As the title says, I was just wondering that how could anyone (including me) find someone alike him/her? Well we are somewhat alike here in this forum, and mainly I thought that if I want to find someone alike me, that person might do the same things, right? But starting out from myself, I'm going out but not that much, I'm not smoking and not going into parties in town, rather to a friend where we are 4-5 with no girls at all.
I was always pretty serious all my life, maybe this just drove me overthinking stuff and willing to "already" find someone, but I want to, and I know it can't get boring for me, nor for her if we are alike. Of course as anyone else, I could have already have a few, if not a lot of girlfriends, but I'm still that ordinary idiot who also cares about inners.
So, where to?
Bars are out, no one wants drunk dating ot anything, at least not me. However I tried, well, didn't really met anyone like me, or they were too drunk .
Cinemas? Pretty low chance, but sure who doesn't go to see a movie sometimes? Yet no.
Billiards / bowling / darts? Never really saw a girl there, or if I did than with a boyfriend.
Restaurants? Oh come on, when you are eating and someone comes in just stand up and go there or what? That's just silly, and didn't work.
Cafe bars (or what)? I'm not drinking cafe, hate it, sport gives me enough power through the day.
Sport? Well, didn't ever see a girl doing any self-defence thing personally, but we'll see, I'll start a new one soon.
Camps / tours? Mostly there are families going, my family is not that type, and didn't ever see a girl in my age. Hell, I would neither go alone.
So, I just want to hear ideas or anything, I don't know. I already got over my shyness mostly and willing to do many things, whatever needed to find her.
I'm just asking because no matter how much I'm thinking, can't nail this one, and I'm trying to give as much chance for it as possible, even if this post moves only like half percent.
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