Bad. Very much so. |
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Well see, I really want to ask this girl out, but im afraid of getting rejected, so I considered asking my friend if he would ask her out for me. Is this a good idea or a really bad one? |
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REALLY bad... |
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I wouldn't have the same respect for someone who had someone else ask me versus someone who asked me himself. She might say yes, but it would be very awkward. |
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"If there was one thing the lucid dreaming ninja writer could not stand, it was used car salesmen."
Terrible, terrible idea. Passive aggressiveness is a turn off for everybody. You'll never impress anybody like that and you'll never learn to impress anybody. |
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Surrender your flesh. We demand it.
I'm curious why you thought that this was a good idea in the first place. Whether it's to your face or through a friend, rejection is rejection. (And by the way, you are guaranteed rejection if you proxy through a friend.) |
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well i know its a bad idea and i havent ever even gone out with any girl before. There is this girl i am trying to figure out how i can meet at school right now, but i would NEVER tell anyone to ask her out for me, even though i dont even know her, but my friends know her. |
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If you don't know her well enough to ask her out, maybe you should get to know her a little better first. Are you guys friends? Maybe you should invite her to do something with a small group, first. |
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Really really bad idea. |
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Bad Idea. When i was in jumior high some girl went up to me and said "My friend blah, likes you and was wondering if you'll go out with her." To which i said . "How Am I supposed to go out with someone i don't know. and why can't she ask me herself?" |
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I disagree with everyone here. |
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You think it's a good idea to ask a friend to ask a girl out for you? |
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Uh, uh, u-NOOOOO! |
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Please don't do that. i'm asking you as a friend man, here you can borrow some of my steel balls. Go ahead they won't bite. Yes alright now then... get your ass over there and get to know her THEN AND ONLY THEN should you ask her out! understand? |
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I have a dream...
I thought that's what you were implying when you said "I disagree with everyone here," since everyone here was telling him it was a bad idea. |
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Nope, was saying what's the situation. I've had someone ask a girl for me, and as it turns out we were together for a very long time. As it happened the circumstances meant it was almost impossible for me to put the question to her directly... |
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Well canoopy, I think your question has been answered. |
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Last edited by CRAZY BONE; 03-17-2009 at 04:43 AM.
Nah buddy dont do that. For one itll just make your first few minutes together way more awkward (not a good impression) and second why put yourself out there like that without knowing how she feels? |
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What you could do instead is have your friend invite her, plus you, plus some extras (for appearance's sake) over to his place to hang out. If the group's small enough, you'll get your chance to talk to her in a relaxed environment and then ask her out there. Or just focus on building a friendship first. |
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Well, everyone's already said it, but... |
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You do this every fucking time.
No sweat.
No tears.
No guilt.
You do this every fucking time.
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This was about 12 years ago now, before the internet and mobile phones. There was a new girl who moved into our street, we didn't know her well, but spoken a few times. Anyway, one weekend I saw her out with these other friends from out of town, as I'd stopped to say hi and stuff, only like a 10 minute chat as they were busy. |
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