It's hard to answer that question.
Yes you were aware since you did not do what you would normally do. But at the same it sounds like a normal dream.

You mentioned that you always happen to start fights so do a reality check when that happens and it should not be so hard for you since you're a little aware of whats going on in your dream. Or tell yourself before going to sleep that you will be dreaming about a fight and when you do, you will realize that you're dreaming.

good luck