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I once dated a girl I had been chatting with on MSN for some time about six years ago, and although everything felt optimal online it was completely different when we actually met for the first time. |
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Stephen LaBerge's Full Seminar in Russia, 1998
Стивен Лаберж - Осознанные сновидения. Весь семинар 1998.
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I've been pushing myself at online dating lately, doing the POF and OKCUPID thing, but I'm taking a break after yielding no results. The real world is just such a better playground to get to meet and know new people. A lot of the same faces online that you can't get away from. Get this, this one chick blocked me after I sent apparently the wrong kind of message, or just didn't look like something she wanted, but I still have to see her face in search results, because I can't figure out how to block her back. Anyone know how to do this? |
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naturals are what we call people who did all the right things accidentally
My approach to online dating is just a lot of volume. I message like 50-70 girls a week and maybe 5-10 per week respond, maybe 2-3 out of those evolve into more branching convos and then maybe one or two of those meet me. Then out of those I meet I creep out about half and get intimate with the other half. |
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@rick. Yeah man I wish it would just remove girls you've already tried to contact. |
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[QUOTE=AURON;2089621]@rick. Yeah man I wish it would just remove girls you've already tried to contact. |
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Final update: copy pasted about 10 or 20 more women, got plenty of views and no replies. I've reached the magic 100 and only got two replies. Fuck people who don't reply to messages, fuck people who have race preferences, and fuck that site. The last time I went out I didn't find anyone, but at least I had a conversation with a girl. This site makes me feel pathetic. Obviously I'm not, but I was on the verge of contemplating a mail-order bride at some point. |
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You need to come up with something a bit better than "Hi." Not saying that race is not an issue (it might be in online dating), but its probably not as a big as you think. Also how are the pics on your profile? If you are getting visits some girls might still be considering replying so maybe there's an issue there. |
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Being a young gay guy in a small town where there's barely anyone out... All of my relationships have begun online and long distance (and stayed that way until their ends unfortunately) as a matter of fact two of them were from this very site! |
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Wow, it sounds tough for males on dating websites. That's unfortunate. |
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Last edited by puddlekins; 03-21-2014 at 03:02 PM.
Yeah, you guys are probabaly right. I'm sure I'll try again when my classes start up. |
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I did the on-line dating thing. I learned alot. Here are a few things. |
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So my friend just got out of a relationship, and I recommended plenty of fish to him. He's a good looking guy and I thought he would do pretty good. |
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Oh yeah, we have identical thumbs. Mine are a bit more feminine. As for the looks thing, I'm about a 4.5. My attitude makes me a 2 or 7 depending on what the person is into. |
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That would be my sincere advice. I just approached lots of girls until I could stay calm and not blush when they rejected me. Also, they say in order to increase the number of people who say yes to someone, you must increase the number who say no. I guess that is something like "if only 1 in 5 women will be interested in you, then you approach 15 a year and always have a couple interested females to interact with." |
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If you're not comfortable with your looks, why not work on them? Improve your physique (healthy diet, regular exercise, plenty of sleep/naps, etc), improve the look of your skin, do something with your hair, and update your wardrobe. Once you've got that down, work on your teeth and facial expressions (I've read that these two go a long way). |
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I see potential for a different direction for this thread.. |
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Ohhhhhhh JEEEEEEZ........this thread. Well, I guess a status update is in need. No, I'm not a 4.5. My self confidence was at an all time low. I found a girl in real life, and she's wonderful. The only thing I learned on that site was how to become disappointed and frustrated. But on the other side of the coin, the girl who introduced me to my girl, is dating my friend. They met on that awful site. Funny how things work out. |
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'So far, nothing has happened. Had a few visitors, OkCupid tells me that five people have "liked" me... but what really annoys me is that it keeps telling me that some people are "exceptionally good matches", I check them out and they're really NOT. I mean, I've answered almost two hundred questions, I'm obviously someone who'd rather stay home and watch a film, and yet OkCupid keeps telling me to see women who are super party people. GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER, OKCUPID!!!' |
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Wow! Long time, eh, thread? |
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