You gotta look away every now and then. I have this one friend who just stares.. and stares.. and stares.. I think sometimes he forgets to blink, too. It's so unnerving. I don't understand how he thinks it's okay to do that. |
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I seem to have difficulty with this. How much is too much? Is that even a factor? Why am I so easily intimidated by this if I am talking to a guy friend? I can't seem to stare a guy in the eyes. When it's a girl it's easy and they usually tell me if I have nice eyes so I look forward to that. |
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You gotta look away every now and then. I have this one friend who just stares.. and stares.. and stares.. I think sometimes he forgets to blink, too. It's so unnerving. I don't understand how he thinks it's okay to do that. |
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I think I have terrible eye contact because I always think better if I look away. I think a lot of people don't really make eye contact and its not too big of a deal. Maybe if you are kind of an awkward person it would make it more awkward and make it seem like you are uneasy but in a normal conversation if you are showing other signs of interest then its no biggy. Just go with what feels natural, if you focus on how much eye contact you are making you may come across as creepy by overdoing it. |
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First thing's first: Eye contact is very important (IMHO). |
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I think that may be part of your problem. If you've been told, all your life, that you have attractive eyes, perhaps you subconsciously connect eye contact with sexuality and you're afraid of giving guys the wrong idea. |
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hm... i've never really thought about it much. Maybe you should just not think about it and you'll end up naturally making eye contact at moments you should, but not sit there staring into their eyes to the point that it's creepy. |
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Ahh I get it. I have been homeschooled most of my teen years sadly, that's when I really needed to socialize and really haven't talked to anyone |
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I never understood the thing about eye contact - how much is too much, too little, too long, too short - I've always just done it without thinking. |
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Starry starry night, paint your pallet blue and gray,
Look out on a summers day,
with eyes that know the darkness of my soul.
I keep terrible eye contact :/ |
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Very true. Eye contact is a natural thing. Forcing eye contact makes it unnatural, and sometimes obviously so. |
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I tend to avoid eye contact. I didn't even notice it until a friend of mine told me. I don't like looking into people's eyes too much - unless of course they're hawt eyes ^^ |
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Saying quantum physics explains cognitive processes is just like saying geology explains jurisprudence.
You know what I hate? |
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Yeah things like that can get pretty awkward. It's like when you are looking at something and then you think someone is staring at you, but you can only see them in your peripherals and so you look at them and then they actually weren't looking at you and then they look at you while you are looking at them to see if they are staring at you. |
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Dream Journal: Dreamwalker Chronicles Latest Entry: 01/02/2016 - "Hallway to Haven" (Lucid)(Or see the very best of my journal entries @ dreamwalkerchronicles.blogspot)
Seeing is an art form. |
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I hate it when you catch somebody staring at you, then you look away and back after a moment and they're still staring at you. Like they're either suspicious, checking you out (guys do this), or trying to challange you in some way. When that happens I just want to yell "What the fuck you looking at, buddy!?" During dinner time my mom used to always do that to me and my parents would get angry at me for telling her to stop. |
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Surrender your flesh. We demand it.
Ha! My kids would definitely sympathize! I used to have two computers, side by side, so I could monitor them while I was on. I can merely innocently *glance* at the screen and my brain captures the entire gist of what's being written or read. |
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On the computer privacy, I think it is important for kids to have privacy in what they are doing on the computers. Many times when they are hiding something, it is not something innapropriate, but rather just something personal. |
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My [then] 12 year old daughter started receiving a lot of out of state phone calls. It was from a guy named Jimmy who lived in New Jersey. When I asked her about him, she said he was one of her classmates but moved. |
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Surrender your flesh. We demand it.
The average stare is 1 second and 3 seconds is when people start to feel uncomfortable. In studies, a good 2 seconds with a smile is perfect to give a comfortable impression. |
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