This is a very complicated topic.
My stance seems to brings out an auto response from people of immediate disgust. Leading them to believe i am against -"gay"
I am not! But here me out. You most likely have heard my view before. (sorry for the redundancy)

I need to walk a thin line. When all is said and done if people would try to relate to what I say it would in all probability HELP gay people.

The main provoking issue - Gays should be considered to have a disorder.
Why. Can you argue that it is anatomically correct to not be able to reproduce?

It does not matter whether it is nurture or nature. examples
nature imposes many disabilities in mind and body. Autism, crones diseases, mental retardation, a limb missing, ADHD, schizophrenia, SAD, Depression, anxiety.

There is no need to parallel gay with any of the above, just as you would not compare anxiety to another disorder.

But by admitting and distinguishing that homosexuality is a disorder, then operate measures can be made.
1. It separates gays from the religious tie that has been out upon them.
Allowing gay marriage. (We would see it inappropriate for other disorders to not be able to be married.

2.As we have seen with many categorized disorders (like personality disorders) they are beginning to be more socially accepted. With that in mind, they too could be recognized and accepted.

3.Perhaps more research could be generated to understand homosexuality. I don't think most gay men and woman lead a fulfilling life. This is an assumption.

Is this an obscure view? I really do not mean to offend anyone. And I have nothing against gay people. But if thinking that it is a disorder cast me in a realm of insanity, then I need more counter arguments.

I did not just come up with this over night.
And YES. I have had feedback from gay people.