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When i am dreaming i am not myself, all of my desires, ambitions, values and efforts change. I feel like i am just not the same person in my dream state, like i have no power there or control over anything.
If i am such a weak person in my dreams how am i ever going to take control, to be honest when i am sleeping it feels like i've been drugged out. When the consciousness is not really there, he can't really do much, and thats my case.
Any suggestions?
You need to get more conscious. How you do that is by practicing awareness and reality checks. It's what everyone does to get stronger in their dreams. They make dreams more stable and easy to control. It's not a matter of willpower or strength, it's about practice and habit for your subconscious.
Work out you mind with reality checks and awareness workouts and it is sure to get stronger.
I agree with what Origami said; you have to raise your self-awareness a bit so you're more aware of what you're doing, and also simply more aware of yourself. The more lucid you are in the waking state, the more lucid you'll tend to be in your dreams, so work on being conscious and set goals for how you want to act in your dreams.