Originally Posted by
Squishdiboo
If a guy who I was just getting to know suddenly started making sexual jokes, and I could sense he was basically just trying to get a feel for whether or not I want to date him or whatever, I'd be really bothered.
I don't have a problem with sexual jokes in general, it's really a matter of how casual the relationship is, and who it is making the joke.
Some guys just cannot pull this off without coming off as creeps, even accidentally, so I think it's terrible advice to suggest that they give it a try, especially to test a girl to see if she's interested. I would assume if someone is asking people on the Internet for advice on the matter, they're not particularly practiced in interacting with girls, so they'd probably not be experts at judging what's appropriate. If starting a relationship with this girl is important to the OP I think he should try not to do anything that might scare her off.
Making jokes like this may work out for some people, but it won't work for everyone. There are too many unknown variables to put your confidence in it.
This was just a response with regards to the idea of making sexual jokes and flirting with a new girl, not aimed at you specifically, tommo.