Thread: What the fuck is going on with me?

Are you forcing masturbation, or masturbating when you're not horny, simply just out of routine?

Originally Posted by ClouD

Are you forcing masturbation, or masturbating when you're not horny, simply just out of routine?

Is such even possible? I can't imagine having an erection if I was not horny.

Are you still looking into religion- more so now than perhaps the past year?
Do you feel weak? Feel unable to control your urges? Are you depressed about your fantasies? (I try to avoid masterbation 1) for religious reasons 2) because my fantasies are disgusting and I can't change them).

Black Eagle... I'm not a guy, but don't guys normally (or commonly) having "morning wood"? That's not about arousal but physiology (sp)?

Originally Posted by Zhaylin

Black Eagle... I'm not a guy, but don't guys normally (or commonly) having "morning wood"? That's not about arousal but physiology (sp)?

Well yes, but I usually wake up thinking about sex. Maybe it's different for other people.

Take a week off.

Quit for a month or find a girlfriend.

I think ClouDs questions need to be answered first. I mean, I was brought up catholic and I didnt feel bad about masterbating ever, still dont.

Most people do it before it bed because it relaxes them. It lets all of your hormones out. It seems to be maybe that the only thing making you feel good is your horny hormones. When you wank they dissapate and then you are stuck with not much. I dont know, just a guess.

I probably do need to save up, because that way I will feel better about my sexy hormones.

My fantasies would be disgusting (to most of you maybe not Cloud) but that's not the problem. I am still looking into religion and stuff and although at first it gave me some extreme shame issues these have mostly gone because I feel that masturbation is sort of essential. Likewise with sex before marriage. There's no way you can expect that to stop. Plus it allows you to choose who is best for a spouse. Perhaps the shame has gone into my unconscious mind. I know my fear of hell is still there.

It is simply a pretty automatic low as if I have exhausted my happy chemicals like a hangover. I guess I'll just have to save my wanking for the evenings.

It is the feeling of horniness I like better than the climax. I fact I don't even think I orgasm.

I'm very curious now.
My ex-husband wasn't sexually satisfied with me and used to rub that fact in my face often. He'd claim he didn't even orgasm but he ejaculated.
Can a man ejaculate without having an orgasm?

I never have. It is much harder for a guy to fake an orgasm. Though it may be possible, i just dont think so.

Originally Posted by Zhaylin

I'm very curious now.
My ex-husband wasn't sexually satisfied with me and used to rub that fact in my face often. He'd claim he didn't even orgasm but he ejaculated.
Can a man ejaculate without having an orgasm?

No

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Originally Posted by Zhaylin

I'm very curious now.
My ex-husband wasn't sexually satisfied with me and used to rub that fact in my face often. He'd claim he didn't even orgasm but he ejaculated.
Can a man ejaculate without having an orgasm?

Kind of, but it's more like precum. We can however do the reverse, orgasms without ejaculating are the best

Originally Posted by Idolfan

I fact I don't even think I orgasm.

I think that might be it right there. Not orgasming is extremely frustrating for a guy. If you can't even orgasm when you are alone with your freedom to fantasize, you probably have some kind of medical problem you should get checked out. This sounds like an issue for a doctor, not lucid dreamers.

Thanks for the answers

And because of them, I second what UM just said.

Men can orgasm without ejaculating, and they might be able to ejaculate without having an orgasm, but it would be really weird and probably have to be under special circumstances.

Originally Posted by Maverick

Men can orgasm without ejaculating...

Proof please.

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Originally Posted by O'nus

Proof please.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm#Multiple_orgasms

http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/cmo.html

http://sexuality.about.com/od/orgasm...emultiples.htm

Yes it is possible.

I read that wrong.. my apologies. I thought you said men can ejaculate without orgasming. A dyslexia of small case.

And after consideration, I do believe that ejaculating without orgasming is called pre-mature ejaculation. In which case, it does not surprise me that the man would get angry about it because he has a lack of control and projects his anger onto the woman. If a man is having this happen, tell him to seek sexual help or talk to the doctor about it.

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I ejaculate alright, but the last time I had something I can actually call an orgasm was when I was OFF MY HEAD on weed.

This isn't too bad now, must have just been a phase. I haven't wanked in almost 2 weeks so I couldn't say but presumably as long as I just keep it to the evenings I shouldn't see any mood changes.