Well there could be a number of reasons... |
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I don't know why I've always been a jealous person. & I HATE IT! So I'm really trying hard to know why the hell am I so jealous! Could you know the reason?! |
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Well there could be a number of reasons... |
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It's the ego... the source of so many of our problems. In western society we're brought up to believe the ego is the personality, and most people believe it is... but it's not. It's more like an armor we wear to hide our insecurities... acting tough and pretending nothing hurts us, hiding our vulnerability and sensitivity. The ego knows only 2 things... grasping and aversion. |
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Another way... very similar really, is to start reading some Carlos Castaneda books... especially the first, Teachings of Don Juan. The basic philosophy of shamanism as don Juan teaches it is very much like Buddhism... learning to stop letting emotions control you or letting other people's opinions affect you. He calls it the Way of the Warrior, and it's a great thing to understand and practice. I've been studying both, and I find it very liberating. In fact, once I really began to understand these ideas, which are still very prevalnet in the non-western (non-modern) world, I was pissed that my society doesn't teach or even value them. |
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Wow, yeah, thanks. It's been killing me all my life: all this. I know I have TONS of insecurities, I can't even let myself live! |
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It probably stems from insecurity. What sort of insecurity? Well, the kind where you are looking at the world from a scarcity standpoint, instead of an abundance standpoint. |
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You could be a weak, unattractive person without talents or desirable traits. Naturally, you want what people like me have. |
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Jealousy is essentially: |
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Prefer music to what. |
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You need to straighten out your priorities, son. |
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That's insanity. |
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I've never been completely sane. |
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I think our work here is done. And yeah, I'm taking partial credit for this. |
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I just like concluding things with BOOM. |
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Could you maybe give an example that would be typical of your situation? |
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i think jealously pretty much comes down to something you dont have . |
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That's not jealousy - that's envy. Jealousy is when you get all paranoid and suspicious that your partner is getting too friendly with other people. Is that the situation you're talking about Undead? |
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