long were you together?
It's hard to explain because basically I thought we were going out when we wern't and was hurt by it. I said "going out" to make it easier to explain. There was a build up of a few months before we went to the cinema together. After that, she was nasty.

4. Does she walks near you sometimes, lately?
No more than normal... I see her at swimming 3 times a week although I wasn't thinking of her especially. Although 3 weeks ago I listened to a song on my MP3 player and it remided me of her and I felt really bad.

5. How do you feel about all the thing? How do feel with her?
Uneasy. When I think what happened I get that "pit" in my stomach... I apologised to her 5 months ago even though I hadn't done anything. So we are talking now... she wished me happy birthday through text on my birthday (4 months ago) and we have since chatted on myspace, but not for over a month/2 months. I don't know if she's "busy" with A-levels or what.

6. What would you think, literaly, about a brick breaking a window?
I'd think of the damage that would be caused & the cost of fixing it. In the dream I felt neither; really comfortable, and didn't consider this.

7. Big winds that made you head over somewhere else and at that somewhere you found her so it seems like a destiny kind a thing.. What do you think of strong winds literaly?
It was kind of a storm, but there was no rain or anything... it was just dark & the wind was so strong I could barely stand. Literally, as what happened in the dream, I wanted to get away (I could barely stand) somewhere sheltered.

**SleepyCookieDough** · 01-14-2009 01:31 PM

That's really complicated, if there is even a meaning... That would be good if anyone else helped me XD

How old are you, that would maybe help to apply the other things to it...

**lizard** · 01-14-2009 01:36 PM

I'm 16.... but at my age most people casually move on/around. I can honestly swear that I've liked (fancied) no more than 3 people since age 12/13 - 4 years. So it's rare.... I don't want this to turn into a councelling session, but I am curious why I had that dream and then another "thought" the next night... especially considering it's been 5 months AND I don't dream that often.

I don't know if the start with the brick is linked to the end with the beach. It was a seperate time, because the beach was in the day and the brick was at night. The "beach house" is 20 seconds walk from the brick house, in real life, if it helps

Thanks

**SleepyCookieDough** · 01-14-2009 01:59 PM

I guess the window would represent you... Also, it is between you and yourself... The brick would be the person (girl). The brick broke the window... She had been mean to you and hurt your feelings. That might represent that... Also you didn't really care afterwards as if it had to be done, maybe representing that she wasn't the one for you anyways and it was maybe the good way to get rid of her in the end...

Could that be right? Tell me if it doesn't make sense...

Then the other part would mean...

The wind is what caused you to look at her. How did you meet her in real life? Maybe her sister/friend was another her as if you see her as a two-faced or something of that type...

**paragon** · 01-14-2009 07:38 PM

Hi. You would probably get more responses if you posted this in the dream interpretation section.

What exactly is it that you're worried about? I'm not sure how to give you advice because if I had experienced what you've described, it wouldn't bother me. But then, I guess I view normal dreams as just a spillover from whatever happens to be in our subconscious. Perhaps she just entered into your subconscious for whatever random reason, then you got stressed out in your dream for whatever reason - perhaps you're angry or resentful about what happened, and because you've been worrying so much about the dream, it's hanging around in your mind and you keep dreaming about her again and again.

Probably not what you were looking for, but I personally don't see anything to be worried about in it.

**lizard** · 01-18-2009 05:56 AM

Originally Posted by paragon

Perhaps she just entered into your subconscious for whatever random reason, then you got stressed out in your dream for whatever reason - perhaps you're angry or resentful about what happened, and because you've been worrying so much about the dream, it's hanging around in your mind and you keep dreaming about her again and again.

I think that sounds right. Not so sure about SleepyCookieDough's interpritation though

hehe thanks guys (& girls)

**SleepyCookieDough** · 01-18-2009 01:20 PM

LOL! Same here

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