blatentfish.. host is always there. .its just the server not a person.
also i came in. BUT i was testing a new avatar, that you did not have.. so i bet the client crashed on your end. trying to load a model you didnt have.. please come back in sometime and try some more.. ive seen up to 8 poeple on at times.. and i havent started advertising the chat yet.. i can support 100s in there.