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      Tell me about being monotone

      Whenever I talk I am so monotone and I don't purposely do it. If I am talking to a stranger or ordering something to eat or anything where it is somebody I don't normally talk to, I am so monotonous and show no emotion. And I am also very unsmiley. I don't smile a lot out in public. I smile and am crazy and loud with friends but around everybody else I am kind of dull. Tell me how to improve upon these things. I am probably over-exaggerating all of this. I just know I seem to be unemotional and very contained in public and I don't want to be that way.

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      I'm the same way. So I can't help you much, sorry.

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      Haha. We can start a club.


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      Quote Originally Posted by eppy View Post
      Whenever I talk I am so monotone and I don't purposely do it. If I am talking to a stranger or ordering something to eat or anything where it is somebody I don't normally talk to, I am so monotonous and show no emotion. And I am also very unsmiley. I don't smile a lot out in public. I smile and am crazy and loud with friends but around everybody else I am kind of dull. Tell me how to improve upon these things. I am probably over-exaggerating all of this. I just know I seem to be unemotional and very contained in public and I don't want to be that way.
      If your slightly drunk or slightly stoned you'll probablly wont have that problem. Always keep a flask of Vodka on ya.

      Or just force yourself to be more open. That could work too.

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      Quote Originally Posted by eppy View Post
      Haha. We can start a club.
      I'm joining. I have to make a conscious effort to put pitch variance, expression, etc. in my voice when talking.
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      Quote Originally Posted by Odd_Nonposter View Post
      I'm joining. I have to make a conscious effort to put pitch variance, expression, etc. in my voice when talking.
      What should we call this club?

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      We were starting a club in Chat today.
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      This shit never happens to me

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      I guess everybody is like this
      Well there is hope. I'm sure it can be fixed with effort.


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      Don't worry too much about it, sometimes these things change with time on their own anyway.

      Also, if you're particularly dull around certain people, then those probably aren't the right people for you to hang out with in the first place.

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      Being emotionless and monotone around strangers is common for most people in society. It's kind of a shield we put up to protect ourselves in unfamiliar surroundings. Tearing down that wall can be hard, but I'd have to say that the easiest way to do so is to make more friends. Half the time it's you closing yourself up, but the other half of the time is the people you meet who do the same thing. Slowly build a reputation of being approachable and it'll naturally get easier.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Umbrasquall View Post
      Being emotionless and monotone around strangers is common for most people in society. It's kind of a shield we put up to protect ourselves in unfamiliar surroundings. Tearing down that wall can be hard, but I'd have to say that the easiest way to do so is to make more friends. Half the time it's you closing yourself up, but the other half of the time is the people you meet who do the same thing. Slowly build a reputation of being approachable and it'll naturally get easier.
      See, when he says it it sounds so simple. =P Not saying that he doesn't speak the truth though.

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      Tell me about being Ben Stein.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Jeff777 View Post
      Tell me about being Ben Stein.
      His name is Ben.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Jeff777 View Post
      Tell me about being Ben Stein.
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      His name is Ben.
      And he occasionally does commentaries on the CBS Sunday morning early show
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