WILD questionz?!

well i just attempted an Wild from an technique on here and kinda scary~ @_@ i just did that and it worked a little too well i went compltely almost numb but i knew i was asleep and i KNEW i couldnt move and flipped but i think i tried to calm myself down and thought *calm down your only dreaming heather* and then i slipped backward into reality ~_~ i mean how do you stop an lucid and wake up? like im always afraid ill end up trapped there forever :eek: esp. also after my body disconnected i was waiting for the dream to form but all i saw what just blackness?! i also tried to rub my hands together but i didnt even see my hands? or feel them? and i felt light and floaty?! thats when i flipped. any advice would be nice like on how to slip into a lucid after tricking your body into sleeping? also anyone get rapid eye movement? edit: yea i figured it wasnt rem but its really annyoing since ill be close to SP and my eyes will freak out and my eyelids end up flicking open too. sorry for the paragraph :bowdown:
BTW is this even considered a WILD? :?

Did you try it at bedtime or in the morning.
Sounds like you were in SP but not in a REM period.
Theres more chance of hitting REM in the morning.