Is lucid dream sex actually possible?

**liam12345677** · 10-12-2014 12:18 PM

So, being a horny teenager, this aspect was one of the main things that attracted me to lucid dreaming: the ability to have sex in a dream. In fairness, most guides and introductions to lucid dreaming advertise having sex as one of the cool things you can do.

The problem is that I haven't seen many stories on the internet where people have successfully had lucid dream sex. Most of the time, the dream ends as soon as they 'start' having sex, and in others, they can't climax in it.

So, have any of you on here actually had sex in your dreams before? Is it just a case of having a high level of lucidity, and a lot of LD practise to keep the dream stable?

Also, while we're on the topic of sex, wouldn't it just be possible to find a conventient 'sex pill' in your medicine cabinet which makes you have an orgasm instantly rather than having to go through all the trouble of stabilising the dream and having sex?

**Nfri** · 10-12-2014 02:45 PM

I had dream sex many times, but usually it somehow wakes me up. Few times I had long lucid sex (20 minutes+) ended with great orgasm. What helped me is to find a DC who is horny and interested to have sex with you. Recently I don't seek for lucid sex, there are better things to do, but it's definitely worth it!!! Your young hornyness could help you with motivation which is great!

**Sageous** · 10-12-2014 04:11 PM

Yes, lucid sex is definitely possible, as I'm sure you will discover soon. And yes, it is the result of practice and experience (but not a whole lot), so be patient, keep up the expectations, and be ready when the time comes.

A small warning: if you do succeed in having sex in your dream, don't be surprised if your waking-life body did its thing right along with you, and you wake up with a mess to clean up!

Originally Posted by liam12345677

Also, while we're on the topic of sex, wouldn't it just be possible to find a conventient 'sex pill' in your medicine cabinet which makes you have an orgasm instantly rather than having to go through all the trouble of stabilising the dream and having sex?

I never heard of such a pill, but wouldn't using one sort of take the fun out of the whole exercise?

**Nfri** · 10-12-2014 05:16 PM

Originally Posted by Sageous

A small warning: if you do succeed in having sex in your dream, don't be surprised if your waking-life body did its thing right along with you, and you wake up with a mess to clean up!

Never happened to me... As S. Laberge suggests in his book this night ejaculation stuff has no connection with the dream sex and dream orgasm.

Originally Posted by liam12345677 View Post
Also, while we're on the topic of sex, wouldn't it just be possible to find a conventient 'sex pill' in your medicine cabinet which makes you have an orgasm instantly rather than having to go through all the trouble of stabilising the dream and having sex?

I heard that if you give a rat power to control brain impulses over orgasms, they will repeat it until the starve to death, so if there would be such a pill, there would be much less people

**Sageous** · 10-12-2014 05:38 PM

Originally Posted by Nfri

Never happened to me... As S. Laberge suggests in his book this night ejaculation stuff has no connection with the dream sex and dream orgasm.

I was speaking from experience (mine and others), and not from something LaBerge suggested. If it has no connection, then I guess it was a helluva coincidence!

**ThreeCat** · 10-12-2014 06:14 PM

Most NLD sex ends in a mess for me. Most lucid sex tends to result in a "braingasm"--feels just as real (or better) with absolutely no physical ahem repercussions.

And to back up Sageous, I've had the alternative happen as well.

**Nfri** · 10-12-2014 07:18 PM

Originally Posted by Sageous

I was speaking from experience (mine and others), and not from something LaBerge suggested. If it has no connection, then I guess it was a helluva coincidence!

My belief about the subject is based on my own experience and few experimentations that Laberge describes... If you people have different experience, then I agree that theory may be wrong.

**OneUp** · 10-12-2014 10:52 PM

A small warning: if you do succeed in having sex in your dream, don't be surprised if your waking-life body did its thing right along with you, and you wake up with a mess to clean up!

Nah I don't think its a coincidence because this has happened to me many times. I'll just have done the deed to a fine woman in an LD and wake up with that entire "mess" lol. I think its more likely to happen depending on the last time you actually ejaculated. The more recent that you did it, the lower the chances of having that mess. Of course this is just from my experience though.

**Xanous** · 10-12-2014 11:26 PM

I had the issue of waking prematurely in the beginning, but here lately most of my lucid sex dreams result in my being able to finish. Also, a strange thing that I have noticed is that though I may have an intense sexual release that is sometimes better than waking life, I don't always have a mess to clean up. I am usually very surprised at this. In fact, this happened to me just this morning.

**PercyLucid** · 10-15-2014 07:35 PM

Indeed it possible and you can reach any sex goals you have, go crazy or, well... your imagination is the limit. Just remind yourself you are dreaming so you keep your lucidity strong and vivid!

**BarefootDreamer** · 10-31-2014 09:44 AM

As a female I can also add that, yes lucid dream sex is definitely doable. It takes a bit of practice, but not that much, really. And it's awesome. You can have sex with whomever you can dream up [I was rather partial to Angelina Jolie for a while, for instance

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And I think it would be just as easy to dream up an orgasm pill. Thanks for the idea

**PercyLucid** · 10-31-2014 08:42 PM

Originally Posted by BarefootDreamer

And I think it would be just as easy to dream up an orgasm pill. Thanks for the idea

Lol... not a bad idea!

**Psionik** · 11-01-2014 12:18 AM

Not being a teenager, but I had from time to time tried to engage such activities... Well only slightly. I can maintain control till arousal grows to certain level... stronger arousal is corrupting dream reality by me.
I even remember short experiments while out of body, when I found willing beings... which is not often, but in astral it is even harder to maintain connection, it throws me out rather fast. LD is simpler in this sense.

**HoldOrFold** · 11-08-2014 07:15 PM

Yeah, definitely possible I've done it several times. I remember one time becoming lucid, thinking I want sex... thought Megan Fox would be a good experience so I did the old turn around and say "x will be behind me" and sure enough in the distance Megan Fox was walking up holding a boyfriend's hand. So I grabbed her hand, stole her from her bf and whisked her away into some backroom somewhere and we did the deed which ended well.

There's been other times where I've wanted sex in an LD and then when I find someone it would be too intense and I would just jizz straight away most likely because I was doing semen retention and hadn't released for weeks.