Thread: tell me about first kisses...good or bad

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Okay, first kiss on the lips right. It was terrible. I was 14 and had just started high school, the guy was like 16 or 17. He was very attractive physically, but every other way, not at all. We had sort of been dating, but not really. We argued a lot. So I didn't like him much. After some long school fund raiser thing, the gym was isolated. I remember sitting next to the entrance to the gym coz I was the "greeter person." I was in a chair messing around on my cell. He came out of nowhere and was apologizing for some crap. He just didn't get that I didn't want him romantically, and I thought it would have been mean to be so straightforward and say it. So we talked about some random stuff for a bit and I think he asked me to hug and/or kiss as a sort of "truce." Something like that. I think I just shrugged but I didn't really want to. He ended up doing it anyway, and it was....yeah. It wasn't even too proper, very small, not even fully on the lips. Like over half of them. (Because I believe I expressed my discomfort and pulled away a bit) Haha. I remember he looked very happy, no embarrassment at all. I was sort of disgusted. He asked when we could really "make out." I recall giving him a nasty look and looking on my cell. Then when we were both leaving he tried kissing again and I pulled away for real this time. The guy sort of stalked me after that, but I never talked to him after that. That is all.



Of course, later on you realize it's pretty good with people who you actually want to kiss.

Originally Posted by Shaelyn

Sixth grade was my first kiss. I liked this boy Aaron and he was with my best friend at the time (if I remember correctly). So, I began to go out with his best friend, Patrick, to make him jealous (lol). The same day I began to "go out" with Patrick he came up to me in gym and asked quite non-chalant "Can we FRENCH KISS after school today". I was suprised and disgusted seeing as I had no feelings for this boy and thought he was the ugliest most crooked teeth looking thing I could and would ever have seen. I said yes becauseAaron was standing nearby, hoping he would hear, and then metPatrick in the hall after school.

Hahahaha. I was very scared when I started reading, because in sixth grade my best friend was called Aaron and I had a girlfriend but only for about a week. But my first kiss wasn't until 8th grade. Phew!

Then again it does sound like me. Especially the good looks

Originally Posted by guerilla

wow

I was exaggerating a bit. I felt light headed and my vision went all fuzzy for a minute. I might have been having a stroke, come to think of it.

Originally Posted by Pensive Patrick

Hahahaha. I was very scared when I started reading, because in sixth grade my best friend was called Aaron and I had a girlfriend but only for about a week. But my first kiss wasn't until 8th grade. Phew!

Then again it does sound like me. Especially the good looks.

Lol ... thats funny. But I am purty sure it wasen't you seeing as how my sixth grade year wasen't too long ago. I am purty young lol. What a coincedence ... but aaron and patrick aren't really uncommon names. Hmmmm ...

Still waiting...

My mates are always asking me why I haven't kissed anyone yet, but its mainly because I am just waiting for the right person. Then some people just say, just go and kiss one of those sluts over there that would kiss anyone. Fuck that.

Originally Posted by Everlong

Still waiting...

My mates are always asking me why I haven't kissed anyone yet, but its mainly because I am just waiting for the right person. Then some people just say, just go and kiss one of those sluts over there that would kiss anyone. Fuck that.

Indeed, fuck that. I'm in the same boat, exactly the same thoughts

Originally Posted by stenny

Indeed, fuck that. I'm in the same boat, exactly the same thoughts

Yeah, I'd rather have my first kiss to be a moment that would be remembered by me for the rest of my life, not some mindless pash in a game of Truth or Dare.

My most significant kiss was with a boy I barely knew at this eastern North Carolina church camp Caswell. We were in small group bible study together and hit it off really well, but neither of us really talked about our orientations (I'm bi, he was gay). Anyway, it was the last night there and we were just walking and talking and we stopped and just looked at each other. Then we both just leaned in and kissed for what seemed like the longest time, but I'm sure it wasn't actually too long (didn't want to get seen, lol, might have gotten sent to some gay rehabilitation camp). Afterward we walked back and got to where the paths split up (I went to the left to get to my house, he kept following the little road thing) and I hugged him, well, we both sort of hugged.

I talk to him online every once in a while, but will probably not see him again.

No regrets though.

Originally Posted by Switch

I have It was actually much better than any guy I've ever kissed.

O__O
PIX OR IT DIDN'T HAPPEN!
In all seriousness, i've never kissed anyone either

I made out with a girl after hanging out at her house. She stood with her arms crossed infront of my truck door so it was easy to tell what she wanted. Was fun, but a bummer the relationship didn't last that long. Oh well, lotsa womenz in tha sea fo me',

Originally Posted by berryman13

O__O
PIX OR IT DIDN'T HAPPEN!
In all seriousness, i've never kissed anyone either

Nothing to be worried about really, unless you are older than 30. Then you are a loser. No offense if you are 30.

this thread should be locked there is already a thread like this one

I actually technically have had a kiss, but it was when I was like 4. Oddly enough it was a straight-up kiss between me and this other young girl. I don't actually remember it at all, I only know about it from a picture my mom snatched.

I haven't had a single kiss since. I'm not really all that much of a shy guy as I was several years ago but for some reason, I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like. Not shy about anything else, just getting close to a girl who I'm interested in. What can I say? I'm a freak of nature.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like. Not shy about anything else, just getting close to a girl who I'm interested in. What can I say? I'm a freak of nature.

My bet would be your not as much effected by it as me. I know the feeling though, when I want to go up to a girl I like, the girl I like now, it feels like the act that I would be about to commit is so alien in nature and my whole world will shake when I do it, and I just feel so threatened that I can never make the move, worst is that I really am so lazy,

All I can compare it to is Sleep Paralysis, you know where you feel you could at anytime take control of your body, but you cannot find your will to move the muscle to the slightest degree, this is what happens to my mind exactly.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

I still get that "Omg! It's her!" feeling whenever I'm around the girl I like.

I get that all the time. In fact, here's an extract from my journal on it. I replaced the names for privacy reasons.

Thursday 25th September, 2008

Anyway, the job induction began at 3:00. For the first two hours, we finished and gathered up paperwork, watched a few videos about the store, and answered a few questions. Then we were allowed to have a 15 minute break. During the break, me and my sister just took a walk around Elizabeth. Then, we spent another hour and a bit, watching more of the video and answering more questions. Then we were allowed to have a 45 minute break. There was nothing to do, so we just walked a couple of laps around the centre. At the same time, I thought, 'Wouldn't it be weird if I saw her here?' About a minute later, I walk around the corner, and guess who I see?

It was her! I nearly fainted when I saw her. As soon as I saw her face, I was struck with a huge feeling of happiness and surprise. It was so big that I was absolutely lost for words, and all I could give her was a nod of greeting. That same feeling struck me through the stomach, and I felt as if my heart had just skipped a beat. The feeling then passed to my legs and made them numb, and feel like jelly.
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Sure sucks...

I had my first kiss in 11th grade. She had already kissed one guy before me. It was good, but nothing like I had made it up be in my head. And don't get me wrong I really enjoy kissing, but my first one was nothing special. I'm inclined to believe it's because she wasn't much into kissing in general. It just wasn't her thing. I've kissed 3 other girls since then and they've all said I am a really good kisser.

Originally Posted by Everlong

I get that all the time. In fact, here's an extract from my journal on it. I replaced the names for privacy reasons.

Thursday 25th September, 2008

Anyway, the job induction began at 3:00. For the first two hours, we finished and gathered up paperwork, watched a few videos about the store, and answered a few questions. Then we were allowed to have a 15 minute break. During the break, me and my sister just took a walk around Elizabeth. Then, we spent another hour and a bit, watching more of the video and answering more questions. Then we were allowed to have a 45 minute break. There was nothing to do, so we just walked a couple of laps around the centre. At the same time, I thought, 'Wouldn't it be weird if I saw her here?' About a minute later, I walk around the corner, and guess who I see?

It was her! I nearly fainted when I saw her. As soon as I saw her face, I was struck with a huge feeling of happiness and surprise. It was so big that I was absolutely lost for words, and all I could give her was a nod of greeting. That same feeling struck me through the stomach, and I felt as if my heart had just skipped a beat. The feeling then passed to my legs and made them numb, and feel like jelly.
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Sure sucks...

Try talking to her.

Also cease writing a journal. You are not a female.

Originally Posted by Siиdяed

Also cease writing a journal. You are not a female.

Hey, males can have a journal as well, what's the problem with that? It could also be called, 'reflecting'. 'Reflecting' on my day helps me calm down after a rough one, and helps me solve my own problems. So I'm sure there is nothing wrong with that... You could even call it a daily documentation of my life, but that is just a blown up version of a journal.

Originally Posted by Everlong

Hey, males can have a journal as well, what's the problem with that? It could also be called, 'reflecting'. 'Reflecting' on my day helps me calm down after a rough one, and helps me solve my own problems. So I'm sure there is nothing wrong with that... You could even call it a daily documentation of my life, but that is just a blown up version of a journal.

You are writing a diary, in which your thoughts and emotions are being kept and treasured for posterity.

There may very well be a small, novelty padlock on said diary.

There is most definitely a doodle of a heart and two sets of initials somewhere within the pages.

You are a female.

Live with it.

I think it was in middle school sometime. 7th or 8th grade? But anyway, I was thinking at the time while we were making out that it could have been much better. I was also wondering whether I was doing a good job or not.

Edit: Oh, I had the first kiss with the girl I'm dating yesterday. We went off during break to the park and we're kissing on a bench there. I wasn't really into it. She kinda sucks at kissing honestly. It ruined the mood though when some college students came by and were like 'Look. They're soulmates.' saying jokingly. So I pulled away, right when she started to get deep into it. It was funny though.

Originally Posted by Grod

I think it was in middle school sometime. 7th or 8th grade? But anyway, I was thinking at the time while we were making out that it could have been much better. I was also wondering whether I was doing a good job or not.

Ditto, except in the 6th grade. I had expected much more, and not that it was bad or anything. Just wasn't that big of a deal.

If some of you guys are too shy or nervous when you're around a girl, just go to a party, get a little trashed and let the conversation roll from there. If not. . . Well, go get your first kiss before you're like 25 having never kissed a girl.

If your getting nervous about kissing a girl, just wait till the time comes to have sex. You'll never make it unless you just loosen and go for it.

Originally Posted by Siиdяed

You are writing a diary, in which your thoughts and emotions are being kept and treasured for posterity.

There may very well be a small, novelty padlock on said diary.

There is most definitely a doodle of a heart and two sets of initials somewhere within the pages.

You are a female.

Live with it.

Lol, I actually enjoy reflecting on my day everyday, if I don't do this, then I feel uneasy. However it usually involves a walk and me just talking thinking to myself about how the day went, it goes by much faster then writing, therefore I can cover much more.

i am asexual!
i dont like kissing guys with big lips. i dont know why. i find them attractive but i dont like to kiss them. girls are better =p

Originally Posted by Siиdяed

You are writing a diary, in which your thoughts and emotions are being kept and treasured for posterity.

There may very well be a small, novelty padlock on said diary.

There is most definitely a doodle of a heart and two sets of initials somewhere within the pages.

You are a female.

Live with it.

FYI, its on my computer dumbass and maybe you should stop being a faggot. It might actually help you get somewhere in life, rather than sitting around, and using the stereotypical view that only females are allowed to reflect upon themselves. So crawl out of your mums basement and go get a life.

I've had kisses in dreams, and those are some of the most incredible experiences I've ever had.