After talking to some people about a girlfriend, they asked me the question, "Do you want a girlfriend to date, or just as a girlfriend?"
What does that mean?
And what other kind of girlfriends could you get?
Printable View
After talking to some people about a girlfriend, they asked me the question, "Do you want a girlfriend to date, or just as a girlfriend?"
What does that mean?
And what other kind of girlfriends could you get?
I wouldn't dwell on it if I were you. Our highschool peers make things seem more complicated than they are. A girlfriend is a girlfriend.
Very simple here:Quote:
Tell me what kind of girlfriends you can have
Female.
Not exactly the answers I'm looking for...
What I mean is, they asked me if I wanted a girlfriend to date, or a girlfriend to just be a girlfriend.
I can understand what a "girlfriend to date" would mean, like going out to the movies or out to eat or something, but what does the other one mean?
Some couples don't go out on what most people would consider a date. Instead they just hang out with each other all the time like best friends. Maybe that's what they meant when they said "a girlfriend to just be a girlfriend."
Are your friends capable of communicating their points, or are you just not feelin' what they are saying?Quote:
Originally Posted by slayer
Ask THEM to clarify.
I think Black_Eagle's answer is what you're looking for. Some girls will want to go on lots of dates, others might just wanna hang out. In the end it's the preference on her (and your) part.
It doesn't need to be a complex matter. You want a girlfriend because you want one, enough said.
Requisite of girlfriend is a romantic and/or sexual relationship.
Love/sex, my dear Watson. Love/sex.
A girlfriend you date is someone that you like, that you see casually, you may go out on trips together, to the cinema, romantic places etc etc, and you may share intimate moments but you are not exclusive to each other, your not intending to spend your life with this person.
A girlfriend ( fullstop) is your girlfriend, exclusive and usually with some hope for a future together.
You can also have a play girlfriend, no romance, no love just basically friends that have a great time together and maybe act as each others plus one at family events and stuff.
I have a gay husband ( as well as my normal one) he is my plus one at places my straight man one get bored lol.
You're either confusing, or sick.Quote:
Originally Posted by marlie
explain the sick partQuote:
Originally Posted by ClouD
From what I know, a girlfriend to date is where you actually 'go out' with them, maybe to the movies or go shopping with them, mentioned above. Just a girlfriend doesn't involve any going out at all, you are just like really good friends, with added bonuses.
I'm sorry to go off topic, but I just have to be a smartass here:
:lmao: An egg is a single cell :tonguewiggle:Quote:
Originally Posted by Everlong
Sounds to me like the difference between just wanting a girlfriend for someone to hang out with casually, or for a real serious emotional bond. To me the casual one is just a waste of time, if I didn't really feel that close there is no point for me, then there are the people who have relationships just to have them, that is not worth it to me.
I don't like dating, but I'd like an emotional bond, but I've never been that open to anyone before with such feelings, so I am not sure how good it would play out.
I think people who have relationships just to have them are ridiculous and insecure about their self-image. I haven't had a kiss, a girlfriend, nothing. When asked, I tell them blatantly, not caring. I've actually been asked out, but I refuse to date a girl I am not also interested in. I've known people who haven't had anything either, but lie with the same blatancy as my very own truth. Then those very people who lied make fun of me XDQuote:
Originally Posted by LucidDreamGod
Yeah, "girlfriend to date" would, I assume, be to date. To accompany to movies, dinner. I think what they mean by a girlfriend just to be a girlfriend (assuming they are average wisdom/depth of thought rather than most common) is a girl that you hang out with just to say you have a girlfriend. The former would be someone with whom you enjoy spending time and the latter would be a mutually beneficial relationship involving some combination of food, prestige, sex, or any number of "shallow" purposes.Quote:
Originally Posted by slayer
I see it as, she isn't out there.
Love can just be a trick, and girlfriends are props for a fake happy life.
I'm pretty happy with the way my girl thing is going at the moment, actually (coming from someone who's never had a girlfriend in his life).
You've never had a girlfriend, but you've been with many girls? Sounds like an awesome lifestyle :OQuote:
Originally Posted by CoLd BlooDed
Fat ones. Fat ones that you won't ever leave because you're scared you won't ever find anyone else. Fat ones that don't even like you, and are simply abusing you for status and popularity - you're something to tuck into a fatty roll of flab along with a bag of chips and a greasy pie and a sweaty Subway sandwich. Fat ones that you can't talk to, because you're too shy and because they're too stupid. Fat ones.
...there's no truth behind that, I'm all alone really.
The fuck are you talking about? Slayer girlfriends aren't like your Pokemon card collection.Quote:
Originally Posted by slayer
I'm confused by this. Specifically how are they unlike his Pokémon card collection?Quote:
Originally Posted by Grod
I don't have pokemon card collection...
I do have Yu-Gi-Oh cards however...
Loser
Gotta catch 'em all.Quote:
Originally Posted by slayer