Turn on's/turn off's in a guy/girl
There might already be a thread on this, in which case I apologise, but I did a search and it didn't come up with anything.
O.k, so tell me what you look for and what you don't look for in a guy or girl, this could be personality and/or looks.
Here's mine-
I'm a girl, and I'm straight, so...
Turn On's
1) Cute Guys (Guy's that are just adorable and you can take them home to your parents and they'll love them)
2) Funny Guys (Who can just crack you up all the time and you never run out of things to talk about and there's no awkwardness because you don't know what to say to each other)
I really can't think of anymore turn-on's right now. I have quite a few turn-off's, but basically I'll find any guy attractive who is sweet, kind, funny and down to earth. Any hair colour, any height (well ok I'd prefer them to be taller than me- 5'8) Any weight, except for really really skinny.
Turn Off's
1) Bad Boys (big turn off, I know loads of girls like bad boys and most guys think we like bad boys, but with me you ain't gonna get anywhere if you are a bad boy. What is the point? It's obvious you're gonna get screwed around with them, I've learnt from my best friend who has a thing for bad boys not to go for them. Plus, I'm just not attracted to them.)
2) Really Muscly guys (Don't like it, some muscles are ok, but if he's in the gym everyday getting huge muscles, well I'm just not attracted to that.)
3) Really skinny guys (Don't know why, I just like something to grab hold of I guess lol)
4) Arrogance (I like down to earth sweet guys and I hate arrogance. Confidence is fine, but not when he thinks he's all that.)
5) Too good-looking (Yeh I know it's a weird turn-off. I like "normal guys" who can win you over with humour and cuteness, not a Brad Pitt lookalike. I don't want a model for a boyfriend, they seem to not have much personality. This doesn't go for all really good-looking guys, but most I have found. Also with the muscles thing, I don't like 6-packs, that might sound weird, but I like cuddly guys lol.
O.k so that's me, I hope I haven't come across as too shallow or anything! This is just what I find attractive and don't find attractive, it doesn't mean that I won't go for someone who is muscly or a bad boy in the future, I might change, but for the time being, this is my list.
Now you go