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      sexual dreams

      recently (the last few nights) at least 1 or more of my dreams every night turn sexual. this is kind of starting to annoy me, since there are so many better things you can do in a dream than that. i mean, rather than doing some weird stuff that might trigger lucidity, i'm just messing around with some girl i do or don't know. is there any way i might be able to make this into a sign that i'm dreaming? it's been happening so often i figure i might as way try and find a way to make it beneficial to me

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      Do reality checks every time you are messing around with someone?

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      oh yea, girls are reaaaally gonna like that!

      haha, i can't do that.

      besides, it's been awhile since i've actually had a girlfriend, so i'm not currently "messing around" with anyone.

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      You could be discrete!

      Well, every time you think about it then.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Mikey Nick View Post
      oh yea, girls are reaaaally gonna like that!

      haha, i can't do that.

      besides, it's been awhile since i've actually had a girlfriend, so i'm not currently "messing around" with anyone.
      you dont need girlfriends to mess around lol. I havent had a girlfriend since 6th grade and i make it just fine... I get tired of the same girl after sex and seek new ones, cant help it haha.

      besides that, only YOU can make it a dreamsign we cant like help you use it as a dreamsign. you could just choke the chicken so you dont have those dreams.

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      Exactly. And reality checks don't mean mean you have to jump around and try to fly. Just pay attention to your surroundings, and take the mentality that you really are in a dream. Lucid living.

      Plus you act like you're afraid of having sex dreams.

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      Quote Originally Posted by Rainman View Post

      Plus you act like you're afraid of having sex dreams.

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      not afraid, i just don't like them cause they feel like a waste to me. i want my dreams to be stuff i can't do in real life. you know what i mean? i'd rather spend the time exploring or talking to people to see what they say. i mean you can do those in real life, but how often do you get to talk to those people, and the responses aren't their own but yours without you even realizing it? i mean that's cool!

      as for michael's post, there's something about my personality that just makes me want to be dating someone if i have sex with them. i dunno what it is, i just don't like the idea of doing things with someone you're not in a relationship with

      as for moonbeam's post, that was a very good idea! i hadn't that of that. and that's what i meant when i was asking for help. thanks moonbeam!

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      Good luck! (Since men think of sex like 1000X day or something, that will be a lot of RC's!) I think it will work.

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      not afraid, i just don't like them cause they feel like a waste to me. i want my dreams to be stuff i can't do in real life. you know what i mean? i'd rather spend the time exploring or talking to people to see what they say. i mean you can do those in real life, but how often do you get to talk to those people, and the responses aren't their own but yours without you even realizing it? i mean that's cool!
      Meh. Good point I suppose. I enjoy doing things I can't do in real life, but I see that as a waste of time mostly. It's fantasy land. I'd rather spend time improving how to become a better person by how I react to people. Putting myself in scenarios that are likely to occur so that I can work them out, so that I have some idea how I'd handle them when they happen in the waking world.

      Good luck! (Since men think of sex like 1000X day or something, that will be a lot of RC's!) I think it will work.
      I hate when people bring that statistic to the table. It's a silly, biased, unbacked generalization designed to make men look simple minded. It's clearly impossible to accurately say what a group of 3.[x] billion people are thinking, let alone how many times a day. Unless statisticians can now have machines that read people's thoughts.

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      Maybe you just need a relationship.. there was like a post about something like this early this year. Some dude suggested masturbation and she tried it. (She found it amazing)

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      Strange you mention this. Last night I was dreaming and I had a sexual dream. Err, toward the climax of my dream-relation, I almost suddenly partially woke up, yet still seemed to be dreaming, almost half and half. I woke up because of physical signs, but I could have sworn I was still dreaming, yet I remember being awake too.

      Is it possible that I could have actually be awake and processing what I was doing physically, and yet still dreaming?

      Err, it was awkward saying that.

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      I've heard of masturbation stopping sexual dreams too, but I can't remember where.

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      ^yeah that seems like it would be a good way to get rid of sexual dreams, because of the lowered urge.

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