What, no one has any thoughts on this, pro con or neutral? "You're a perv" or "hur hur, a hurr" are acceptable responses. Even if you're young and haven't done much dancing, do you think it's kind of gross or totally fine or what? |
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Any thoughts on grinding on the dance floor--how you feel about it, personal limits, prevailing attitudes? It seems like the current crop of early-20-somethings in particular have no hesitation to back that ass up or otherwise climb up on your junk. Even at hippie shows where the vibe is more friendly and less sexy, if I'm not there with someone often two or three random girls will get their frot on with me by the end of the night. On the exceedingly rare occasions I get dragged to an actual dance club, it's more like half a dozen. It's not like every girl I dance with goes there, but quite a few college and post-grad-age ladies seem totally casual about dry-humping strangers. |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
What, no one has any thoughts on this, pro con or neutral? "You're a perv" or "hur hur, a hurr" are acceptable responses. Even if you're young and haven't done much dancing, do you think it's kind of gross or totally fine or what? |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
I've never been to a dance club before, but it seems like that could be a really hit or miss thing. Personally, I wouldn't have a problem with it, but it seems like some people could easily be turned off by it. |
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White girl, you can ask her what the dick be like
And monster madness doing drive-bys on a fuckin fixie bike
Fuck it moron, snortin oxycontin, wearin cotton,
Oxymoron like buff faggots playin sissy dykes
Never been to a dance club...sounds like i should visit. |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
i tend to go to lounges, not typical dance clubs, which are very relaxed... but i wouldn't mind getting frotteured rotten by some hotties |
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I went to a couple dances over the summer with my track team. We went to nationals for the 14-15 ad 16-17 ages groups. Dances aren't really my thing so I brought my rubik's cube along. It was kinda strange, as there was a big ball of humping teenagers and then there was me, off to the side, playing with a rubik's cube. The other dance (there were 2 dances, the second the night after the first) had even more people in a mating ball. At that one I just slept. I found the whole ordeal rather strange and somewhat embarrassing. |
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I love it. Girls are way more receptive to you when dancing haha |
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I have a dream...
Sounds like I'm going dancing . . . |
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Not really my bag, man. It's just a bunch of people stuffed into a big, hot, sweaty, dry-humping mosh pit. Not really my idea of a good time...especially when the chicks would rather get off on each other than on me. If you took out all the guys, and made the women fairly attractive, and added some air conditioning, and if they were all attracted to me, bring it on. |
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Whenever I'm out I'm too busy being a bro and dropping jagerbombs and playing beer pong |
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Trashy. |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
It didn't exist 50 years ago, not to this extent, so yes. If I label it trashy, and |
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I'm really interested in it as a microcosm of increasing sexual openness in our society, especially because it's an example that many non-prudes (such as myself) feel ambivalent about. It seems like a good sounding-board for where people's boundaries lie. Is it trashy to have sex outside of marriage? Outside a committed relationship? Frequent one night stands? Any one night stands? Friends with benefits? What about suggestive dancing without contact, or traditional slow dancing with full contact? |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
I think there is a thread by hard_wired or idolfan about the increasingly sexualized status of our culture. |
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Both, I'd say. There is another line that can be drawn here as well. I use the |
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There's overlap, but definitely not a one-to-one relationship between permissiveness and licentiousness/objectification. A licentious culture will always take advantage of permissiveness, but a permissive culture need not be licentious. North America has a particularly odd blend of the two; having been more licentious than permissive through most of our history, our behavior is rather unbalanced now that we've "let the dogs out." |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
Perhaps I misunderstood you. You had mentioned being sandwiched at one |
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Heh, you're kind of mashing together everything I said. "Club" means different things to different people--in my experience, the chachi-ness or meat-market factor of a dancing establishment is inversely proportional to the quality of the DJ. If there's good music and a cool setting, people do indeed show up just to have fun, drink and dance. The point of this thread, however, is that more girls seem to be into 'making contact' in scenes where most of the dancing is NOT clumsy fuck-pantomime. The site of the "sandwich" was about half-and-half, say chach-factor 6/10. It was a trendy, rock-themed dance bar, not a place I would normally go, but sandwich-girl was definitely over-the-top for that environment. Other women that night didn't start out riding me, but at some point a non-verbal negotiation takes place, "Are we going there? Yeah? Okay." |
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If you have a sense of caring for others, you will manifest a kind of inner strength in spite of your own difficulties and problems. With this strength, your own problems will seem less significant and bothersome to you. By going beyond your own problems and taking care of others, you gain inner strength, self-confidence, courage, and a greater sense of calm.Dalai Lama
Our entire culture is obsessed with sex. |
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"La bellezza del paessa di Galilei!"
lol, you've obviously never been to a high school prom in the last couple of years. |
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Last edited by oniman7; 12-20-2009 at 11:18 PM.
I'm 36 years old and I don't recall EVER going to a dance club. |
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